@patricialamastherapy✨Patricia Lamas LCSW✨therapist

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card updated Sep 17, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 2,256 · 4,900,000 likes total

Engagement13.34%above average

Account summary

@patricialamastherapy has 263,100 followers and 270 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 1,247,518 views and 153,430 likes. Engagement to views is 13.34%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−8.1 pp). An average clip reaches 474% of the follower count.

Followers

263.1K

history is still being collected

Engagement

13.34%

−8.1 pp newer half

Average views

1.2M

median 1.5K

Likes per clip

153.4K

1.1K comments avg

Shares / saves

11.9K / 11.4K

0.92% of viewers save

Posting rate

—

reach 474% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

A vulnerable series as I go through postpartum myself ( 9 weeks PP!) a — @patricialamastherapy

5381:12A vulnerable series as I go through postpartum myself ( 9 weeks PP!) and support my clients through it❤️ you got this ma22700

We're back 👋 It's been a minute! For those who are new here, I'm Patri — @patricialamastherapy

1.1K1:22We're back 👋 It's been a minute! For those who are new here, I'm Patricia, a licensed couples therapist in Los Angeles a49202

Remembering love is a second form of consciousness we have to develop. — @patricialamastherapy

2.1K0:13Remembering love is a second form of consciousness we have to develop. It takes thought and care to remember your partne59196

Within a complaint, there is a hidden request. Practice finding these — @patricialamastherapy

6.1K0:37Within a complaint, there is a hidden request. Practice finding these requests to get you closer to what you want with y38292257

According to @TheGottmanInstitute there are 4 keybehaviors that can ne — @patricialamastherapy

1.3K0:18According to @TheGottmanInstitute there are 4 keybehaviors that can negatively influence your relationship: 1. Criticism51225

"The way you say goodbye isn’t just a small moment—it sets the tone fo — @patricialamastherapy

1.4K0:09"The way you say goodbye isn’t just a small moment—it sets the tone for your whole day. 🚪💋" Rushed and distant? You migh38010

4. We keep eachother in mind and agree to prioritize us, working on th — @patricialamastherapy

1.7K0:134. We keep eachother in mind and agree to prioritize us, working on the problem, not each other as a team. These are so64245

Dear mama: you made it. You made it through the birth of your child, T — @patricialamastherapy

9670:15Dear mama: you made it. You made it through the birth of your child, Through the postpartum fog Through the sleepless n40210

Decisions that are one directional and only serve your partner are a r — @patricialamastherapy

1.5K0:38Decisions that are one directional and only serve your partner are a recipe for disaster and resentment. Selflessness ca47127

We heal where we are wounded, even if some of this work may be inner c — @patricialamastherapy

1K0:08We heal where we are wounded, even if some of this work may be inner child, self reflective work, we cannot exist withou41203

Join @matthiasjbarker and I on our live event from trigger to trust to — @patricialamastherapy

4.9M0:18Join @matthiasjbarker and I on our live event from trigger to trust to understand your responses to your #partner #relat539.3K3.1K72.4K63.1K

🔑 tip: you have to agree to RETURN with the intent to repair #relation — @patricialamastherapy

4.4M0:09🔑 tip: you have to agree to RETURN with the intent to repair #relationshipgoals #attachment #relationshiptips #couplest545.1K1.6K19.5K23.6K

Follow for more tips from a couples’ therapist ☺️ #relationshipgoals # — @patricialamastherapy

6.9M0:15Follow for more tips from a couples’ therapist ☺️ #relationshipgoals #relationship #datingadvice #learnontiktok #mentalh909.4K9.3K63.2K61.9K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.2% ER

Nov 19Feb 12Aug 19

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Aug 19, 2026	538	22	7	0	0	5.39%
Aug 10, 2026	1,058	49	2	0	2	4.82%
Mar 23, 2025	2,068	59	1	9	6	3.34%
Mar 17, 2025	6,066	382	9	22	57	6.81%
Feb 25, 2025	1,345	51	2	2	5	4.09%
Feb 18, 2025	1,428	38	0	1	0	2.73%
Feb 12, 2025	1,688	64	2	4	5	4.15%
Feb 11, 2025	967	40	2	1	0	4.45%
Feb 5, 2025	1,532	47	1	2	7	3.26%
Feb 4, 2025	1,044	41	2	0	3	4.12%
Feb 27, 2023	4,900,000	539,300	3,089	72,400	63,119	12.55%
Jan 17, 2022	4,400,000	545,100	1,618	19,500	23,583	12.87%
Nov 19, 2020	6,900,000	909,400	9,331	63,200	61,928	14.23%