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@sydnilafleur — TikTok avatar

@sydnilafleurSydni | Relationship Coach

trauma-informed, attachment based relationship coach helping you feel safer in conflict boundaries, regulation + repair ↓ FREE Stop the Spiral Masterclass ↓

card updated Nov 2, 2026 · 0 of 13 clips with full stats · following 516 · 1,100,000 likes total

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Account summary

@sydnilafleur has 49,300 followers and 920 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 228,129 views; likes and comments have not been collected for this feed yet. An average clip reaches 463% of the follower count.

Followers
49.3K
−100 in period
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228.1K
median 523
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reach 463% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected
Slow burn relationships can lead to lasting love by developing gradual — @sydnilafleur1.2MSlow burn relationships can lead to lasting love by developing gradually and allowing time for reflection and genuine co0000Replying to @Jessica #attachmentcoach #attachmenthealing #attached #at — @sydnilafleur1.1MReplying to @Jessica #attachmentcoach #attachmenthealing #attached #attachment #attachmentissues #attachments #attachmen0000Replying to @Klara #attachmentcoach #attachmenthealing #attached #atta — @sydnilafleur658.1KReplying to @Klara #attachmentcoach #attachmenthealing #attached #attachment #attachmentissues #attachments #attachments0000Being ignored in a relationship can trigger anxiety, but that doesn't — @sydnilafleur3.1KBeing ignored in a relationship can trigger anxiety, but that doesn't automatically mean your attachment style is the wh0000A relationship doesn’t have to be abusive or toxic for you to recogniz — @sydnilafleur523A relationship doesn’t have to be abusive or toxic for you to recognize something important is missing. You deserve more0000From overreacting to not reacting at all can look like healing from th — @sydnilafleur542From overreacting to not reacting at all can look like healing from the outside. But sometimes you aren't calmer because0000It made 7 years in July that I’ve been in therapy and there are so man — @sydnilafleur1.1KIt made 7 years in July that I’ve been in therapy and there are so many things I wish I could say to myself before that 0000Understanding why someone keeps hurting you can create compassion. It — @sydnilafleur466Understanding why someone keeps hurting you can create compassion. It does not make the pattern less painful or mean you0000How many of us learned that being “easygoing” was part of what made us — @sydnilafleur312How many of us learned that being “easygoing” was part of what made us lovable? You can be understanding, flexible, and 0000Healthy accountability means owning your behavior without absorbing re — @sydnilafleur463Healthy accountability means owning your behavior without absorbing responsibility for the entire relationship dynamic. 0000You do not have to remain in a conversation after it stops being respe — @sydnilafleur464You do not have to remain in a conversation after it stops being respectful or productive. Pausing with a clear commitme0000When honesty is followed by withdrawal or loss of affection, name the — @sydnilafleur336When honesty is followed by withdrawal or loss of affection, name the behavior and its impact without claiming to know t0000Boundaries may feel cruel to overfunctioners because they are accustom — @sydnilafleur300Boundaries may feel cruel to overfunctioners because they are accustomed to preventing other people’s discomfort. Anothe0000

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