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🤝 Daily advice on dating, friends, and communication 🌈 Based on my experience as a gay in his 30s 📍 Nashville 📧 Collab@japhethfranco.com

card updated Sep 28, 2026 · 33 clips parsed · following 917 · 2,800,000 likes total

Engagement10.02%above average

Account summary

@japhethfranco has 72,900 followers and 1,071 videos. Across the 33 parsed clips the average is 240,220 views and 22,956 likes. Engagement to views is 10.02%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−3.06 pp). Posts roughly 1.9 times a week. An average clip reaches 330% of the follower count.

Followers
72.9K
+7.8K in period
Engagement
10.02%
−3.06 pp newer half
Average views
240.2K
median 3.8K
Likes per clip
23K
161 comments avg
Shares / saves
960 / 2.6K
1.08% of viewers save
Posting rate
1.9 / wk
reach 330% of followers

Latest clips

33 collected
What to say when a guy keeps making vague plans: give him two days to  — @japhethfranco22.9K0:30What to say when a guy keeps making vague plans: give him two days to pick from, and ask what time “later” actually mean1.5K729260How to respond when he says it was just a joke: a joke can still bothe — @japhethfranco15.2K0:39How to respond when he says it was just a joke: a joke can still bother you, and you can tell him it didn’t land. When h1.3K119221How to respond to texts after a first date: if you had fun, tell him,  — @japhethfranco66.7K0:43How to respond to texts after a first date: if you had fun, tell him, and you don’t have to wait a day to seem chill. Wh5.1K29631KWhat to say when your friend offers to help: name one thing and a day. — @japhethfranco7.4K0:23What to say when your friend offers to help: name one thing and a day. When they ask to come over or how you're holding 4982952How to respond to texts before a first date: keep your plan simple and — @japhethfranco30K0:47How to respond to texts before a first date: keep your plan simple and public. When he asks for your address, suggests h2.3K1014210How to respond to apology texts, including the ones that don’t actuall — @japhethfranco18.3K0:50How to respond to apology texts, including the ones that don’t actually apologize. “I’m sorry you feel that way” and “so1.2K1221281What to say to a friend who's always late: ask for real times and plan — @japhethfranco8.9K0:46What to say to a friend who's always late: ask for real times and plan your night around what you know. When they text "4713935How to respond when they end things over text: thank them and believe  — @japhethfranco86.2K0:31How to respond when they end things over text: thank them and believe them the first time. When they says they're not in5.8K34651.2KHow to respond when family asks about your love life: give a short, ki — @japhethfranco2.4K0:41How to respond when family asks about your love life: give a short, kind answer and change the subject. When your mom as1123411What to say to a friend who keeps letting you down: be honest and spec — @japhethfranco10.2K0:33What to say to a friend who keeps letting you down: be honest and specific. When they ask to borrow money again before p3754436These re 4 texts that we all type out at one point or another, and you — @japhethfranco11.5K0:55These re 4 texts that we all type out at one point or another, and you should delete them!!! The video explains why #re7256795When someone cancels last minute repeatedly, they're disrespecting you — @japhethfranco4K0:52When someone cancels last minute repeatedly, they're disrespecting your time, so here's what you to do instead of textin3254547Someone can open up to you when they're excited, sad, going through a  — @japhethfranco3.7K0:29Someone can open up to you when they're excited, sad, going through a tough time, or when they're checking on you. Here 2503436A list of 5 things you shouldn't do during a conflict. Conflict is com — @japhethfranco1K1:00A list of 5 things you shouldn't do during a conflict. Conflict is completely normal, and focusing on how to resolve thi8813234 red flags in friendship that, to me, are dealbreakers and the ultima — @japhethfranco9731:064 red flags in friendship that, to me, are dealbreakers and the ultimate signs the person isn't a real friend #friendshi814114We love a little summer romance, but is it going to last through the f — @japhethfranco3850:36We love a little summer romance, but is it going to last through the fall? Time to have those convos because if you want12013The heat is getting to meeeee but I still wanna go on a date so here a — @japhethfranco5710:56The heat is getting to meeeee but I still wanna go on a date so here are 5 date ideas for when it's hot af. Some are obv25006Send this to your bestie 💚 these are what I consider the 5 biggest gre — @japhethfranco1.6K1:15Send this to your bestie 💚 these are what I consider the 5 biggest green flags in a friend, all of which are signs of an14301021Dating is about "no", relationships are about "yes", and there's real  — @japhethfranco1.4K1:30Dating is about "no", relationships are about "yes", and there's real power in that reminder. Dating is figuring out who1250018Relationships aren't always fun, and when something irritating us, we  — @japhethfranco1.9K0:34Relationships aren't always fun, and when something irritating us, we might get to a point where we consider ending the 1222422I'd say confidence is a green flag in a partner because they're usuall — @japhethfranco3.8K0:38I'd say confidence is a green flag in a partner because they're usually inclusive, supportive, and secure. Arrogance is 1500325The difference between a reliable partner vs. a reactive partner. From — @japhethfranco1.1K0:42The difference between a reliable partner vs. a reactive partner. From consistent behavior to mood swings, here are some56525The difference between communication and control. Ones about connectio — @japhethfranco1K0:38The difference between communication and control. Ones about connection, the other is about power. Most people think the592113Notice the pattern in these red flag texts? They're all examples of so — @japhethfranco1.5K0:23Notice the pattern in these red flag texts? They're all examples of someone who's avoiding responsibility through manipu935118How to be upfront about where you stand in dating, across a few differ — @japhethfranco5.3K0:38How to be upfront about where you stand in dating, across a few different scenarios. Whether it's letting someone know w5481112180The different between criticism vs. feedback. Criticism is an unhelpfu — @japhethfranco1.4K0:44The different between criticism vs. feedback. Criticism is an unhelpful judgement on someone's character; it's not commu870116How to decode red flag texts from friends, part 19 of my red flag text — @japhethfranco1.6K0:15How to decode red flag texts from friends, part 19 of my red flag text series. I quickly break down what it really means670113Self-care vs. self-centered is a comparison showing you how to tell th — @japhethfranco1.1K0:42Self-care vs. self-centered is a comparison showing you how to tell the difference between healthy boundaries and selfis84226What dating and relationship scenarios teach you about yourself. This  — @japhethfranco2.6K0:23What dating and relationship scenarios teach you about yourself. This includes first dates, saying I love you, breakups,1912331Comparing the differences between someone who's consistent vs. rigid i — @japhethfranco12.6K0:29Comparing the differences between someone who's consistent vs. rigid in dating and relationships. Consistent behavior is58513979There are differences between ✨ chemistry and 🧩 compatability. Both a  — @japhethfranco2.7M0:31There are differences between ✨ chemistry and 🧩 compatability. Both a great, but one helps build for the long-terms. #d227.9K1.2K16K44.3KDon't send these texts if he cancels your plans last minute! Communica — @japhethfranco2.4M0:12Don't send these texts if he cancels your plans last minute! Communicate your true feelings, respect your time, and let 141.2K5212K22.7KWhen I'm making plans and inviting to do things with me, I let them de — @japhethfranco2.5M0:26When I'm making plans and inviting to do things with me, I let them decline twice. If they decline a third time, I stop 366K3.5K13.4K14.3K

Engagement per clip

33 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 15.3% ER
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