@shiftedsightSidni Raphael

Helping you navigate life after betrayal & rebuild marriage wisely Biblical truth + Psychology Heal on purpose

card updated Oct 25, 2026 · 16 clips parsed · following 70 · 670,700 likes total

Engagement9.77%above average

Account summary

@shiftedsight has 37,600 followers and 807 videos. Across the 16 parsed clips the average is 6,413 views and 415 likes. Engagement to views is 9.77%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−2.53 pp). Posts roughly 6.5 times a week. An average clip reaches 17% of the follower count.

Followers

37.6K

+1.3K in period

Engagement

9.77%

−2.53 pp newer half

Average views

6.4K

median 1.1K

Likes per clip

415

187 comments avg

Shares / saves

25 / 79

1.23% of viewers save

Posting rate

6.5 / wk

reach 17% of followers

Latest clips

16 collected

Rebuilding trust requires a willingness to be known—even when the ques — @shiftedsight

11.8KRebuilding trust requires a willingness to be known—even when the questions are uncomfortable and the answers don’t make7060217461

Some healing habits feel good immediately. Others feel like resisting — @shiftedsight

7211:04Some healing habits feel good immediately. Others feel like resisting the very thing that would give you relief right no764128

I can’t tell you how many times someone has sat with me after discover — @shiftedsight

1.1K0:23I can’t tell you how many times someone has sat with me after discovering their spouse’s affair and said, “I opened my B1133114

I will absolutely sit with you in your pain. I will listen. I will val — @shiftedsight

1.8K2:44I will absolutely sit with you in your pain. I will listen. I will validate what you’ve experienced. I will help you mak20551348

Here’s something I want betrayed partners to consider: If your spouse — @shiftedsight

5.7K2:27Here’s something I want betrayed partners to consider: If your spouse told you that you were better than the affair part255192697

Which outfit was your fave? And yes the friends I’m referring to are m — @shiftedsight

1.1K0:37Which outfit was your fave? And yes the friends I’m referring to are my husband and my mother 🤭 #fashiontiktok #churchfi112302

I built something for the woman who is done. Done trying to control it — @shiftedsight

4871:03I built something for the woman who is done. Done trying to control it. Done trying to change him into the husband you w141004

Let what you know now help you move forward. You don’t have to use it — @shiftedsight

8420:13Let what you know now help you move forward. You don’t have to use it to punish who you were. - your relational healing54417

As a believer do you need to forgive the affair partner? Yes. Should y — @shiftedsight

7K2:12As a believer do you need to forgive the affair partner? Yes. Should you wish them well? I’m sorry but also yes. But the240141688

65.7K0:104.3K2.9K63357

You were never meant to carry the marriage by yourself. Release. Repla — @shiftedsight

463You were never meant to carry the marriage by yourself. Release. Replace. Rebuild. is open, and there are two ways in. T16406

If you’re always the one reaching, always keeping score, always waitin — @shiftedsight

5201:15If you’re always the one reaching, always keeping score, always waiting on him to make the ache stop, RELEASE. REPLACE. 25315

One of the quickest ways to undermine a statement of accountability is — @shiftedsight

2K1:36One of the quickest ways to undermine a statement of accountability is to repeatedly behave as though you’re the victim 23663078

Marriage will absolutely require flexibility. But flexibility and negl — @shiftedsight

920Marriage will absolutely require flexibility. But flexibility and neglect are not synonyms. There may be seasons where y441722

One of the most dangerous things you can do to your marriage is contin — @shiftedsight

1.5K2:54One of the most dangerous things you can do to your marriage is continue evaluating your spouse as though you’re still d13851632

Some of you are more offended by the fact that your spouse is unhappy — @shiftedsight

9632:12Some of you are more offended by the fact that your spouse is unhappy than you are concerned about WHY they’re unhappy. 712816

Engagement per clip

16 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.8% ER

Oct 13Oct 23Oct 30

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 30, 2026	11,800	706	0	217	461	7.82%
Oct 29, 2026	721	76	4	1	28	11.23%
Oct 28, 2026	1,144	113	3	1	14	10.23%
Oct 27, 2026	1,771	205	5	13	48	12.59%
Oct 26, 2026	5,722	255	19	26	97	5.24%
Oct 25, 2026	1,070	112	3	0	2	10.75%
Oct 23, 2026	487	14	10	0	4	4.93%
Oct 23, 2026	842	54	4	1	7	7.01%
Oct 22, 2026	6,986	240	14	16	88	3.86%
Oct 21, 2026	65,700	4,328	2,908	63	357	11.11%
Oct 21, 2026	463	16	4	0	6	4.32%
Oct 20, 2026	520	25	3	1	5	5.58%
Oct 19, 2026	1,964	236	6	30	78	13.85%
Oct 15, 2026	920	44	1	7	22	5.65%
Oct 14, 2026	1,541	138	5	16	32	10.32%
Oct 13, 2026	963	71	2	8	16	8.41%