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card updated Oct 22, 2026 · 12 of 22 clips with full stats · following 0 · 460,400 likes total

Engagement4.67%normal range

Account summary

@yoursisadvice has 43,000 followers and 226 videos. Across the 22 parsed clips the average is 99,519 views and 6,194 likes. Engagement to views is 4.67%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+4.06 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 231% of the follower count.

Followers

43K

+3.9K in period

Engagement

4.67%

+4.06 pp newer half

Average views

99.5K

median 3.2K

Likes per clip

6.2K

26 comments avg

Shares / saves

315 / 2.6K

1.83% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 231% of followers

Latest clips

22 collected

The moment you stop making everything easy for him, the dynamic starts — @yoursisadvice

9012:28The moment you stop making everything easy for him, the dynamic starts to change. But here’s what most women struggle wi761830

Access without investment creates disinterest. Investment before acces — @yoursisadvice

8422:28Access without investment creates disinterest. Investment before access creates attachment Standards and boundaries don'890439

A man who genuinely loves providing doesn’t need to be convinced to gi — @yoursisadvice

2.2K2:19A man who genuinely loves providing doesn’t need to be convinced to give. But knowing how to inspire his generosity with1610654

Most women try to be wanted. Very few understand how male psychology a — @yoursisadvice

1.3K1:54Most women try to be wanted. Very few understand how male psychology actually works. But remember, a man chasing you doe1120343

When you change how you speak you activate masculinity. Balancing soft — @yoursisadvice

7872:21When you change how you speak you activate masculinity. Balancing softness and darkness in your feminine energy is what 710336

Most women see the red flags. They just don't understand what they act — @yoursisadvice

1.7K1:59Most women see the red flags. They just don't understand what they actually mean. Provider vs pretender patterns show up1371348

Being feminine doesn’t mean being endlessly soft. And having standards — @yoursisadvice

1.5K2:24Being feminine doesn’t mean being endlessly soft. And having standards doesn’t mean becoming cold. The real power is kno1330361

His final gift wasn’t closure. It was confirmation. And that’s why lea — @yoursisadvice

3.1K0:55His final gift wasn’t closure. It was confirmation. And that’s why learning to recognize red flags before you’re emotion2181652

most underrated skill 💅 Men fall in love through imagination, tension, — @yoursisadvice

59.2K2:20most underrated skill 💅 Men fall in love through imagination, tension, and the fear of losing access. Once you understan5.7K482212.2K

Sometimes it’s the smallest details that reveal the biggest inconsiste — @yoursisadvice

4.9K1:27Sometimes it’s the smallest details that reveal the biggest inconsistencies. Pay attention to the patterns, not just the24529115

Men don’t get attached through communication. They get attached throug — @yoursisadvice

1.3M1:19Men don’t get attached through communication. They get attached through emotional patterns- how you make them feel - I b50.5K1602.1K21.3K

That shift changes everything. If this made you uncomfortable, good - — @yoursisadvice

302K1:43That shift changes everything. If this made you uncomfortable, good - It’s about understanding value, scarcity, attachme16.9K931.4K6.7K

Sometimes you’re not communicating. You’re trying to control the outco — @yoursisadvice

3.2KSometimes you’re not communicating. You’re trying to control the outcome so you don’t get hurt. And most women don’t eve0000

You can stop texting him and STILL be chasing him. If every story, eve — @yoursisadvice

273.3KYou can stop texting him and STILL be chasing him. If every story, every glow-up, and even your silence is secretly abou0000

1. “Could you look at this for me? You’re better at these things.” App — @yoursisadvice

154K1. “Could you look at this for me? You’re better at these things.” Appeals to his competence. 2. “I knew you’d know 0000

The worst part isn’t finding out he was the wrong man. It’s realizing — @yoursisadvice

2.5KThe worst part isn’t finding out he was the wrong man. It’s realizing how early he showed you — and how many excuses you0000

1. He thinks paying for food and sending flowers makes him a provider. — @yoursisadvice

8.8K1. He thinks paying for food and sending flowers makes him a provider. Providing isn’t just financial. It’s emotiona0000

You’re so busy trying to make him choose you that you forget you’re su — @yoursisadvice

14KYou’re so busy trying to make him choose you that you forget you’re supposed to be choosing too. Being feminine doesn’t 0000

1. “Money isn’t everything.” He says this when money is the problem. 2 — @yoursisadvice

48.1K1. “Money isn’t everything.” He says this when money is the problem. 2. “I want a simple life.” Translation: he 0000

Stop confusing being wanted with being loved. Don't waste another year — @yoursisadvice

1.2KStop confusing being wanted with being loved. Don't waste another year on a man who only wants the experience of you. Le0000

Detachment isn’t about becoming cold, unavailable, or pretending you d — @yoursisadvice

4.9KDetachment isn’t about becoming cold, unavailable, or pretending you don’t care. It’s about being able to love deeply wi0000

The art of being useless 🤭🖤 If you stopped doing everything for him to — @yoursisadvice

912The art of being useless 🤭🖤 If you stopped doing everything for him tomorrow, what would actually be left of your relati0000

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 11.0% ER

Dec 12Oct 15Oct 21

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 21, 2026	901	76	1	8	30	9.43%
Oct 19, 2026	842	89	0	4	39	11.05%
Oct 19, 2026	2,217	161	0	6	54	7.53%
Oct 18, 2026	1,281	112	0	3	43	8.98%
Oct 18, 2026	787	71	0	3	36	9.40%
Oct 15, 2026	1,726	137	1	3	48	8.17%
Oct 14, 2026	1,497	133	0	3	61	9.08%
Oct 14, 2026	3,136	218	1	6	52	7.17%
Oct 13, 2026	59,200	5,682	48	221	2,220	10.05%
Oct 12, 2026	4,863	245	2	9	115	5.26%
Dec 14, 2025	1,300,000	50,500	160	2,131	21,296	4.06%
Dec 12, 2025	302,000	16,900	93	1,387	6,720	6.09%