@stephanieswansonchangThe Grief Journal

Bereaved mom. Writer. Mental health activist. Community builder in child loss.

card updated Nov 8, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 4,851 · 507,400 likes total

Engagement13.91%above average

Account summary

@stephanieswansonchang has 40,400 followers and 657 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 169,669 views and 21,077 likes. Engagement to views is 13.91%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−3.11 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 420% of the follower count.

Followers

40.4K

+0 in period

Engagement

13.91%

−3.11 pp newer half

Average views

169.7K

median 1K

Likes per clip

21.1K

2.1K comments avg

Shares / saves

412 / 591

0.35% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 420% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Think back to the early days of losing your child. What words are phra — @stephanieswansonchang

6651:12Think back to the early days of losing your child. What words are phrases were used that helped you in the beginning? #t515400

Most of us say the same thing right after the disaster— “I don’t know — @stephanieswansonchang

9002:52Most of us say the same thing right after the disaster— “I don’t know what to do.” This is a normal response. The cortis1092302

#onthisday Domestic Violence is about establishing fear and control. I — @stephanieswansonchang

1.7K5:05#onthisday Domestic Violence is about establishing fear and control. It comes from knowing they don’t have what it takes1101936

8032:28#onthisday 711812

One day, I hope to let this person know they don’t have to avoid me. # — @stephanieswansonchang

1K2:49One day, I hope to let this person know they don’t have to avoid me. ##grief##thegriefjournal##mentalhealth##police##chi67501

@stephanieswansonchang — TikTok clip, Oct 22

1K2:091141201

Replying to @Christine Miller friend, you were so right about this com — @stephanieswansonchang

1K2:49Replying to @Christine Miller friend, you were so right about this comment. I flinched at it too. Hopefully my response 1012215

8132:11#onthisday 571813

Since Joshuah died, my natural default is to ruminate on the worst cas — @stephanieswansonchang

1.3K2:25Since Joshuah died, my natural default is to ruminate on the worst case scenario. There’s also a lot of free floating an1063413

9323:09#onthisday 42500

Replying to @becky #Thegriefjournal #childloss #grief #griefandhealing — @stephanieswansonchang

5.9K2:59Replying to @becky #Thegriefjournal #childloss #grief #griefandhealing #mentalhealth 4611042323

#griefjourney #griefislove #griefandloss #bereavement #grief #grieftok — @stephanieswansonchang

389.6K4:47#griefjourney #griefislove #griefandloss #bereavement #grief #grieftok #loss #grievingmothersoftiktok #childdeath #adult8.4K806316983

#griefjourney #grievingmother #griefawareness #bereavement #grief #gri — @stephanieswansonchang

1.8M4:06#griefjourney #grievingmother #griefawareness #bereavement #grief #grievingmothersoftiktok #murderedchildren #childdeath264.3K26.4K5K6.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.4% ER

Feb 14Oct 21Nov 6

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Nov 6, 2026	665	51	54	0	0	15.79%
Nov 6, 2026	900	109	23	0	2	14.67%
Oct 26, 2026	1,699	110	19	3	6	7.77%
Oct 25, 2026	803	71	18	1	2	11.21%
Oct 22, 2026	1,002	67	5	0	1	7.19%
Oct 22, 2026	1,009	114	12	0	1	12.49%
Oct 21, 2026	1,027	101	22	1	5	12.07%
Oct 20, 2026	813	57	18	1	3	9.35%
Oct 15, 2026	1,298	106	34	1	3	10.86%
Oct 14, 2026	932	42	5	0	0	5.04%
Jul 19, 2026	5,948	461	104	23	23	9.89%
Feb 12, 2024	389,600	8,406	806	316	983	2.45%
Feb 14, 2023	1,800,000	264,300	26,400	5,006	6,660	16.43%