@vanessaandxanderVanessa + Xander Marin

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card updated Oct 8, 2026 · 22 clips parsed · following 9 · 11,300,000 likes total

Engagement8.64%above average

Account summary

@vanessaandxander has 436,900 followers and 2,229 videos. Across the 22 parsed clips the average is 903,718 views and 57,386 likes. Engagement to views is 8.64%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−5.11 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 207% of the follower count.

Followers

436.9K

−200 in period

Engagement

8.64%

−5.11 pp newer half

Average views

903.7K

median 16.1K

Likes per clip

57.4K

259 comments avg

Shares / saves

20.4K / 8.6K

0.95% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 207% of followers

Latest clips

22 collected

If both of your answers aren’t 10, we made our account for you! Our ac — @vanessaandxander

1.4KIf both of your answers aren’t 10, we made our account for you! Our account is for couples who want an extraordinary “so33242

We’re big fans of bringing back making out. Share this with your partn — @vanessaandxander

7.2K0:33We’re big fans of bringing back making out. Share this with your partner if you want to try this challenge with them!301213038

No, we’re not actually talking about 🧦, but TT won’t let us say the re — @vanessaandxander

4.6K0:07No, we’re not actually talking about 🧦, but TT won’t let us say the real word. What are your thoughts? Let us know in th67622

Getting myself ready before the next ACOTAR book comes out… Tell us yo — @vanessaandxander

7.5K0:15Getting myself ready before the next ACOTAR book comes out… Tell us your favorite move in the comments!18321916

If your initiation strategy looks a little like this… it's time for an — @vanessaandxander

20K0:16If your initiation strategy looks a little like this… it's time for an upgrade. 😅1K48523

Send this to your nice guy if he also finishes last 😉 — @vanessaandxander

11.9K0:08Send this to your nice guy if he also finishes last 😉32411612

New here? Our account is only for couples who want an extraordinary “s — @vanessaandxander

8.6K0:09New here? Our account is only for couples who want an extraordinary “socks” life! Follow along for more relatable conten2131225

Judging by Xander’s reaction to my lingerie challenge, I really should — @vanessaandxander

24.2K0:33Judging by Xander’s reaction to my lingerie challenge, I really shouldn’t be that surprised! Send this to your partner 68932140

When does the next ACOTAR book come out again? Trying to plan ahead. I — @vanessaandxander

17.7K0:06When does the next ACOTAR book come out again? Trying to plan ahead. IB: fullybookedbabe625216719

Trust us, it makes a BIG difference! — @vanessaandxander

39.2K0:10Trust us, it makes a BIG difference!7442346130

Can’t believe some people just don’t want to have extraordinary socks — @vanessaandxander

4.3K0:07Can’t believe some people just don’t want to have extraordinary socks 🤷🏽‍♀️165024

Try this and thank us later 🤭 IB: thestarlife — @vanessaandxander

7.8K0:06Try this and thank us later 🤭 IB: thestarlife378113321

Why do they always insist on the b00b honk? 🙄 — @vanessaandxander

11.9K0:15Why do they always insist on the b00b honk? 🙄436710617

14.6K0:06Giddy up 🤠551112424

Must have been the wind… IB: @lit2lift — @vanessaandxander

9.5K0:18Must have been the wind… IB: @lit2lift42177715

We love a good cardio day 😉 — @vanessaandxander

17.8K0:14We love a good cardio day 😉64426515

This is not based on a true story. (It's based on a true story.) 😅 — @vanessaandxander

20.5K0:10This is not based on a true story. (It's based on a true story.) 😅1K514027

Can confirm, it’s an unbeatable combination 😉 Share this with your par — @vanessaandxander

18.4K0:06Can confirm, it’s an unbeatable combination 😉 Share this with your partner if they’re like this too! IB: @doctor.running917431147

What can I say? 😅 Life is just better when we both get some! IB: flygr — @vanessaandxander

34.8K0:15What can I say? 😅 Life is just better when we both get some! IB: flygrannybk1.5K826887

Watch this before your next big night out! We’re in the holiday party — @vanessaandxander

2.4M0:33Watch this before your next big night out! We’re in the holiday party season—which means eating, drinking, staying up la154.5K635136.5K12.8K

Welcome to part 3 of our “Worst Ways To Initiate” series! Today we’re — @vanessaandxander

7.4M0:18Welcome to part 3 of our “Worst Ways To Initiate” series! Today we’re talking about the notorious “Slumber Stopper”. The362.2K1.9K90.5K20.2K

Comment if you want to hear more about what we do in our relationship — @vanessaandxander

9.8M2:04Comment if you want to hear more about what we do in our relationship to to keep intimacy a priority! #forcouples #coupl735.5K3.1K220K155.9K

Engagement per clip

22 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 12.2% ER

Mar 3Sep 21Oct 13

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 13, 2026	1,379	33	2	4	2	2.83%
Oct 12, 2026	7,154	301	2	130	38	6.05%
Oct 11, 2026	4,559	67	6	2	2	1.65%
Oct 9, 2026	7,543	183	2	19	16	2.70%
Oct 7, 2026	20,000	1,027	4	85	23	5.58%
Oct 6, 2026	11,900	324	1	16	12	2.87%
Oct 6, 2026	8,601	213	1	22	5	2.74%
Oct 5, 2026	24,200	689	3	21	40	2.95%
Oct 2, 2026	17,700	625	2	167	19	4.49%
Oct 1, 2026	39,200	744	2	346	130	2.79%
Sep 21, 2026	4,303	165	0	2	4	3.88%
Sep 19, 2026	7,786	378	1	133	21	6.58%
Sep 17, 2026	11,900	436	7	106	17	4.61%
Sep 16, 2026	14,600	551	1	124	24	4.63%
Sep 15, 2026	9,478	421	7	77	15	5.33%
Sep 14, 2026	17,800	644	2	65	15	3.99%
Sep 14, 2026	20,500	1,036	5	140	27	5.76%
Sep 13, 2026	18,400	917	4	311	47	6.70%
Sep 10, 2026	34,800	1,539	8	268	87	5.22%
Jan 2, 2025	2,400,000	154,500	635	136,500	12,813	12.15%
Jun 18, 2023	7,400,000	362,200	1,878	90,500	20,236	6.14%
Mar 3, 2023	9,800,000	735,500	3,119	220,000	155,927	9.78%