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card updated Sep 18, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 745 · 2,500,000 likes total

Engagement10.77%above average

Account summary

@stephanne221 has 206,000 followers and 505 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 640,003 views and 61,411 likes. Engagement to views is 10.77%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.75 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 311% of the follower count.

Followers

206K

+0 in period

Engagement

10.77%

−1.75 pp newer half

Average views

640K

median 1.7K

Likes per clip

61.4K

994 comments avg

Shares / saves

6.6K / 13.3K

2.08% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 311% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Found this in my drafts from an off the dome moment! What do you guys — @stephanne221

1.1K3:15Found this in my drafts from an off the dome moment! What do you guys think? I also want to note that humans are compl73317

This doesn’t create self trust wounds at alllllll 🤫🤠 #relationships #s — @stephanne221

1.5K0:51This doesn’t create self trust wounds at alllllll 🤫🤠 #relationships #skit #satire #emotionalintelligence #attachmentstyl1377621

Random yaps off the dome! Please note that I do not think this makes N — @stephanne221

5.9K3:26Random yaps off the dome! Please note that I do not think this makes ND folks unlovable, more difficult to love, or har4493331158

This video is just brushing the surface of a giant topic here, and I h — @stephanne221

1.2K3:00This video is just brushing the surface of a giant topic here, and I hope you watch it while respecting your limits and 1287215

Replying to @Tim FromFL thanks for bringing this up! 😊 #attachmentstyl — @stephanne221

1.2K1:47Replying to @Tim FromFL thanks for bringing this up! 😊 #attachmentstyles #communication #emotionalintelligence #relation747216

This is a long one! But a super important framework to get into your b — @stephanne221

1.7K3:50This is a long one! But a super important framework to get into your bones as a parent or really anyone looking to engag1595739

Replying to @user6964514594211 yes, my supervisor used to call folks i — @stephanne221

1.1K0:50Replying to @user6964514594211 yes, my supervisor used to call folks in this dynamic a “help-rejecting complainer.” I th72778

This has been such an interesting trend to observe! I’m noticing how i — @stephanne221

3.4K0:15This has been such an interesting trend to observe! I’m noticing how it is: - influencing the way people metabolize thei19289828

For a lot of people, hearing the words *"you need to regulate"* doesn' — @stephanne221

730For a lot of people, hearing the words *"you need to regulate"* doesn't feel supportive. It feels like hearing: *"You're27109

It feels like the Hyperindependence movement may have begun to sneak i — @stephanne221

2.3K1:07It feels like the Hyperindependence movement may have begun to sneak into the attachment space… curious as to what you g1315618

Anxious attachment doesn’t make you needy, it makes you a pursuer. You — @stephanne221

4.5M1:51Anxious attachment doesn’t make you needy, it makes you a pursuer. You chase connection. You initiate hard conversation288.4K3K59.6K111.2K

This is why I insist that parents need support: they’re healing themse — @stephanne221

2.4M6:10This is why I insist that parents need support: they’re healing themselves, they’re healing their children, they often n331.3K2.8K6.1K44K

So believe it or not, i accidentally gave both millennial parents and — @stephanne221

1.4M4:38So believe it or not, i accidentally gave both millennial parents and boomer parents feedback on how they injure their c177.2K7K19.4K17.9K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.5% ER

Sep 2Aug 19Sep 2

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 2, 2026	1,133	73	3	1	7	6.80%
Aug 28, 2026	1,465	137	7	6	21	10.24%
Aug 22, 2026	5,877	449	33	31	158	8.73%
Aug 20, 2026	1,182	128	7	2	15	11.59%
Aug 20, 2026	1,165	74	7	2	16	7.12%
Aug 19, 2026	1,701	159	5	7	39	10.05%
Aug 19, 2026	1,092	72	7	7	8	7.88%
Aug 13, 2026	3,399	192	89	8	28	8.50%
Jul 16, 2026	730	27	1	0	9	3.84%
Jun 10, 2026	2,289	131	5	6	18	6.20%
Jun 25, 2025	4,500,000	288,400	2,965	59,600	111,168	7.80%
Dec 8, 2023	2,400,000	331,300	2,788	6,116	44,013	14.18%
Sep 2, 2023	1,400,000	177,200	7,004	19,400	17,941	14.54%