@theinamindtheinamind

Ina Davenport | Old money habits. Elite culture. The unwritten rules of the top 1%. Decoded. Bay Area, CA | vesselinadenise@gmail.com

card updated Oct 8, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 54 · 59,100 likes total

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Engagement10.8%above average

Account summary

@theinamind has 17,900 followers and 131 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 8,792 views and 830 likes. Engagement to views is 10.8%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.98 pp). Posts roughly 0.6 times a week. An average clip reaches 49% of the follower count.

Followers

17.9K

+0 in period

Engagement

10.8%

−0.98 pp newer half

Average views

8.8K

median 2.1K

Likes per clip

830

31 comments avg

Shares / saves

89 / 302

3.43% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.6 / wk

reach 49% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

The people who love you most are often attached to the version of you — @theinamind

1.9K1:14The people who love you most are often attached to the version of you they already understand. When you start building w1939635

You are not reading people as clearly as you think. You are reading ac — @theinamind

1.6K2:48You are not reading people as clearly as you think. You are reading accent, language, cultural background, confidence, s1204326

What changes after your first million? The part nobody warns you about — @theinamind

2.2K2:50What changes after your first million? The part nobody warns you about is social confusion. You have more money, but you259141974

You didn't lose that pitch during the meeting. You lost it in the firs — @theinamind

1.8K1:39You didn't lose that pitch during the meeting. You lost it in the first five seconds. Dan Ariely's anchoring research sh1675845

I spent an afternoon interviewing high school students for a prestigio — @theinamind

9K2:36I spent an afternoon interviewing high school students for a prestigious program and realized I was watching old money v67118112225

Most people think high stakes rooms are hard to navigate because of wh — @theinamind

1.8K2:33Most people think high stakes rooms are hard to navigate because of what they do wrong. The research I published points 183131242

2.1K2:18Most people think high stakes rooms are hard to navigate because of what they do wrong. The research I published points 215201662

How to tell new money vs next gen legacy wealth in elite rooms and why — @theinamind

2.8K2:41How to tell new money vs next gen legacy wealth in elite rooms and why it matters for access Most people confuse next ge314122290

How to stop over apologizing at work and in high-status rooms. When yo — @theinamind

2.1K2:00How to stop over apologizing at work and in high-status rooms. When you make a mistake, the strongest move is not a long272132671

How tech money works in elite rooms part 2. This is for founders, oper — @theinamind

1.6K2:43How tech money works in elite rooms part 2. This is for founders, operators, and anyone walking into rooms where tech mo157101246

Why elites treat competence as a liability. Status does not grow from — @theinamind

23K2:11Why elites treat competence as a liability. Status does not grow from doing the work. Sociology shows a repeatable patte1.9K81270644

Elite judgment forms in seconds, and explanation often lowers status r — @theinamind

11.9K2:06Elite judgment forms in seconds, and explanation often lowers status rather than raising it. Sociology shows elite taste9753965340

Why elites never over explain themselves. Status shows up in silence, — @theinamind

52.5K2:01Why elites never over explain themselves. Status shows up in silence, not clarity. Sociology and social psychology show 5.4K1605812.2K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.7% ER

Dec 20Apr 28May 11

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
May 11, 2026	1,870	193	9	6	35	11.12%
May 7, 2026	1,568	120	4	3	26	8.10%
May 4, 2026	2,227	259	14	19	74	13.11%
May 3, 2026	1,782	167	5	8	45	10.10%
May 2, 2026	8,994	671	18	112	225	8.91%
Apr 30, 2026	1,765	183	13	12	42	11.78%
Apr 28, 2026	2,101	215	20	16	62	11.95%
Apr 25, 2026	2,836	314	12	22	90	12.27%
Apr 22, 2026	2,121	272	13	26	71	14.66%
Apr 21, 2026	1,637	157	10	12	46	10.93%
Dec 28, 2025	23,000	1,850	81	270	644	9.57%
Dec 21, 2025	11,900	975	39	65	340	9.07%
Dec 20, 2025	52,500	5,415	160	581	2,225	11.73%