@reallivehumantherapistGretchen Winterkorn-Therapist

Messy human *not* masking as healed therapist Pple aren't bad Health is grey

card updated Oct 18, 2026 · 10 clips parsed · following 232 · 471,900 likes total

Engagement6.36%normal range

Account summary

@reallivehumantherapist has 42,600 followers and 357 videos. Across the 10 parsed clips the average is 1,816 views and 99 likes. Engagement to views is 6.36%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.41 pp). Posts roughly 1.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 4% of the follower count.

Followers

42.6K

+0 in period

Engagement

6.36%

−1.41 pp newer half

Average views

1.8K

median 1.7K

Likes per clip

10 comments avg

Shares / saves

7 / 10

0.56% of viewers save

Posting rate

1.4 / wk

reach 4% of followers

Latest clips

10 collected

Therapy can be powerful. But therapists are not priests, judges, paren — @reallivehumantherapist

2.1K0:52Therapy can be powerful. But therapists are not priests, judges, parents, saviors, or moral authorities. And “go to ther96549

Research suggests that self-criticism often travels with high achievem — @reallivehumantherapist

1.1K1:24Research suggests that self-criticism often travels with high achievement — not because something is “wrong” with you, b33205

My PDA autistic son is teaching me something I can’t unsee: real love — @reallivehumantherapist

1.2K1:14My PDA autistic son is teaching me something I can’t unsee: real love requires autonomy. And the more I honor his selfho651143

Some of us don’t ignore our needs outright. We hide them inside compet — @reallivehumantherapist

1.8K2:02Some of us don’t ignore our needs outright. We hide them inside competence, caretaking, and being the one everyone can c92555

Not all caregiving is selfless. Sometimes it’s attachment, identity, c — @reallivehumantherapist

2.1K0:27Not all caregiving is selfless. Sometimes it’s attachment, identity, control, and the high of being needed. #beingneeded115111515

I get my mother now in a way I couldn’t before: as a mom, I understand — @reallivehumantherapist

1.5K0:36I get my mother now in a way I couldn’t before: as a mom, I understand how someone can love their children and still fee39412

I don’t want to shame these moments. I want to understand them. #paren — @reallivehumantherapist

1.7K2:49I don’t want to shame these moments. I want to understand them. #parenting #motherhood #nervoussystem #neurodivergent #s85141611

Same person. Different response. #bodyimage #weightloss #selfawareness — @reallivehumantherapist

2.5K1:25Same person. Different response. #bodyimage #weightloss #selfawareness #confidence #socialdynamics190857

The version of me before kids had a lot of opinions. #parenting #mothe — @reallivehumantherapist

1.3K1:36The version of me before kids had a lot of opinions. #parenting #motherhood #selfawareness #growth #reallife 781665

Having children is often framed as the most selfless act. But if we’re — @reallivehumantherapist

2.9K2:04Having children is often framed as the most selfless act. But if we’re honest… it’s also deeply human, driven, longing-f198191240

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 8.2% ER

Mar 19Apr 16May 8

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
May 8, 2026	2,136	96	5	4	9	4.92%
Apr 24, 2026	1,097	33	2	0	5	3.19%
Apr 23, 2026	1,240	65	11	4	3	6.45%
Apr 17, 2026	1,765	92	5	5	5	5.78%
Apr 16, 2026	2,051	115	11	15	15	6.87%
Apr 1, 2026	1,495	39	4	1	2	2.94%
Mar 27, 2026	1,680	85	14	16	11	6.85%
Mar 24, 2026	2,480	190	8	5	7	8.19%
Mar 23, 2026	1,333	78	16	6	5	7.50%
Mar 19, 2026	2,878	198	19	12	40	7.96%