@pattytheconnectorpattytheconnector

Helping single moms rebuild their confidence, find stability, and create a life they truly love. ↓

card updated Sep 25, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 76 · 228,800 likes total

Engagement13.62%above average

Account summary

@pattytheconnector has 21,100 followers and 142 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 95,641 views and 11,146 likes. Engagement to views is 13.62%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.66 pp). Posts roughly 0.6 times a week. An average clip reaches 453% of the follower count.

Followers

21.1K

+600 in period

Engagement

13.62%

+1.66 pp newer half

Average views

95.6K

median 1.1K

Likes per clip

11.1K

247 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.6K / 2.1K

2.24% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.6 / wk

reach 453% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Every woman you meet is someone’s daughter, sister, wife, or mother. B — @pattytheconnector

4920:52Every woman you meet is someone’s daughter, sister, wife, or mother. But beyond those relationships, she is a human bein37014

When I tell you this Uber story gets stranger… 🤍 Because by the time w — @pattytheconnector

4371:28When I tell you this Uber story gets stranger… 🤍 Because by the time we got to the destination, I was looking at everyth19001

Giiirrrl, let me tell you about this Uber ride because… 🤍 It was suppo — @pattytheconnector

5621:23Giiirrrl, let me tell you about this Uber ride because… 🤍 It was supposed to be a simple 45 minute ride. Nothing special23321

Sis, you’ve been hard enough on yourself. 🤍 You made the best choices — @pattytheconnector

1.3K0:44Sis, you’ve been hard enough on yourself. 🤍 You made the best choices you could with what you knew, what you had, and wh21241524

Queen, have you ever been so tired that you stopped asking why? I reme — @pattytheconnector

1.9K0:54Queen, have you ever been so tired that you stopped asking why? I remember that feeling. I cried, prayed, questioned eve381017

Sis, missing the life you dreamed of doesn’t mean you need to go back — @pattytheconnector

1.4K0:39Sis, missing the life you dreamed of doesn’t mean you need to go back to the person who broke that dream. 🤍 You can grie2297323

Being a single mom may not be the life you planned, but there is still — @pattytheconnector

1K0:07Being a single mom may not be the life you planned, but there is still so much beauty in the life you’re building. Sis, 70414

Keeping the peace should not cost you yours. Queen, you are allowed to — @pattytheconnector

1.1K0:41Keeping the peace should not cost you yours. Queen, you are allowed to say no. You are allowed to protect your space. An1318914

The new apartment. The smiles. Getting the groceries. Making sure ever — @pattytheconnector

7641:26The new apartment. The smiles. Getting the groceries. Making sure everything is ready for her next chapter. But nobody s67213

Motherhood will have you doing the MOST. Jumping through hoops, ready — @pattytheconnector

5261:50Motherhood will have you doing the MOST. Jumping through hoops, ready to do anything for your kid. 😮‍💨 But when it’s you31004

A single mother becomes something most people will never fully underst — @pattytheconnector

137.1K0:50A single mother becomes something most people will never fully understand. She becomes the father. And the mother. She c13.1K3261.6K2.1K

What does “single mom” even mean? A mom is a mom. Period. Single or ma — @pattytheconnector

796.5K1:08What does “single mom” even mean? A mom is a mom. Period. Single or married doesn’t change the fact that you are the nur99.9K2.2K14.5K17.9K

You want to know if you’ve actually started respecting yourself? You s — @pattytheconnector

300.2K1:03You want to know if you’ve actually started respecting yourself? You stopped explaining yourself to people who weren’t c30.7K6565.2K7.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 20.0% ER

May 6Sep 17Sep 24

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 24, 2026	492	37	0	1	4	7.72%
Sep 23, 2026	437	19	0	0	1	4.35%
Sep 22, 2026	562	23	3	2	1	4.98%
Sep 21, 2026	1,331	212	4	15	24	17.36%
Sep 20, 2026	1,913	381	0	1	7	19.97%
Sep 18, 2026	1,402	229	7	3	23	17.05%
Sep 17, 2026	1,008	70	4	1	4	7.44%
Sep 16, 2026	1,096	131	8	9	14	13.50%
Sep 15, 2026	764	67	2	1	3	9.16%
Sep 14, 2026	526	31	0	0	4	5.89%
Jun 29, 2026	137,100	13,100	326	1,552	2,080	10.92%
Jun 19, 2026	796,500	99,900	2,200	14,500	17,934	14.64%
May 6, 2026	300,200	30,700	656	5,170	7,722	12.17%