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Replying to @L0rdsofsalem LET’S GET THAT NEW MINDSET #feminineenergy # — @growthforgirlies6.1M1:46@growthforgirlieswhen we see others show up unapologetically in a way we wish deep down — @healingsky3.3M2:29@healingsky#greenscreen #lesbiansoftiktok🏳️‍🌈 #secureattachment #queerrelationshi — @lesbiancouplesacademy3.2M1:12@lesbiancouplesacademyStop training that man to lie to you… #DatingAdviceForWomen #Detachmen — @ask_julia2.3M0:32@ask_julia👩‍❤️‍👩 Secure couples know how to take care of each other in public an — @lesbiancouplesacademy1.3M0:36@lesbiancouplesacademy#disorganizedattachment #codependencyrecovery #secureattachment #relat — @bekasmith_1.1M0:48@bekasmith_#stitch with @Shan How I healed my anxious attachment style for good ❤ — @awwlexis837.1K1:01@awwlexis#anxious #attachmentstyle #secureattachment — @quinn13791825.4K@quinn13791Sometimes the puzzle pieces just don’t fit #relationships #relationshi — @brandilyntebo728.9K2:37@brandilyntebo🌈3 things I never say/do with my avoidant-leaning wife. 🚫I don’t rush  — @lesbiancouplesacademy549.8K2:19@lesbiancouplesacademyIf this is something that you’re struggling with or carrying shame aro — @briannatris545.8K2:59@briannatris* Soft but strong * Expressive * Nurturing * Playful and radiant * Sur — @hey.shainamarie314.6K6:16@hey.shainamarieTry this with yourself and your partner #Insecureattachment #anxiousat — @themarriagetherapist283.8K1:56@themarriagetherapistThis is one of the most potent relationship tools I know. It’s simple. — @relationalalchemy110.6K10:01@relationalalchemyWhat do you and your partner score? #marriageadvice #relationshiptips  — @themarriagetherapist104.4K1:32@themarriagetherapistWatch out for number 10 #emotionallyavoidant #avoidantattachment #anxi — @themarriagetherapist99K2:53@themarriagetherapist#personaldevelopment #secureattachment — @quinn1379117.1K@quinn13791Becoming secure doesn’t happen overnight or by feeling less It happens — @healingwithcharlie16K@healingwithcharlieWhen the avoidant sets boundaries in a healthy way when they don’t hav — @erikagrundon15.6K1:25@erikagrundonOne of the most overlooked nervous system states!! Regulation is possi — @briannatris13.9K2:59@briannatrisIf you can answer these it’s a good sign you have a healthy level of c — @themarriagetherapist11.6K1:00@themarriagetherapist#anxiousattachment #secureattachment — @quinn1379111.4K@quinn13791The way we experience love and emotion in the present is often shaped  — @jahacademy6.7K1:39@jahacademyA story I’ve shared many times on podcasts, but never here. I used to  — @jahacademy6.3K0:11@jahacademySecure attachment doesn't mean you never get hurt. It means you feel s — @psychreavilla6.3K1:56@psychreavillaDEAR MAN! #relationship #healthyrelationship #healthyrelationships #da — @youtheceo6.2K1:03@youtheceoReminder that you aren’t born with your attachment style so this doesn — @briannatris5.3K2:28@briannatrisWhen you start doing the inner work, there’s often a pause - a season  — @jahacademy5.1K0:31@jahacademyIf you’re done not being a priority… #anxiousattachment #secureattachm — @themarriagetherapist4.5K0:09@themarriagetherapist#secureattachment #anxiousattachment #somatichealing #adviceforgirls # — @briannatris4.5K@briannatrisAku sering ditanya, “Kenapa kamu santai sekali soal menikah?” “Atau… k — @mindscriptsecret4.3K@mindscriptsecretThe avoidant pulls away expecting you to chase, overfunction, and prov — @coach.ryan04.2K2:58@coach.ryan0Is it dating anxiety - or is the dynamic actually healthier than what  — @jahacademy3.9K0:46@jahacademyYou can’t intellectualize your way to a secure attachment. #secureatta — @briannatris3.9K3:22@briannatrisDating anxiety isn’t something to be ashamed of. It makes sense if you — @jahacademy3.6K0:47@jahacademyEven if it still hurts, it’s possible!! #heartbreak #breakup #divorcet — @briannatris3.3K2:54@briannatrisWe tend to think only anxiously attached or fearful avoidant individua — @briannatris3.2K2:29@briannatrisNo one asked, but I could rant about this forever 🤣 Here’s why I’m ant — @jahacademy2.9K0:10@jahacademyThe text came at 4:12. It had been three hours. By 4:13 I’d watched a  — @melissadivaristhompson2.8K1:57@melissadivaristhompsonDating anxiety isn’t just nervous butterflies. It’s uncertainty. Hyper — @jahacademy2.8K0:52@jahacademyA little personal share to remind you: not all healing can happen alon — @jahacademy2.5K1:11@jahacademyDuring conflict, our nervous system can go into overdrive. We get emot — @jahacademy2.4K0:33@jahacademyReplying to @Hai it’s truly one of the best questions to ask yourself, — @bethathealinggirl2K0:59@bethathealinggirlmy boy will never be a latchkey kid #secureattachment #fyp #childdevel — @mustardseedhannah2K0:10@mustardseedhannahOnce you peel back the curtain, you might even be excited to keep lear — @briannatris1.9K2:02@briannatrisIs your nervous system wired for protection? 👇 Our nervous system, on  — @jahacademy1.9K0:55@jahacademy#relationshipgoals #love #relationshiptips #secureattachment — @attarischaa1.6K@attarischaaAnxious or Avoidant… there is no in between #secureattachment — @daytonaxle1.3K0:05@daytonaxleAre they only apologizing when you’re DONE? #peoplepleasingnomore #sec — @janette.xzeto1.3K1:01@janette.xzetoBecause wtf is being scared to speak up because it’ll “ruin” the day a — @janette.xzeto1.3K0:05@janette.xzetoLonger watch but worth it. Do x2 if your attention span is fried. #adv — @briannatris1.2K8:40@briannatrisDon’t be pressured out of following your healthy desires. #emotionalin — @themarriagetherapist1.2K0:51@themarriagetherapistI’m scared of conflict. How do I learn how to express myself? #avoidan — @erikagrundon1.1K1:29@erikagrundonIt’s what allows me to showing up for my kids, you, and myself. Thank  — @katyrobinbird1.1K1:30@katyrobinbirdHealthy love can feel unsafe when chaos used to feel familiar. If conf — @mindbrainbodylab9631:06@mindbrainbodylabyou’re not overthinking it. uncertainty demands our attention. as long — @kaveriinsession9391:17@kaveriinsessionIs your partner always comparing your relationship to someone else’s t — @janette.xzeto8701:10@janette.xzetoSet boundaries from a place of self respect not emotions. Comment “see — @janette.xzeto8271:06@janette.xzetoHE HAD TO FACE HIS EMOTIONS SOBER My client told me, "It's been the ha — @ana__lea__7942:30@ana__lea__For a lot of people, hearing the words *"you need to regulate"* doesn' — @stephanne221730@stephanne221

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