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Psychology & Relationships | AZ | MFT Student 🧑🏾‍🎓| talkswithshad@gmail.com

card updated Oct 8, 2026 · 21 of 23 clips with full stats · following 356 · 9,500,000 likes total

Engagement22.7%above average

Account summary

@talkswithshad has 204,300 followers and 907 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 433,290 views and 101,230 likes. Engagement to views is 22.7%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−6.83 pp). Posts roughly 0.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 212% of the follower count.

Followers

204.3K

−700 in period

Engagement

22.7%

−6.83 pp newer half

Average views

433.3K

median 4.4K

Likes per clip

101.2K

1K comments avg

Shares / saves

5.4K / 16.4K

3.45% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.4 / wk

reach 212% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

These are simply a start. There are a bunch of things that can help wi — @talkswithshad

2.5K3:32These are simply a start. There are a bunch of things that can help with connecting. Tell me any you have or want to hav365515121

These aren’t necessarily 100% but it’s a general place to start! I hop — @talkswithshad

4.4K4:16These aren’t necessarily 100% but it’s a general place to start! I hope this helps! #psychology #relationships #avoidant493198133

It takes work from both parties to make ANY relationship work, this is — @talkswithshad

14.3K2:06It takes work from both parties to make ANY relationship work, this is some tips for relationships with avoidants. Hope 2.2K9955565

No one is a perfect communicator, we all have our weaknesses. This vid — @talkswithshad

1.8K3:07No one is a perfect communicator, we all have our weaknesses. This video is meant to help! Let me know any communication2035973

Long distance isn’t easy but that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth doing. M — @talkswithshad

150.9K3:44Long distance isn’t easy but that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth doing. My best and longest relationship was long distance,23.6K1702.3K7K

Please understand, I’m not saying these don’t have elements of truth. — @talkswithshad

3.1K3:15Please understand, I’m not saying these don’t have elements of truth. They are just not true through and through. Though47011772

This video is meant to help you be aware. I can not definitively say w — @talkswithshad

4K2:25This video is meant to help you be aware. I can not definitively say whether or not you’re being manipulated. But I woul419323100

Obvisouly these examples aren’t perfect but it’s meant to give the ide — @talkswithshad

6.7K2:51Obvisouly these examples aren’t perfect but it’s meant to give the idea of what it could look like. Hope this helps! Let7512115182

One of the keys to helping with effective communication is not making — @talkswithshad

5.5K1:54One of the keys to helping with effective communication is not making someone feel guilty when you’re simply trying to e5551419157

Questions won’t guarantee a better conversation but they can be more i — @talkswithshad

18.4K1:48Questions won’t guarantee a better conversation but they can be more inviting than statements #CapCut #booktok #communic1.9K651547

There’s a very subtle distinction between the two and understanding th — @talkswithshad

3K2:22There’s a very subtle distinction between the two and understanding that difference might help you stop overthinking as 4009381

Communication is very important, this is a quick insight to help impro — @talkswithshad

13.4K1:23Communication is very important, this is a quick insight to help improve it! #booktok #CapCut #communicationskills #comm1.4K1434413

Interpretation is tricky, observation is better #booktok #communicatio — @talkswithshad

14.2K1:48Interpretation is tricky, observation is better #booktok #communication #emotionalintelligence #tiktokshop #CapCut1.8K1038536

Understand, this is a real thing. It doesn’t mean you did something wr — @talkswithshad

3.4K1:42Understand, this is a real thing. It doesn’t mean you did something wrong. #psychology #relationships #ventnow 3306450

Yes, vent now helped me illustrate. Due to my passion and knowledge on — @talkswithshad

3K1:54Yes, vent now helped me illustrate. Due to my passion and knowledge on this attachment style I need a way to keep it sho3063766

It’s important to recognize what led to unhealthy behaviors you may ha — @talkswithshad

2.4K1:51It’s important to recognize what led to unhealthy behaviors you may have adapted. #psychology #relationships #ventnow 267101328

Being avoidant isn’t the healthiest thing but don’t allow it to cause — @talkswithshad

2.7K1:29Being avoidant isn’t the healthiest thing but don’t allow it to cause more unhealthy habits. #psychology #avoidant #avoi2493447

Yes I used Vent Now to get a simplified Illustration. I talk too much — @talkswithshad

2.5K2:19Yes I used Vent Now to get a simplified Illustration. I talk too much so it was the best way for me to condense it. But 25410347

these are a few fun facts from a list, hopefully one of these helped # — @talkswithshad

2.6M2:14these are a few fun facts from a list, hopefully one of these helped #psychology 542.2K1.6K24.9K106K

sorry to seem so passionate, it was requested and i just really think — @talkswithshad

1.6M3:58sorry to seem so passionate, it was requested and i just really think the silent treatment or any form of manipulation i247.6K4.4K16.7K52.7K

literally learned in psychology #psychology — @talkswithshad

5.5M1:07literally learned in psychology #psychology 1.3M14.6K68.6K174.6K

Now PLEASE understand I’m not saying coddle them, it takes maturity fr — @talkswithshad

2KNow PLEASE understand I’m not saying coddle them, it takes maturity from BOTH parties. These are simply tips to help. Le0000

Now, alone these aren’t NECESSARILY manipulative but they can be used — @talkswithshad

7.4KNow, alone these aren’t NECESSARILY manipulative but they can be used this way. Have you heard any of these before? #psy0000

Engagement per clip

21 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 25.1% ER

Sep 16Sep 11Oct 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 28, 2026	2,515	365	5	15	121	15.31%
Oct 26, 2026	4,381	493	19	8	133	11.87%
Oct 25, 2026	14,300	2,226	99	55	565	16.64%
Oct 24, 2026	1,765	203	5	9	73	12.29%
Oct 24, 2026	150,900	23,600	170	2,328	7,023	17.29%
Oct 23, 2026	3,149	470	11	7	72	15.50%
Oct 22, 2026	4,033	419	3	23	100	11.03%
Oct 21, 2026	6,660	751	21	15	182	11.82%
Sep 17, 2026	5,506	555	14	19	157	10.68%
Sep 13, 2026	18,400	1,910	6	51	547	10.69%
Sep 11, 2026	3,035	400	9	3	81	13.57%
Sep 11, 2026	13,400	1,412	14	34	413	10.90%
Sep 2, 2026	14,200	1,810	10	38	536	13.08%
Sep 1, 2026	3,361	330	6	4	50	10.12%
Sep 1, 2026	3,036	306	3	7	66	10.41%
Aug 31, 2026	2,354	267	10	13	28	12.32%
Aug 31, 2026	2,743	249	3	4	47	9.33%
Aug 31, 2026	2,496	254	10	3	47	10.70%
Oct 16, 2025	2,600,000	542,200	1,614	24,900	105,989	21.87%
Sep 29, 2025	1,600,000	247,600	4,402	16,700	52,665	16.79%
Sep 16, 2025	5,500,000	1,300,000	14,600	68,600	174,602	25.15%