@openlycommittedDanielle | OpenlyCommitted

Navigating open love 💫 Obsessed with skin & hair care ✨ Life in progress 😉

card updated Sep 28, 2026 · 23 clips parsed · following 936 · 7,300,000 likes total

Engagement14.44%above average

Account summary

@openlycommitted has 229,000 followers and 752 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 1,189,526 views and 169,761 likes. Engagement to views is 14.44%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−9.49 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 519% of the follower count.

Followers

229K

history is still being collected

Engagement

14.44%

−9.49 pp newer half

Average views

1.2M

median 7.6K

Likes per clip

169.8K

830 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.2K / 10.2K

0.86% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 519% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

I borrowed the Five Whys technique from work and started using it to u — @openlycommitted

5.4K0:32I borrowed the Five Whys technique from work and started using it to understand my jealousy. Every time I felt jealous, 23671019

Unpopular opinion? I understand BOTH sides of the veto power debate in — @openlycommitted

I usually just say I’m in an open marriage. It’s simple, I like how it — @openlycommitted

189.2K0:57I usually just say I’m in an open marriage. It’s simple, I like how it sounds, and it leaves room for our relationships 4.4K106203222

Why is making friends in your 40s so awkward?! 😂 I can ask a man out o — @openlycommitted

7.6K1:07Why is making friends in your 40s so awkward?! 😂 I can ask a man out on a date without thinking twice, but asking anothe2911139

Imagine if we talked about friendship hierarchy the way we talk about — @openlycommitted

361.5K1:03Imagine if we talked about friendship hierarchy the way we talk about hierarchy in non-monogamy. 😂 #nonmonogamy #openrel23.5K2507291.4K

On Saturday Night Live, Shane Gillis said, “I haven’t been to the gym — @openlycommitted

4.8K0:47On Saturday Night Live, Shane Gillis said, “I haven’t been to the gym in so long, I didn’t know women just dress like wh89702

I’ve been hearing a lot of talk lately about whether consensual non-mo — @openlycommitted

7.9K0:11I’ve been hearing a lot of talk lately about whether consensual non-monogamy is a choice or an orientation. For me, open2848117

This is part two of making my son‘s all-time favorite meal, fried mac — @openlycommitted

3.2K1:27This is part two of making my son‘s all-time favorite meal, fried mac & cheese bites. In part one I talked about having 79214

I'm making my son's all-time favorite meal, fried mac and cheese bites — @openlycommitted

3.2K1:11I'm making my son's all-time favorite meal, fried mac and cheese bites, partly because we've been talking about some pre99319

I gender-swapped the Cornell group chat. They did the unthinkable: not — @openlycommitted

3.4K0:40I gender-swapped the Cornell group chat. They did the unthinkable: nothing to him. #groupchat 570154

Opening your relationship might end it. But that doesn’t mean opening — @openlycommitted

4.6K0:49Opening your relationship might end it. But that doesn’t mean opening was what broke it. #nonmonogamy #openrelationship 255131319

I spent days making a satyr costume for one night of dancing until sun — @openlycommitted

2.6K1:01I spent days making a satyr costume for one night of dancing until sunrise. Usually, when I pull out my sewing machine, 218428

Marie flew all the way from Germany so we could put our crafting skill — @openlycommitted

1.5K0:10Marie flew all the way from Germany so we could put our crafting skills to very good use and dance until the early hours74301

Calling 2026 from 1955 and finding out we’re still debating whether wo — @openlycommitted

4.4K1:19Calling 2026 from 1955 and finding out we’re still debating whether women should control their own pregnancies and votes2825711

Ah yes, the children. History’s favorite excuse for judging families y — @openlycommitted

155.4K0:52Ah yes, the children. History’s favorite excuse for judging families you don’t understand. Every generation becomes conv23.2K1883351K

Yes, I did purposely dress up as a tradwife to speak on a panel about — @openlycommitted

2.8K0:53Yes, I did purposely dress up as a tradwife to speak on a panel about non monogamy in mainstream media. #enm #opencommit123517

I feel deeply fortunate for how supportive my mom is even though she d — @openlycommitted

1.4K0:47I feel deeply fortunate for how supportive my mom is even though she disagrees with our open marriage. For anyone else w57221

Being part of someone else’s story doesn’t automatically make every de — @openlycommitted

8K0:54Being part of someone else’s story doesn’t automatically make every detail yours to share. You can ask for support while3999626

I love traveling with my husband. I also love traveling without him. S — @openlycommitted

11.8K0:45I love traveling with my husband. I also love traveling without him. Somewhere along the way, society decided that a hap504241722

I don’t think there is one universally right time to talk to children — @openlycommitted

17.9K0:59I don’t think there is one universally right time to talk to children about non-monogamy. It depends on the children, th733302629

The even better story is about his ex-girlfriend who took matters into — @openlycommitted

952.2K1:18The even better story is about his ex-girlfriend who took matters into her own hands and bought herself stunning jewelr61K8934.2K1.9K

Are we confusing the terms feminism and feminist? #feminism #feminist — @openlycommitted

23.2M0:59Are we confusing the terms feminism and feminist? #feminism #feminist #opencommitment Stich with @Lily Kate 3.7M14.4K20.3K227.1K

Replying to @littleredcorset one phase of monogamy just happened, my h — @openlycommitted

2.4M1:02Replying to @littleredcorset one phase of monogamy just happened, my husband asked me for the other. #enm #nonmonogamy #88.3K3.1K2.1K2.8K

Engagement per clip

23 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.1% ER

Aug 31Sep 23Oct 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 28, 2026	5,371	236	7	10	19	4.71%
Oct 25, 2026	10,200	295	8	9	21	3.06%
Oct 24, 2026	189,200	4,438	106	203	222	2.51%
Oct 22, 2026	7,555	291	11	3	9	4.04%
Oct 21, 2026	361,500	23,500	250	729	1,365	6.77%
Oct 15, 2026	4,839	89	7	0	2	1.98%
Oct 13, 2026	7,939	284	8	1	17	3.69%
Oct 12, 2026	3,195	79	2	1	4	2.57%
Oct 8, 2026	3,166	99	3	1	9	3.25%
Oct 4, 2026	3,355	57	0	15	4	2.15%
Sep 25, 2026	4,629	255	13	13	19	6.07%
Sep 23, 2026	2,632	218	4	2	8	8.51%
Sep 23, 2026	1,542	74	3	0	1	4.99%
Sep 17, 2026	4,419	282	5	7	11	6.65%
Sep 16, 2026	155,400	23,200	188	335	1,047	15.27%
Sep 15, 2026	2,819	123	5	1	7	4.58%
Sep 14, 2026	1,410	57	2	2	1	4.33%
Sep 7, 2026	8,033	399	9	6	26	5.15%
Sep 3, 2026	11,800	504	24	17	22	4.62%
Sep 1, 2026	17,900	733	30	26	29	4.41%
May 4, 2025	952,200	61,000	893	4,173	1,941	6.94%
Jan 25, 2024	23,200,000	3,700,000	14,400	20,300	227,069	16.10%
Aug 31, 2022	2,400,000	88,300	3,103	2,125	2,758	3.90%