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card updated Oct 30, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 8 · 2,800,000 likes total

Engagement11.71%above average

Account summary

@relationshipswithaly has 99,700 followers and 594 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 86,836 views and 8,550 likes. Engagement to views is 11.71%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−7.28 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 87% of the follower count.

Followers

99.7K

−100 in period

Engagement

11.71%

−7.28 pp newer half

Average views

86.8K

median 21.1K

Likes per clip

8.6K

62 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.6K / 1.1K

1.29% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 87% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

What do you notice about this conversation? Anything you like or don’t — @relationshipswithaly

50.9K1:13What do you notice about this conversation? Anything you like or don’t like related to the communication? Disclaimer: IG2.8K34776638

You can’t force your partner to care about something just like you do. — @relationshipswithaly

16.1K1:34You can’t force your partner to care about something just like you do. And, if you’re the partner who just doesn’t care 6011370230

Healthy communication isn’t about sugarcoating things or keeping thing — @relationshipswithaly

36.9K1:00Healthy communication isn’t about sugarcoating things or keeping things inside. It’s about speaking and listening in a w1K1294444

Tone matters. AND Your partner is allowed to be frustrated and sometim — @relationshipswithaly

21K1:36Tone matters. AND Your partner is allowed to be frustrated and sometimes speak in a frustrated tone. AND If you want to 1.5K64401503

Here’s what “fact -checking” is and isn’t in the context of relationsh — @relationshipswithaly

21.2K0:54Here’s what “fact -checking” is and isn’t in the context of relationships, because I know the term itself can cause a st5701564144

Nothing better than having an emotionally intelligent partner. Someone — @relationshipswithaly

58.4K0:45Nothing better than having an emotionally intelligent partner. Someone who accepts feedback without defensiveness. And t3.3K17683791

This is a tool I teach as part of TALK Like You Love Each Other, in th — @relationshipswithaly

2.5K0:55This is a tool I teach as part of TALK Like You Love Each Other, in the “assumptions” module. We all make assumptions ab15232574

You’re giving them too much credit for your own misery. The reason you — @relationshipswithaly

1.4K0:56You’re giving them too much credit for your own misery. The reason you’re blaming them so much is probably because you e753413

I cut this down from 12 minutes to 3 - so if you feel like there were — @relationshipswithaly

2.4K2:51I cut this down from 12 minutes to 3 - so if you feel like there were pieces missing that’s because there are! I tried t10701027

So…would you wake the baby? Just kidding. The real meat of this post i — @relationshipswithaly

1.2K1:01So…would you wake the baby? Just kidding. The real meat of this post is about how to move through gridlock when it comes26115

Are you stuck in negative sentiment override? (Assuming that your part — @relationshipswithaly

666.5K0:49Are you stuck in negative sentiment override? (Assuming that your partner has negative intentions, is upset with you, or75.5K49815.5K9.7K

Do you think IG will censore me for this? 😉 Why don’t you want to play — @relationshipswithaly

163.5K0:43Do you think IG will censore me for this? 😉 Why don’t you want to play “chess” with your partner anymore? Disclaimer: IG17K881K885

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.7% ER

Jun 6Aug 26Sep 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 28, 2026	50,900	2,759	34	776	638	7.01%
Sep 18, 2026	16,100	601	13	70	230	4.25%
Sep 8, 2026	36,900	1,031	12	94	444	3.08%
Sep 5, 2026	21,000	1,514	64	401	503	9.42%
Aug 28, 2026	21,200	570	15	64	144	3.06%
Aug 26, 2026	58,400	3,271	17	683	791	6.80%
Aug 24, 2026	2,491	152	3	25	74	7.23%
Aug 21, 2026	1,438	75	3	4	13	5.70%
Aug 18, 2026	2,432	107	0	10	27	4.81%
Aug 15, 2026	1,176	26	1	1	5	2.38%
Jul 16, 2024	666,500	75,500	498	15,500	9,699	13.73%
Jun 6, 2024	163,500	17,000	88	1,044	885	11.09%