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Melissa Divaris Thompson Licensed Relationship & Couples Therapist TikTok=Education Only 💓 media@embracingjoyconsulting.com 30 Day Relationship Reset👇👇

card updated Oct 17, 2026 · 20 clips parsed · following 534 · 10,200,000 likes total

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Engagement5.55%normal range

Account summary

@melissadivaristhompson has 394,900 followers and 1,068 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 1,784 views and 89 likes. Engagement to views is 5.55%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+0.43 pp). Posts roughly 6.0 times a week.

Followers

394.9K

+600 in period

Engagement

5.55%

+0.43 pp newer half

Average views

1.8K

median 1.7K

Likes per clip

3 comments avg

Shares / saves

7 / 25

1.41% of viewers save

Posting rate

6.0 / wk

Latest clips

20 collected

Someone asked me in the comments last week if this was for couples whe — @melissadivaristhompson

1.3K1:46Someone asked me in the comments last week if this was for couples where there's been some kind of infidelity. I've been591531

For the one who keeps showing up in their relationship, even on the da — @melissadivaristhompson

8380:39For the one who keeps showing up in their relationship, even on the days it feels like nobody sees it. If you're the par22206

You know that thing where your partner forgets what you told them on T — @melissadivaristhompson

1.6K1:54You know that thing where your partner forgets what you told them on Tuesday, and then sends you a video at 11pm that is9341435

The fight ends and nobody says anything for three days. You make coffe — @melissadivaristhompson

1.8K1:35The fight ends and nobody says anything for three days. You make coffee, you answer their text about the dentist appoint10231034

You're sitting across from your partner at dinner, and you can't remem — @melissadivaristhompson

1.7K1:28You're sitting across from your partner at dinner, and you can't remember the last real conversation you had. They're on800417

The quiet isn't nothing. It looks like nothing from the outside. You'v — @melissadivaristhompson

3K2:51The quiet isn't nothing. It looks like nothing from the outside. You've stopped talking, your face has gone flat, and th19083779

Hope is a beautiful thing. It's just a terrible strategy. For years I — @melissadivaristhompson

1.6K1:41Hope is a beautiful thing. It's just a terrible strategy. For years I thought if we loved each other enough, the same ar885823

Long distance doesn't usually end because of the miles. It ends becaus — @melissadivaristhompson

1.7K1:49Long distance doesn't usually end because of the miles. It ends because of everything that goes unsaid across them. Most563517

One person changes how they open. One person stops bringing it up at 1 — @melissadivaristhompson

1.2K1:15One person changes how they open. One person stops bringing it up at 10pm. One person comes back an hour after it went s680020

There's a book on your nightstand you've read twice. There's a podcast — @melissadivaristhompson

2.8K1:31There's a book on your nightstand you've read twice. There's a podcast episode you sent that never got opened. And there1361943

You can love someone and still feel like you gave up somewhere along t — @melissadivaristhompson

1.1KYou can love someone and still feel like you gave up somewhere along the way. This one’s for the person who stayed, kept19003

There’s a version of you that exists only in the car. The one who has — @melissadivaristhompson

1.1K1:52There’s a version of you that exists only in the car. The one who has the whole conversation planned. Calm voice, fair w37215

Twenty minutes in the car together this weekend and the radio did most — @melissadivaristhompson

1.7K1:57Twenty minutes in the car together this weekend and the radio did most of the talking. Neither of you was angry. There w1203215

A friend describes their weekend and you go quiet. Their partner plann — @melissadivaristhompson

1.4K1:36A friend describes their weekend and you go quiet. Their partner planned the whole thing. Booked the restaurant, remembe946526

Then I noticed what I actually light up for. It’s smaller than that. I — @melissadivaristhompson

1.8KThen I noticed what I actually light up for. It’s smaller than that. It’s someone finally asking what happened right bef47212

Coming back to yourself doesn’t mean loving your people less. It means — @melissadivaristhompson

9860:07Coming back to yourself doesn’t mean loving your people less. It means you stop disappearing to keep the peace. It means58311

The quiet phase can feel like the best stretch you’ve had in a year. F — @melissadivaristhompson

3.4K2:55The quiet phase can feel like the best stretch you’ve had in a year. Fewer hard talks. Fewer sighs across the dinner tab17451762

The text came at 4:12. It had been three hours. By 4:13 I’d watched a — @melissadivaristhompson

2.8K1:57The text came at 4:12. It had been three hours. By 4:13 I’d watched a client run the whole story in their head, from “th11501143

The first time my husband stayed calm during a hard conversation, I wa — @melissadivaristhompson

2K0:58The first time my husband stayed calm during a hard conversation, I waited for the other shoe. I had spent years with me135727

They walked out of the kitchen and I stood there holding the argument — @melissadivaristhompson

1.9K1:37They walked out of the kitchen and I stood there holding the argument or discussion by myself. That’s the part people le940735

Engagement per clip

20 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 8.0% ER

Aug 27Sep 9Sep 19

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 19, 2026	1,267	59	1	5	31	5.13%
Sep 19, 2026	838	22	2	0	6	2.86%
Sep 18, 2026	1,638	93	4	14	35	6.78%
Sep 17, 2026	1,794	102	3	10	34	6.41%
Sep 16, 2026	1,723	80	0	4	17	4.88%
Sep 13, 2026	2,950	190	8	37	79	7.97%
Sep 12, 2026	1,616	88	5	8	23	6.25%
Sep 12, 2026	1,730	56	3	5	17	3.70%
Sep 12, 2026	1,234	68	0	0	20	5.51%
Sep 9, 2026	2,762	136	1	9	43	5.29%
Sep 2, 2026	1,066	19	0	0	3	1.78%
Sep 2, 2026	1,053	37	2	1	5	3.80%
Sep 1, 2026	1,704	120	3	2	15	7.34%
Aug 31, 2026	1,409	94	6	5	26	7.45%
Aug 30, 2026	1,824	47	2	1	2	2.74%
Aug 30, 2026	986	58	3	1	1	6.29%
Aug 29, 2026	3,418	174	5	17	62	5.73%
Aug 28, 2026	2,804	115	0	11	43	4.49%
Aug 28, 2026	2,009	135	7	2	7	7.17%
Aug 27, 2026	1,860	94	0	7	35	5.43%