Chemistry matters. Of course it does. That electricity between two people is one of the great pleasures of being alive. Follow me then comment UPSPIRAL for more info about my programs. But chemistry is a terrible predictor of whether two people can actually build a life together. Because eventually somebody gets tired. Somebody gets scared. Somebody disappoints the other person. Somebody says the wrong thing. The fantasy cracks, and underneath it you finally get to meet the actual human being you fell in love with. That’s where the deeper questions begin. Can we repair? Can we stay curious? Can we tell each other the truth? Can we take responsibility when we hurt each other? Can we remain kind when life gets hard? And when neither one of us is quite as shiny as we were at the beginning, do we keep choosing each other? Chemistry can introduce you. Character, repair, curiosity, kindness, accountability, safety, and choice are what give love somewhere to live. #Relationships #HealthyRelationships #Love #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntimacy
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