@trevor_harper_officialTrevor Harper

Psychology of attachment, emotional patterns & relationships one honest talk at a time Follow For More ✅️ 180k🎯

card updated Sep 22, 2026 · 20 clips parsed · following 23 · 1,700,000 likes total

Engagement12.51%above average

Account summary

@trevor_harper_official has 176,600 followers and 181 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 54,163 views and 5,412 likes. Engagement to views is 12.51%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+0.88 pp). Posts roughly 3.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 31% of the follower count.

Followers

176.6K

history is still being collected

Engagement

12.51%

+0.88 pp newer half

Average views

54.2K

median 20.2K

Likes per clip

5.4K

168 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.2K / 1.5K

2.78% of viewers save

Posting rate

3.1 / wk

reach 31% of followers

Latest clips

20 collected

She Wasn't Crazy Betrayal Broke Her Trust And Your Choices Taught Her — @trevor_harper_official

50K1:06She Wasn't Crazy Betrayal Broke Her Trust And Your Choices Taught Her To Stop Begging For Respect.. ##relationshiptruths4.9K2241.1K1.3K

She Didn't Leave After One Mistake She Left After Years Of Feeling Una — @trevor_harper_official

18.6K1:06She Didn't Leave After One Mistake She Left After Years Of Feeling Unappreciated Unheard And Taken For Granted.. #relati2.3K110339644

Walking Away From Repeated Betrayal isn't Cruelty it's Choosing Your P — @trevor_harper_official

15.1K1:08Walking Away From Repeated Betrayal isn't Cruelty it's Choosing Your Peace After Giving Too Many Chances.. #selfrespect 1.8K87201444

Constant Validation Can Hide Deep insecurity Leaving Someone Chasing A — @trevor_harper_official

4.2K1:10Constant Validation Can Hide Deep insecurity Leaving Someone Chasing Attention While Sabotaging The Lasting Love They Wa4141844106

Stronf Relationships Require Growth Financial Responsibility Emotional — @trevor_harper_official

4.3K1:12Stronf Relationships Require Growth Financial Responsibility Emotional Maturity Curiosity And Consistent Effort From Bot360154477

Independent Women Need Partnership That Add Support Shared Effort And — @trevor_harper_official

5.4K1:12Independent Women Need Partnership That Add Support Shared Effort And Growth Not Another Person To Manage.. #independent402243985

Year's Spent Waiting For Change Can Teach A Woman To Reclaim Her Time — @trevor_harper_official

18.8K1:09Year's Spent Waiting For Change Can Teach A Woman To Reclaim Her Time Protect Her Peace And Choose Herself.. #selfworth 1.8K81336446

Emotional Numbness Can Develop When Neglect Becomes Routine Leaving So — @trevor_harper_official

19.5K1:12Emotional Numbness Can Develop When Neglect Becomes Routine Leaving Someone Torn Between Love For A Partner And The Need2.3K72423745

Repeated Disrespect Can Exhaust Even A Deeply Loyal Woman Until She Fi — @trevor_harper_official

62.4K1:10Repeated Disrespect Can Exhaust Even A Deeply Loyal Woman Until She Finally Chooses Her Dignity And Peace.. #selfrespect7.9K3851.5K2.2K

Respect Must Go Both Ways Repeated Disrespect Can Damage Trust Affecti — @trevor_harper_official

74K1:10Respect Must Go Both Ways Repeated Disrespect Can Damage Trust Affection And The Emotional Safety Of A Relationship.. #r7K1661.5K2.3K

11.3K1:10A Good Woman Shows Her Character Through Loyalty Honesty Boundaries And How She Stands Beside You When Life Gets Hard.. 1.2K45173275

Walking Away From Betrayal Can Help You Reclaim Your Boundaries Dignit — @trevor_harper_official

40K1:10Walking Away From Betrayal Can Help You Reclaim Your Boundaries Dignity Peace And Confidence Without Reopening Old Wound3.3K113384723

You Can Support Someone Through Healing But Real Change Requires Their — @trevor_harper_official

14.1K1:12You Can Support Someone Through Healing But Real Change Requires Their Own Willingness To Face Their Wounds.. #healingjo1.2K34179360

Stop Begging For Basic Respect Clear Boundaries Step Back From Repeate — @trevor_harper_official

25.3K1:12Stop Begging For Basic Respect Clear Boundaries Step Back From Repeated Hurt And Let Actions Reveal intentions.. #selfre1.7K61290358

Healthy Love Should include Respect Boundaries And Behavior That Prote — @trevor_harper_official

11.9K1:10Healthy Love Should include Respect Boundaries And Behavior That Protects Your Dignity.. #boundaries #selfrespect #healt1.4K48164376

Walking Away From Repeated Disrespect Can Protect Your Peace Strengthe — @trevor_harper_official

74.5K1:12Walking Away From Repeated Disrespect Can Protect Your Peace Strengthen Boundaries And Show That Your Selfworth Has Limi4.2K888231K

Letting Someone Face The Consequences Of Their Choices Can Protect You — @trevor_harper_official

190.3K1:10Letting Someone Face The Consequences Of Their Choices Can Protect Your Peace Boundries And Emotional Well Being.. #self19.1K3424K5.3K

Disrespect And Emotional Neglect Can Destroy Trust But Accountability — @trevor_harper_official

21K1:12Disrespect And Emotional Neglect Can Destroy Trust But Accountability Matters Before Blaming Someone For Finally Breakin2.3K86417596

Functional Depression Can Hide Deep Pain Behind A Smile Making Someone — @trevor_harper_official

391.5K1:07Functional Depression Can Hide Deep Pain Behind A Smile Making Someone Look Fine While Silently Struggling To Cope.. #de41.1K1.3K11.1K11.5K

Emotional Understanding Matters in Relationships Listening To Her Feel — @trevor_harper_official

31.1K1:11Emotional Understanding Matters in Relationships Listening To Her Feelings Builds Trust Safety And Deeper Connection.. #3.4K709221.1K

Engagement per clip

20 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 15.6% ER

Sep 10Oct 10Oct 25

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 25, 2026	50,000	4,912	224	1,050	1,331	12.37%
Oct 23, 2026	18,600	2,269	110	339	644	14.61%
Oct 22, 2026	15,100	1,823	87	201	444	13.98%
Oct 21, 2026	4,190	414	18	44	106	11.36%
Oct 19, 2026	4,272	360	15	44	77	9.81%
Oct 18, 2026	5,391	402	24	39	85	8.63%
Oct 13, 2026	18,800	1,842	81	336	446	12.02%
Oct 12, 2026	19,500	2,295	72	423	745	14.31%
Oct 11, 2026	62,400	7,862	385	1,490	2,249	15.60%
Oct 10, 2026	74,000	7,009	166	1,518	2,299	11.75%
Sep 21, 2026	11,300	1,243	45	173	275	12.93%
Sep 20, 2026	40,000	3,328	113	384	723	9.56%
Sep 18, 2026	14,100	1,229	34	179	360	10.23%
Sep 17, 2026	25,300	1,705	61	290	358	8.13%
Sep 16, 2026	11,900	1,409	48	164	376	13.62%
Sep 15, 2026	74,500	4,250	88	823	1,039	6.93%
Sep 14, 2026	190,300	19,100	342	4,023	5,319	12.33%
Sep 13, 2026	21,000	2,316	86	417	596	13.42%
Sep 11, 2026	391,500	41,100	1,288	11,100	11,533	13.66%
Sep 10, 2026	31,100	3,370	70	922	1,089	14.03%