@thefriendshipexpertDanielle Bayard Jackson

Teaching the science of women’s friendships 📖: “Fighting for our Friendships”

card updated Oct 15, 2026 · 21 clips parsed · following 1,170 · 8,300,000 likes total

Engagement18.05%above average

Account summary

@thefriendshipexpert has 320,600 followers and 712 videos. Across the 21 parsed clips the average is 89,582 views and 15,224 likes. Engagement to views is 18.05%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−10.28 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 28% of the follower count.

Followers

320.6K

−200 in period

Engagement

18.05%

−10.28 pp newer half

Average views

89.6K

median 3K

Likes per clip

15.2K

147 comments avg

Shares / saves

799 / 3.9K

4.36% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 28% of followers

Latest clips

21 collected

HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO ACTUALLY SHOW UP TO YOUR EVENT There’s a new repo — @thefriendshipexpert

1.9K1:35HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO ACTUALLY SHOW UP TO YOUR EVENT There’s a new report called “Hosting and Gathering Among American Wo1837637

For women who HOST (or WANT to host) gatherings and have the goal of “ — @thefriendshipexpert

9992:56For women who HOST (or WANT to host) gatherings and have the goal of “connecting others”, steak these connection hacks. 962518

When “lit fic” girlies think they’re superior but are way too classy t — @thefriendshipexpert

8710:29When “lit fic” girlies think they’re superior but are way too classy to say it53765

Thank you @JVN for hosting me to speaking about the research on friend — @thefriendshipexpert

9.1K0:51Thank you @JVN for hosting me to speaking about the research on friendship maintenance and dissolution!538142652

I HAVE 30 DAYS to plan a social event for women in Tampa who are 30+. — @thefriendshipexpert

1.2K1:07I HAVE 30 DAYS to plan a social event for women in Tampa who are 30+. Ill plan the whole thing according to what the res971607

The research tells us that women have higher expectations in their clo — @thefriendshipexpert

6.3K2:13The research tells us that women have higher expectations in their close relationships (both romantic and platonic!) tha396121398

4 lowkey ideas for your next gathering Also, get ready for a WHOLE BUN — @thefriendshipexpert

2.8K2:364 lowkey ideas for your next gathering Also, get ready for a WHOLE BUNCH OF CONTENT sharing research about hosting, gath2726568

It’s time to lock in: First day of autumn 100 days until the end of th — @thefriendshipexpert

3K0:53It’s time to lock in: First day of autumn 100 days until the end of the year Beginning of a new month Beginning of quart39912450

“Acquaintance” is not a bad word. Friendship research, friendship expe — @thefriendshipexpert

5.1K1:51“Acquaintance” is not a bad word. Friendship research, friendship expert, female friendship33210327

Women who can’t find time for friends: This might be why. All data was — @thefriendshipexpert

2.7K1:51Women who can’t find time for friends: This might be why. All data was pulled from the 2025 American Time Use Survey.1745417

Ladies, how’s your “social capital”? Friendship expert, female friends — @thefriendshipexpert

2.2K1:54Ladies, how’s your “social capital”? Friendship expert, female friendship, sociology, women’s friendships 19251128

What is the secret for turning acquaintances into friends? I’m partner — @thefriendshipexpert

2.1K0:59What is the secret for turning acquaintances into friends? I’m partnering with @Marshalls because we both believe meanin16313537

Men, women, and aggression— how does our personal relationship with AN — @thefriendshipexpert

3.2K1:18Men, women, and aggression— how does our personal relationship with ANGER impact how we show up in our female friendship2468464

How women connect with each other through conversation — @thefriendshipexpert

12.5K3:02How women connect with each other through conversation1.3K1452366

You only get one chance to have a good first (friend) date, so here ar — @thefriendshipexpert

9011:22You only get one chance to have a good first (friend) date, so here are my go-to tips to help take the pressure off. I’m48519

A message for community-builders and event hosts — @thefriendshipexpert

1.3K1:27A message for community-builders and event hosts90315

It takes 90 hours with someone to turn them into a friend, according t — @thefriendshipexpert

3.5K1:57It takes 90 hours with someone to turn them into a friend, according to research from the @universityofkansas. But some 3657570

You know I’m gonna hit you with the research, right? Listen: This vide — @thefriendshipexpert

3.4K0:08You know I’m gonna hit you with the research, right? Listen: This video is just for laughs— obviously I’m not immediatel200618

Thoughts? #fightingforourfriendships — @thefriendshipexpert

424.1K0:44Thoughts? #fightingforourfriendships57.2K3417K16.2K

#stitch with @NyaJelisa Here’s more NUANCE for this (wonderful!) disco — @thefriendshipexpert

595.2K4:28#stitch with @NyaJelisa Here’s more NUANCE for this (wonderful!) discourse: Accountability in female friendship114.3K1.3K3.8K20.3K

#stitch with @Amanda Rollins Yes, this video long but it might literal — @thefriendshipexpert

798.8K3:47#stitch with @Amanda Rollins Yes, this video long but it might literally change your life. 🎉143.1K1.3K5.8K44.5K

Engagement per clip

21 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 20.0% ER

Nov 17Aug 20Oct 22

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 22, 2026	1,869	183	7	6	37	10.49%
Oct 14, 2026	999	96	2	5	18	10.31%
Oct 10, 2026	871	53	7	6	5	7.58%
Oct 9, 2026	9,069	538	14	26	52	6.37%
Oct 8, 2026	1,248	97	16	0	7	9.05%
Sep 29, 2026	6,347	396	12	13	98	6.63%
Sep 23, 2026	2,818	272	6	5	68	10.04%
Sep 21, 2026	2,998	399	12	4	50	13.84%
Sep 10, 2026	5,087	332	10	3	27	6.78%
Sep 3, 2026	2,662	174	5	4	17	6.87%
Aug 20, 2026	2,193	192	5	11	28	9.48%
Aug 19, 2026	2,103	163	13	5	37	8.61%
Aug 17, 2026	3,244	246	8	4	64	7.95%
Aug 13, 2026	12,500	1,256	14	52	366	10.58%
Aug 11, 2026	901	48	5	1	9	5.99%
Aug 9, 2026	1,329	90	3	1	5	7.07%
Aug 3, 2026	3,484	365	7	5	70	10.82%
Jul 21, 2026	3,396	200	6	1	8	6.10%
Apr 11, 2024	424,100	57,200	341	7,031	16,195	15.23%
Jan 25, 2024	595,200	114,300	1,268	3,766	20,319	20.05%
Nov 17, 2023	798,800	143,100	1,323	5,834	44,496	18.81%