@realbenjaminsedaBenjamin | Dating Consultant

📹 1M+ subs on YT ⬇️ How to approach & attract any girl, anytime.

card updated Sep 27, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 161 · 6,600,000 likes total

Engagement7.72%normal range

Account summary

@realbenjaminseda has 407,600 followers and 1,751 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 1,231,433 views and 91,944 likes. Engagement to views is 7.72%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−4.75 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 302% of the follower count.

Followers

407.6K

history is still being collected

Engagement

7.72%

−4.75 pp newer half

Average views

1.2M

median 952

Likes per clip

91.9K

366 comments avg

Shares / saves

2.7K / 19.5K

1.58% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 302% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

You can spend tens of thousands of dollars on high-end matchmakers and — @realbenjaminseda

7970:44You can spend tens of thousands of dollars on high-end matchmakers and still end up on bad dates. Outsourcing your datin21101

Money might get you on her calendar, but a date still dies if she gets — @realbenjaminseda

8850:40Money might get you on her calendar, but a date still dies if she gets bored. When a woman already meets successful guys44003

Severe approach anxiety makes saying a simple hello feel impossible. I — @realbenjaminseda

2000:36Severe approach anxiety makes saying a simple hello feel impossible. If you put in the work, your comfort and skill leve4001

Starting a conversation with a woman you find attractive can feel para — @realbenjaminseda

1.1K0:36Starting a conversation with a woman you find attractive can feel paralyzing when you have zero practice. Putting in the32016

Hiring a service to fix your dating life never solves the underlying s — @realbenjaminseda

3760:34Hiring a service to fix your dating life never solves the underlying skill gap. Once the duration ends, you are back on 8000

Outsourcing your dating life leaves you with the exact same skill defi — @realbenjaminseda

9520:34Outsourcing your dating life leaves you with the exact same skill deficit once the service ends. Real confidence comes f18004

Failing on dates is normal, but failing without feedback keeps you stu — @realbenjaminseda

1.4K0:34Failing on dates is normal, but failing without feedback keeps you stuck. If you fail without getting feedback, you end 58108

Swiping on apps all day and getting zero matches makes it easy to feel — @realbenjaminseda

8810:36Swiping on apps all day and getting zero matches makes it easy to feel stuck and make excuses. Meeting women in real lif38124

Most guys talk themselves out of taking action before they even try. Y — @realbenjaminseda

7760:31Most guys talk themselves out of taking action before they even try. You see an opportunity, hesitate, and let assumptio24001

Relying on a single dating channel leaves meeting quality women comple — @realbenjaminseda

1.2K0:23Relying on a single dating channel leaves meeting quality women completely up to chance. Real consistency comes from com240111

DM me “free course” on IG @iambasedzeus for my guide to 2-3 dates per — @realbenjaminseda

8.1M0:40DM me “free course” on IG @iambasedzeus for my guide to 2-3 dates per week565.6K2.3K14.9K136K

5.1M0:49DM me “free course” on IG @iambasedzeus for my guide to 2-3 dates per week280.9K5585.9K74.2K

The reason most guys suck at texting. IG @iambasedzeus #basedzeus #bas — @realbenjaminseda

2.8M0:36The reason most guys suck at texting. IG @iambasedzeus #basedzeus #basedbenji #dating #highvalue #highstatus #texting #348.5K1.9K14.5K43.2K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.0% ER

Feb 21Sep 19Sep 25

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 25, 2026	797	21	1	0	1	2.76%
Sep 24, 2026	885	44	0	0	3	4.97%
Sep 23, 2026	200	4	0	0	1	2.00%
Sep 22, 2026	1,133	32	0	1	6	2.91%
Sep 21, 2026	376	8	0	0	0	2.13%
Sep 20, 2026	952	18	0	0	4	1.89%
Sep 19, 2026	1,434	58	1	0	8	4.11%
Sep 18, 2026	881	38	1	2	4	4.65%
Sep 17, 2026	776	24	0	0	1	3.09%
Sep 16, 2026	1,195	24	0	1	11	2.09%
Aug 15, 2023	8,100,000	565,600	2,329	14,900	135,952	7.20%
Aug 14, 2023	5,100,000	280,900	558	5,896	74,200	5.63%
Feb 21, 2023	2,800,000	348,500	1,869	14,500	43,212	13.03%