@spitulnikBrian Spitulnik, LMSW

🏳️‍🌈 I'm Brian, a gay therapist working with gay men. 👇 Waitlist for my October live group program now open

card updated Oct 10, 2026 · 11 clips parsed · following 336 · 414,200 likes total

Engagement9.5%above average

Account summary

@spitulnik has 48,600 followers and 286 videos. Across the 11 parsed clips the average is 8,501 views and 717 likes. Engagement to views is 9.5%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.96 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 17% of the follower count.

Followers

48.6K

+200 in period

Engagement

9.5%

−0.96 pp newer half

Average views

8.5K

median 6.4K

Likes per clip

717

31 comments avg

Shares / saves

59 / 100

1.18% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 17% of followers

Latest clips

11 collected

The sex is not the problem. We're good at the sex. What's gone is ever — @spitulnik

6.1K2:18The sex is not the problem. We're good at the sex. What's gone is everything around it. The asking. The not-knowing. Sit694467382

The thinking feels like progress. You've researched this man. You've w — @spitulnik

7.1K2:51The thinking feels like progress. You've researched this man. You've workshopped the opening line with three friends. Y361101455

Your d*ck is so wonderfully honest. You've spent years treating it as — @spitulnik

2K2:50Your d*ck is so wonderfully honest. You've spent years treating it as the part of you that malfunctions. The thing that 2013631

You've never once apologized for the thing you said when you got humil — @spitulnik

2.2K2:41You've never once apologized for the thing you said when you got humiliated. You've explained it. He was being weird, he1768126

Nobody warns you how hard it is to be 17 at 40 years old. You’re a per — @spitulnik

6.4K2:58Nobody warns you how hard it is to be 17 at 40 years old. You’re a person with a career and a retirement account and you465141984

The worst part is you can't point to why. You didn't work a double. Yo — @spitulnik

6.9K2:43The worst part is you can't point to why. You didn't work a double. You didn't run a marathon. You had a normal Tuesday:6562250110

"I'm avoidant" is the most convenient sentence in gay dating. Say it e — @spitulnik

11.1K2:49"I'm avoidant" is the most convenient sentence in gay dating. Say it early enough and you've pre-approved every disappea8283629156

She never once asked us to be anything other than what we are. She jus — @spitulnik

18.8K1:47She never once asked us to be anything other than what we are. She just loved us, out loud, even where it cost her somet3K153414343

You don't even know what you're feeling anymore. You just know how to — @spitulnik

6.1K2:28You don't even know what you're feeling anymore. You just know how to make it stop. Waitlist for Connect Gayfully is ope385161867

Internalized homophobia doesn't just make you hate yourself. It makes — @spitulnik

1.9K2:45Internalized homophobia doesn't just make you hate yourself. It makes you hate the gay guy next to you, too. Waitlist fo1313117

Just a little disclaimer for you — @spitulnik

25K1:39Just a little disclaimer for you1K3525128

Engagement per clip

11 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.9% ER

Jan 29Sep 10Oct 5

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 5, 2026	6,079	694	46	73	82	13.37%
Oct 2, 2026	7,142	361	10	14	55	5.39%
Sep 28, 2026	2,006	201	3	6	31	10.47%
Sep 18, 2026	2,211	176	8	1	26	8.37%
Sep 14, 2026	6,366	465	14	19	84	7.82%
Sep 10, 2026	6,860	656	22	50	110	10.61%
Sep 1, 2026	11,100	828	36	29	156	8.05%
Aug 27, 2026	18,800	2,984	153	414	343	18.89%
Aug 19, 2026	6,052	385	16	18	67	6.92%
Aug 17, 2026	1,900	131	3	1	17	7.11%
Jan 29, 2024	25,000	1,005	35	25	128	4.26%