@ask_juliaaskjulia

Dating + Mindset + Beauty + Lifestyle Detach Like a BOSS 👔 Attract Like a SEDUCTRESS 💋 NJ/NYC 📬 juliacthecoach@gmail.com

card updated Oct 14, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 161 · 6,900,000 likes total

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Engagement11.03%above average

Account summary

@ask_julia has 214,600 followers and 1,048 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 701,830 views and 73,294 likes. Engagement to views is 11.03%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−4.43 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 327% of the follower count.

Followers

214.6K

+4.1K in period

Engagement

11.03%

−4.43 pp newer half

Average views

701.8K

median 2.4K

Likes per clip

73.3K

395 comments avg

Shares / saves

3.7K / 15.8K

2.26% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 327% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

Three things I learned from wealthy women at the country club. #highva — @ask_julia

2K2:09Three things I learned from wealthy women at the country club. #highvaluewoman #moneytalk #richgirl #weatlhywomen #quiet1342243

rich in life #bestfriends #bestfriends #bestiegoals — @ask_julia

2.5K0:11rich in life #bestfriends #bestfriends #bestiegoals 1712185

Rock bottom is not a destination it is simply a pitstop #SelfHealingJo — @ask_julia

4.7K1:19Rock bottom is not a destination it is simply a pitstop #SelfHealingJourney #HealingJourney #HighValueWoman #elevating3141213117

This dating advice is specifically for single moms . Share it with a f — @ask_julia

1.2K1:44This dating advice is specifically for single moms . Share it with a friend who needs to hear it. #DatingAdviceForWomen 62336

This is the biggest problem with going through his phone and how to ac — @ask_julia

1.2K1:20This is the biggest problem with going through his phone and how to actually go through his phone #DatingAdviceForWomen 36319

Here's how to stay soft and feminine even in a hard world that's meant — @ask_julia

1.5K1:33Here's how to stay soft and feminine even in a hard world that's meant to make us stone-cold. #Femininity #WomenEmpoweri830022

These are three compliments that are actually red flags and if he says — @ask_julia

5.2K1:26These are three compliments that are actually red flags and if he says any of these girl, you better run… #DatingAdviceF2688555

Replying to @Kimmie Bear 35 break up advice for girls who are having a — @ask_julia

1.5K1:32Replying to @Kimmie Bear 35 break up advice for girls who are having a hard time sleeping after heartbreak #BreakupAdvic8513638

The first time he yells at you that it freaks you out, you just leave — @ask_julia

2.3K1:13The first time he yells at you that it freaks you out, you just leave girl… There’s no trying to work it out #DatingAdvi1784434

Stop training that man to lie to you… #DatingAdviceForWomen #Detachmen — @ask_julia

2.3M0:32Stop training that man to lie to you… #DatingAdviceForWomen #Detachment #SecureAttachment #HealthyAttachment #HighValueW353.9K2K19K57.7K

In the, Art of Seduction, Robert Green, explains how seduction and att — @ask_julia

1.7M1:36In the, Art of Seduction, Robert Green, explains how seduction and attraction is not about pretending. It is about emoti148.9K4264.7K56.2K

When a high-value woman feels him pulling away, she doesn’t chase. She — @ask_julia

4.4M0:59When a high-value woman feels him pulling away, she doesn’t chase. She doesn’t cry. She goes silent because silence is p375.4K2.2K20.9K75.9K

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.3% ER

Nov 4Sep 4Sep 7

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 7, 2026	1,974	134	2	2	43	6.99%
Sep 6, 2026	2,466	171	2	18	5	7.75%
Sep 5, 2026	4,694	314	12	13	117	7.22%
Sep 4, 2026	1,211	62	3	3	6	5.62%
Sep 4, 2026	1,173	36	3	1	9	3.41%
Sep 4, 2026	1,481	83	0	0	22	5.60%
Sep 3, 2026	5,151	268	8	5	55	5.46%
Sep 3, 2026	1,513	85	13	6	38	6.87%
Sep 2, 2026	2,300	178	4	4	34	8.09%
Jun 2, 2026	2,300,000	353,900	2,034	19,000	57,701	16.30%
Dec 4, 2025	1,700,000	148,900	426	4,727	56,207	9.06%
Nov 4, 2025	4,400,000	375,400	2,234	20,900	75,931	9.06%