@stevenmilanoSteven Milano

🇮🇹 NJ Dating + Relationship Decode Avoidant Exposed🪞 Free Red Flag 🚩 Checklist ↓

card updated Sep 11, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 401 · 5,700,000 likes total

Engagement14.38%above average

Account summary

@stevenmilano has 119,600 followers and 987 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 261,538 views and 35,302 likes. Engagement to views is 14.38%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−4.91 pp). Posts roughly 0.5 times a week. An average clip reaches 219% of the follower count.

Followers

119.6K

+800 in period

Engagement

14.38%

−4.91 pp newer half

Average views

261.5K

median 6.4K

Likes per clip

35.3K

278 comments avg

Shares / saves

2K / 6.6K

2.53% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.5 / wk

reach 219% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

A fearful avoidant self sabotages hardest when things are exactly what — @stevenmilano

10.3K1:45A fearful avoidant self sabotages hardest when things are exactly what he always said he wanted. Not when it's bad. When6161437232

A dismissive avoidant doesn't self sabotage with chaos. He self sabota — @stevenmilano

8.1K1:32A dismissive avoidant doesn't self sabotage with chaos. He self sabotages with the story he tells himself about why losi4761937186

He would rather lose you than sit in one uncomfortable conversation. T — @stevenmilano

50.2K1:59He would rather lose you than sit in one uncomfortable conversation. That's not stubbornness. That's what emotional avoi5.1K793541.6K

He fell for the version of you that was never meant to be permanent. T — @stevenmilano

2.8K1:25He fell for the version of you that was never meant to be permanent. The moment you became more human than that version 1941451

He showed up perfectly in the moments that mattered most. That's not l — @stevenmilano

2.7K1:24He showed up perfectly in the moments that mattered most. That's not love. That's someone who learned exactly when showi1367633

You saw the signs early. You stayed anyway because what you saw in him — @stevenmilano

1.2K1:45You saw the signs early. You stayed anyway because what you saw in him felt more true than what he kept showing you. Tha9641017

Insecure men, narcissists, and avoidants don't get taken down by the w — @stevenmilano

1.1K1:49Insecure men, narcissists, and avoidants don't get taken down by the women they hurt. They build their own demise brick 883615

An avoidant doesn't avoid conflict. They avoid accountability. And the — @stevenmilano

3.5K1:33An avoidant doesn't avoid conflict. They avoid accountability. And the moment you bring it to the table is the moment th1779860

He'll make you feel crazy for being angry — then blame you for walking — @stevenmilano

4.7K1:47He'll make you feel crazy for being angry — then blame you for walking. Your anger was information. You were right to li3181415106

He didn’t neg every woman he met. He negged you — because you were the — @stevenmilano

1.4M1:58He didn’t neg every woman he met. He negged you — because you were the one who didn’t need him. And he needed to fix tha190.7K9143.9K22.5K

He didn’t fall for your beauty and then become insecure. He was insecu — @stevenmilano

881.1K3:02He didn’t fall for your beauty and then become insecure. He was insecure first — and your beauty became the thing he nee128.8K1.7K11.5K29.3K

Catch the manipulation tactics insecure men will use to KEEP you attac — @stevenmilano

772.8K1:39Catch the manipulation tactics insecure men will use to KEEP you attached before you’re in too deep… The Red Flag Decode96.9K6038.3K25.1K

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.1% ER

Apr 9Sep 9Sep 11

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 11, 2026	10,300	616	14	37	232	6.48%
Sep 11, 2026	8,127	476	19	37	186	6.55%
Sep 10, 2026	50,200	5,125	79	354	1,646	11.07%
Sep 10, 2026	2,762	194	1	4	51	7.20%
Sep 10, 2026	2,685	136	7	6	33	5.55%
Sep 9, 2026	1,229	96	4	10	17	8.95%
Sep 9, 2026	1,050	88	3	6	15	9.24%
Sep 9, 2026	3,542	177	9	8	60	5.48%
Sep 9, 2026	4,665	318	14	15	106	7.44%
May 27, 2026	1,400,000	190,700	914	3,923	22,513	13.97%
May 12, 2026	881,100	128,800	1,670	11,500	29,349	16.11%
Apr 9, 2026	772,800	96,900	603	8,314	25,109	13.69%