@thegaysexcoachTheGaySexCoach

IICT Certified Men's Sex Coach. Masters Candidate Mental Health Counseling. Real talk. No fluff.

card updated Oct 16, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 200 · 57,500 likes total

Engagement6.95%normal range

Account summary

@thegaysexcoach has 16,800 followers and 86 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 48,193 views and 2,831 likes. Engagement to views is 6.95%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.71 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 287% of the follower count.

Followers

16.8K

+100 in period

Engagement

6.95%

−0.71 pp newer half

Average views

48.2K

median 3K

Likes per clip

2.8K

82 comments avg

Shares / saves

439 / 723

1.5% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 287% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Maybe you don’t need to communicate better. Maybe you need to figure o — @thegaysexcoach

2.2K2:38Maybe you don’t need to communicate better. Maybe you need to figure out what the conversation is actually about. Commun1064720

You want sex. You’re attracted to him. Everything works when you’re al — @thegaysexcoach

4.1K2:24You want sex. You’re attracted to him. Everything works when you’re alone. So what the hell happens when someone else is224182155

You understand your relationship problems perfectly. You can explain e — @thegaysexcoach

1.7K2:31You understand your relationship problems perfectly. You can explain every pattern. And you're no closer to fixing any o762624

Most couples think they dealt with the big rupture. They talked about — @thegaysexcoach

3K2:55Most couples think they dealt with the big rupture. They talked about it and moved on. But talking about it and actually13361648

Most long-term couples have never shared a fantasy with each other, an — @thegaysexcoach

2.3K2:48Most long-term couples have never shared a fantasy with each other, and it's almost always shame keeping it locked up. B1005817

The sex didn't fade for the reason you think. Sometimes it fades becau — @thegaysexcoach

14.5K2:43The sex didn't fade for the reason you think. Sometimes it fades because one of you started growing and the other stayed86828109254

You didn't miss the red flags. You saw them, you felt them, and you ta — @thegaysexcoach

1.8K1:54You didn't miss the red flags. You saw them, you felt them, and you talked yourself out of them. That's not bad judgment744313

Desire needs two men standing at the same height. It’s hard to desire — @thegaysexcoach

1.4K2:15Desire needs two men standing at the same height. It’s hard to desire someone you’re managing them, and equally as hard 586828

Most men ask for more sex in a way that almost guarantees they won’t g — @thegaysexcoach

4.2K2:43Most men ask for more sex in a way that almost guarantees they won’t get it. Not because the want is wrong, but because 19962175

A lot of men will do anything to keep the peace, and they make the mis — @thegaysexcoach

1.4K2:29A lot of men will do anything to keep the peace, and they make the mistake that calm for closeness But the intimacy yo612717

There’s a huge group of gay couples nobody talks about. Not because th — @thegaysexcoach

160.4K2:23There’s a huge group of gay couples nobody talks about. Not because they don’t exist, but because they’ve learned that i8.2K2551.7K1.8K

Most people think there are only two types of relationships. They’re w — @thegaysexcoach

90.5K2:05Most people think there are only two types of relationships. They’re wrong. Here’s the third, and why it works for some 5.5K1591.2K1.1K

Gay couples suffer from the fade of sex just like everyone else….#gay — @thegaysexcoach

339.1K1:39Gay couples suffer from the fade of sex just like everyone else….#gay #gaymen #gayrelationships #gayrelationship #gaymar21.2K5702.6K5.9K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 7.6% ER

May 21Jul 23Oct 1

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 1, 2026	2,166	106	4	7	20	5.40%
Sep 24, 2026	4,055	224	18	21	55	6.49%
Sep 17, 2026	1,667	76	2	6	24	5.04%
Aug 28, 2026	3,010	133	6	16	48	5.15%
Aug 20, 2026	2,274	100	5	8	17	4.97%
Aug 12, 2026	14,500	868	28	109	254	6.93%
Jul 23, 2026	1,768	74	4	3	13	4.58%
Jul 16, 2026	1,392	58	6	8	28	5.17%
Jul 9, 2026	4,234	199	6	21	75	5.34%
Jul 2, 2026	1,448	61	2	7	17	4.83%
Mar 26, 2026	160,400	8,170	255	1,683	1,775	6.30%
Aug 12, 2025	90,500	5,535	159	1,188	1,138	7.60%
May 21, 2025	339,100	21,200	570	2,627	5,930	7.19%