@themissingselfThe Missing Self

He’s talking to himself again…

card updated Oct 20, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 103 · 9,400,000 likes total

Engagement20.39%above average

Account summary

@themissingself has 495,800 followers and 85 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 868,515 views and 164,406 likes. Engagement to views is 20.39%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−6.34 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 175% of the follower count.

Followers

495.8K

−1.5K in period

Engagement

20.39%

−6.34 pp newer half

Average views

868.5K

median 100.4K

Likes per clip

164.4K

2.3K comments avg

Shares / saves

10.4K / 28.3K

3.26% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 175% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

TRAD WIFE TRENDS | 👩‍🍳 @ballerinafarm has found herself caught in the — @themissingself

193.2K2:11TRAD WIFE TRENDS | 👩‍🍳 @ballerinafarm has found herself caught in the crosshairs of some harsh backlash for claiming to 26.1K2425062.9K

WORK ARTUMENT 💪 | We're all stuck in an endless cycle of making and sp — @themissingself

41.2K8:00WORK ARTUMENT 💪 | We're all stuck in an endless cycle of making and spending money. The work-train is always moving, and3.9K60203675

I HATE HER 😡 | Have you ever tried defending your ex's decision to dum — @themissingself

63.3K1:49I HATE HER 😡 | Have you ever tried defending your ex's decision to dump you? Why not? Was it not brave of them to do som6.9K903211.3K

ARE TRANS WOMEN WOMEN? 👫 | A conversation between advocates of biologi — @themissingself

698.2K5:31ARE TRANS WOMEN WOMEN? 👫 | A conversation between advocates of biologically determined gender, individually determined g109K1.7K5K20.4K

IS BREAKING A SPORT? | 🤸 the noise dies down and the dust settles arou — @themissingself

67.4K4:31IS BREAKING A SPORT? | 🤸 the noise dies down and the dust settles around Raygun, I think we’ll find that her ridicule ma7K111108530

I’M SUCH A LOSER! 🤝 | We often consume ourselves with the winning and — @themissingself

103.5K2:53I’M SUCH A LOSER! 🤝 | We often consume ourselves with the winning and the losing, but could there be another motivation10.1K651941.3K

IMPOSTER SYNDROME👯| Do I deserve this? Do I deserve anything? Does any — @themissingself

68.8K3:06IMPOSTER SYNDROME👯| Do I deserve this? Do I deserve anything? Does anyone really know me? Do I want them to? Is the best8.6K621221.1K

NOBODY IS HELPING ME!🆘 | We all need help sometimes, but we forget tha — @themissingself

100.4K2:12NOBODY IS HELPING ME!🆘 | We all need help sometimes, but we forget that by asking, we are unwittingly promising to make 12K883202.3K

I’M SO LONELY 😞| The space in your mind is filled with voices, but the — @themissingself

88K1:33I’M SO LONELY 😞| The space in your mind is filled with voices, but they’re all yours. The images that fill your head are11.8K1042732.4K

I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY🗣️ | Social media has blurred the lines betwee — @themissingself

66.7K1:50I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY🗣️ | Social media has blurred the lines between gossip and journalism. It’s convinced us all tha9.8K2781021K

I’M NOT WORKING HARD ENOUGH 😓| Fantasies don’t motivate the way memori — @themissingself

1.1M1:46I’M NOT WORKING HARD ENOUGH 😓| Fantasies don’t motivate the way memories do. Without fond memories, The unmotivated work171.1K86022.4K38.9K

🧬GENDER ARGUMENT 🧜‍♂️ | It’s hard to believe how divisive the topic of — @themissingself

7.2M5:09🧬GENDER ARGUMENT 🧜‍♂️ | It’s hard to believe how divisive the topic of gender has become. The plight of the of trans* co1.5M25K88.1K239.6K

I’M REALLY SCARED OF COMMITMENT 💍| Committing to a person forever can — @themissingself

1.5M0:48I’M REALLY SCARED OF COMMITMENT 💍| Committing to a person forever can sound romantic, but it doesn’t serve you or the pe261K71418.1K55.3K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 22.4% ER

Mar 17Feb 19Sep 6

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 6, 2024	193,200	26,100	242	506	2,878	13.90%
Sep 4, 2024	41,200	3,922	60	203	675	10.16%
Sep 2, 2024	63,300	6,946	90	321	1,253	11.62%
Aug 21, 2024	698,200	109,000	1,739	4,995	20,365	16.58%
Aug 14, 2024	67,400	6,961	111	108	530	10.65%
Apr 2, 2024	103,500	10,100	65	194	1,290	10.01%
Feb 19, 2024	68,800	8,555	62	122	1,095	12.70%
Feb 16, 2024	100,400	12,000	88	320	2,263	12.36%
Jan 17, 2024	88,000	11,800	104	273	2,360	13.84%
Jan 9, 2024	66,700	9,797	278	102	1,034	15.26%
Sep 18, 2023	1,100,000	171,100	860	22,400	38,895	17.67%
Mar 29, 2023	7,200,000	1,500,000	25,000	88,100	239,630	22.40%
Mar 17, 2023	1,500,000	261,000	714	18,100	55,252	18.65%