@tara_p_sTara | Abuse Awareness

DV Board Member, Non-Profit Employee, and MSc in Psych Student (Not therapeutic advice)

card updated Oct 22, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 670 · 448,200 likes total

Engagement12.61%above average

Account summary

@tara_p_s has 19,000 followers and 425 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 42,312 views and 4,728 likes. Engagement to views is 12.61%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.34 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 223% of the follower count.

Followers

19K

+100 in period

Engagement

12.61%

−0.34 pp newer half

Average views

42.3K

median 1.1K

Likes per clip

4.7K

155 comments avg

Shares / saves

452 / 1.5K

3.5% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 223% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

just a reminder for those who might need it: manipulators and abusers — @tara_p_s

5231:41just a reminder for those who might need it: manipulators and abusers use "love" to keep victims stuck. the good qualiti583213

passive aggression is a manipulation tactic designed to mask hostility — @tara_p_s

1K4:05passive aggression is a manipulation tactic designed to mask hostility, aggression, anger, contempt, resentment, or jeal1074442

this quote is going to be seared in my mind forever and ever. #cornell — @tara_p_s

1.1K1:06this quote is going to be seared in my mind forever and ever. #cornelluniversity #abuse #enablers #village #sa 1693426

chi phi is a good lesson in community complicity. if you are trading y — @tara_p_s

8072:48chi phi is a good lesson in community complicity. if you are trading your integrity to protect your buddies or if you li89829

when women become "foot soldiers of the patriarchy" (go read Complicit — @tara_p_s

9123:00when women become "foot soldiers of the patriarchy" (go read Complicit by Rhea Bravo), they will not stand arm in arm wi11813314

a long TikTok for a long week. I believe there are ethics in invoking — @tara_p_s

1K7:50a long TikTok for a long week. I believe there are ethics in invoking the language of fear. my fear of my abuser was at 67818

storytime loading, and it's going to be a hard one. #lying #cheater #a — @tara_p_s

2.4K5:43storytime loading, and it's going to be a hard one. #lying #cheater #abuse #enablers #cornell 377311065

Replying to @marleysvintageits a wild realization, and my analogy over — @tara_p_s

8224:15Replying to @marleysvintageits a wild realization, and my analogy oversimplifies the dynamics but yes, wild right? femal651212

if their irritation extends beyond garden variety venting and yet they — @tara_p_s

13.7K3:30if their irritation extends beyond garden variety venting and yet they NEVER say a single word about it to any of their 8104823208

it takes victims an average of seven attempts to leave their abuser. t — @tara_p_s

1.4K4:45it takes victims an average of seven attempts to leave their abuser. this in no way means they "consent" to the abuse th14912644

punitive testing is a manipulation tactic where someone tests you with — @tara_p_s

144.8K2:30punitive testing is a manipulation tactic where someone tests you without you knowing you're being tested, and often inv15.5K2339593.4K

"why are women obsessed with coming online and telling us about their — @tara_p_s

47.6K6:56"why are women obsessed with coming online and telling us about their bad relationships?" - @Tell The Bees note: Abusive5K292193787

Abuse and Stonewalling #abuseeducation #abuseawareness #abuserecovery — @tara_p_s

333.9K2:16Abuse and Stonewalling #abuseeducation #abuseawareness #abuserecovery #stonewalling #silenttreatment #conflict #healthyc39K1.4K4.7K14.6K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 17.5% ER

Jan 5Oct 2Oct 20

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 20, 2026	523	58	3	2	13	12.05%
Oct 11, 2026	1,005	107	4	4	42	11.44%
Oct 10, 2026	1,112	169	3	4	26	15.83%
Oct 8, 2026	807	89	8	2	9	12.27%
Oct 7, 2026	912	118	13	3	14	14.69%
Oct 5, 2026	1,044	67	8	1	8	7.28%
Oct 2, 2026	2,385	377	31	10	65	17.53%
Sep 29, 2026	822	65	1	2	12	8.27%
Sep 29, 2026	13,700	810	48	23	208	6.43%
Sep 29, 2026	1,445	149	12	6	44	11.56%
Mar 16, 2026	144,800	15,500	233	959	3,426	11.53%
Feb 21, 2026	47,600	4,955	292	193	787	11.43%
Jan 5, 2025	333,900	39,000	1,354	4,669	14,624	13.48%