@patstedmandatingPat Stedman

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card updated Oct 21, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 14 · 290,900 likes total

Engagement12.32%above average

Account summary

@patstedmandating has 16,800 followers and 602 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 128,506 views and 15,071 likes. Engagement to views is 12.32%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−9.99 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 765% of the follower count.

Followers

16.8K

+0 in period

Engagement

12.32%

−9.99 pp newer half

Average views

128.5K

median 168

Likes per clip

15.1K

111 comments avg

Shares / saves

648 / 2.1K

1.6% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 765% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Being good in bed does not preclude sex from becoming a control dynami — @patstedmandating

1591:28Being good in bed does not preclude sex from becoming a control dynamic. A woman can have five or six orgasms a session 1100

The guys who struggle most with women are often the smartest ones in t — @patstedmandating

96The guys who struggle most with women are often the smartest ones in the room — engineers, traders, founders who've buil1000

Doing everything she asks won't fix your sex life. You'll get marginal — @patstedmandating

2570:33Doing everything she asks won't fix your sex life. You'll get marginal improvement. But you'll never feel in control, an7031

Desire vs comfort in attraction: the gap between her having you create — @patstedmandating

1681:10Desire vs comfort in attraction: the gap between her having you creates desire. How she feels when she has you creates c4101

Sexual anxiety in marriage often comes from one thing: she's using sex — @patstedmandating

1651:30Sexual anxiety in marriage often comes from one thing: she's using sex as control. Once you stop caring, it changes ever4000

"Great middle game, bad at closing" isn't the problem — it's the sympt — @patstedmandating

100"Great middle game, bad at closing" isn't the problem — it's the symptom. He talks about interesting things but never sh0000

Women won't meet up. They just talk and string you along. That's the d — @patstedmandating

1090:21Women won't meet up. They just talk and string you along. That's the dating frustration most guys are dealing with right2100

A mediocre marriage doesn't stay mediocre. In an age of easy divorce, — @patstedmandating

270A mediocre marriage doesn't stay mediocre. In an age of easy divorce, that quiet calm deteriorates until leaving starts 3000

Leads die fast. The meta has always been: get her number, move quickly — @patstedmandating

1750:53Leads die fast. The meta has always been: get her number, move quickly to a date. Texting bleeds the energy that should 4000

Dating mindset shift: collect a lot of numbers, then be ready for a lo — @patstedmandating

770:16Dating mindset shift: collect a lot of numbers, then be ready for a longer war of attrition with them.2000

Specifically, when in an unhealthy relationship, there can only be one — @patstedmandating

1.1M0:59Specifically, when in an unhealthy relationship, there can only be one anxious and one avoidant. The anxious partner wil114.4K7085.5K14.8K

When you have a lot of energy, it's like there's this big ball of fire — @patstedmandating

396.6K0:58When you have a lot of energy, it's like there's this big ball of fire inside of you that needs to be released. And if y61.4K3071.9K8.2K

It's important to understand the push/pull that every relationship has — @patstedmandating

172.4K0:37It's important to understand the push/pull that every relationship has, this "taking" of energy is not a malicious actio20.1K4301K3.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.0% ER

Oct 14Oct 19Oct 20

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 20, 2026	159	1	1	0	0	1.26%
Oct 20, 2026	96	1	0	0	0	1.04%
Oct 20, 2026	257	7	0	3	1	3.89%
Oct 19, 2026	168	4	1	0	1	2.98%
Oct 19, 2026	165	4	0	0	0	2.42%
Oct 19, 2026	100	0	0	0	0	0.00%
Oct 19, 2026	109	2	1	0	0	2.75%
Oct 18, 2026	270	3	0	0	0	1.11%
Oct 18, 2026	175	4	0	0	0	2.29%
Oct 18, 2026	77	2	0	0	0	2.60%
Dec 13, 2022	1,100,000	114,400	708	5,453	14,834	10.96%
Oct 24, 2022	396,600	61,400	307	1,929	8,192	16.05%
Oct 14, 2022	172,400	20,100	430	1,041	3,672	12.51%