@thegottmaninstituteTheGottmanInstitute

A research-based approach to relationships.

card updated Oct 18, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 36 · 2,000,000 likes total

Engagement9.95%above average

Account summary

@thegottmaninstitute has 261,900 followers and 573 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 234,642 views and 20,321 likes. Engagement to views is 9.95%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+0.36 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 90% of the follower count.

Followers

261.9K

+1.9K in period

Engagement

9.95%

+0.36 pp newer half

Average views

234.6K

median 18.7K

Likes per clip

20.3K

159 comments avg

Shares / saves

2.9K / 5.5K

2.36% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 90% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

After decades spent studying love, relationships, and what makes them — @thegottmaninstitute

15.5K0:39After decades spent studying love, relationships, and what makes them last, what would John Gottman tell his younger sel1.3K18180346

Can you tell your partner they need therapy? John Gottman has a pretty — @thegottmaninstitute

18.7K1:42Can you tell your partner they need therapy? John Gottman has a pretty strong opinion about this one. When a partner’s b9991551231

Okay, did anyone bring tissues to the 30th anniversary? 🥲 We asked a f — @thegottmaninstitute

5.3K2:57Okay, did anyone bring tissues to the 30th anniversary? 🥲 We asked a few friends, colleagues, therapists, and people who453191634

30 years of The Gottman Institute. ❤️ 30 years of research, relationsh — @thegottmaninstitute

3K2:0630 years of The Gottman Institute. ❤️ 30 years of research, relationships, learning, and a whole lot of people who made 2528810

Plot twist: this time, you’re the guest. You sent John Gottman your re — @thegottmaninstitute

37K2:41Plot twist: this time, you’re the guest. You sent John Gottman your relationship questions, and he answered them. First 3.9K339681.8K

When your partner does something wrong: immediately noticed. When they — @thegottmaninstitute

19.8K0:53When your partner does something wrong: immediately noticed. When they do something right for the 10,332nd time: somehow1.7K20298431

One of the most underrated relationship skills? Helping your partner f — @thegottmaninstitute

10.6K1:08One of the most underrated relationship skills? Helping your partner feel safe. Not by saying the perfect thing, but by 586639205

Your relationship needs conversations that aren’t about what’s for din — @thegottmaninstitute

13.7K0:50Your relationship needs conversations that aren’t about what’s for dinner. If you’ve gotten stuck in logistics mode, try90413194242

Okay, but how DO you bring up something your partner is doing that bot — @thegottmaninstitute

20.2K0:34Okay, but how DO you bring up something your partner is doing that bothers you? Try a Gentle Start-Up: “I feel ___ about1.1K44102324

If men are genuinely hurting, what kind of advice is actually helping — @thegottmaninstitute

2.5K1:16If men are genuinely hurting, what kind of advice is actually helping them? John Gottman, Bryan Reeves, Zack Goytowski, 6922412

Dr. John Gottman reacts to @Jimmy on Relationships approach to relatio — @thegottmaninstitute

1.5M2:10Dr. John Gottman reacts to @Jimmy on Relationships approach to relationships. It's how you treat your partner in the sm163.5K92924K45.4K

The way you view your partner - in a positive or negative perspective — @thegottmaninstitute

404K2:17The way you view your partner - in a positive or negative perspective - impacts the connection, and your relationship. T39.8K3634.7K13.6K

We called this Bids for Connection in the research, but The Bird Test — @thegottmaninstitute

1M2:04We called this Bids for Connection in the research, but The Bird Test nails it when it comes to turning towards. Drs. Ju49.6K5986.5K9.4K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.1% ER

Nov 10Aug 26Sep 8

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 8, 2026	15,500	1,293	18	180	346	9.62%
Sep 6, 2026	18,700	999	15	51	231	5.70%
Sep 3, 2026	5,329	453	19	16	34	9.16%
Sep 1, 2026	3,029	252	8	8	10	8.85%
Aug 31, 2026	37,000	3,850	33	968	1,838	13.11%
Aug 28, 2026	19,800	1,747	20	298	431	10.43%
Aug 26, 2026	10,600	586	6	39	205	5.95%
Aug 24, 2026	13,700	904	13	194	242	8.11%
Aug 20, 2026	20,200	1,114	44	102	324	6.24%
Aug 17, 2026	2,485	69	2	24	12	3.82%
Feb 2, 2024	1,500,000	163,500	929	24,000	45,377	12.56%
Dec 8, 2023	404,000	39,800	363	4,743	13,559	11.12%
Nov 10, 2023	1,000,000	49,600	598	6,530	9,366	5.67%