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card updated Oct 10, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 1 · 3,200,000 likes total

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Engagement7.27%normal range

Account summary

@officialkanecross has 117,300 followers and 1,292 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 3,008 views and 202 likes. Engagement to views is 7.27%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−2.94 pp). Posts roughly 6.6 times a week. An average clip reaches 3% of the follower count.

Followers

117.3K

history is still being collected

Engagement

7.27%

−2.94 pp newer half

Average views

median 1.5K

Likes per clip

202

4 comments avg

Shares / saves

13 / 17

0.57% of viewers save

Posting rate

6.6 / wk

reach 3% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

You ask her something from across the kitchen. She says "What?" You ta — @officialkanecross

2.1K0:10You ask her something from across the kitchen. She says "What?" You take a breath to repeat it, and she answers before y1012109

At work she runs meetings, makes the hard calls and does not flinch. T — @officialkanecross

1.4K0:11At work she runs meetings, makes the hard calls and does not flinch. Then you pull into her parents' driveway, and by th47042

Everyone talks about fight or flight. Nobody told you about the third — @officialkanecross

8440:10Everyone talks about fight or flight. Nobody told you about the third one. Freeze is one of the nervous system's oldest 51223

You bump into her in the kitchen. She says sorry. You reach past her f — @officialkanecross

2.2K0:10You bump into her in the kitchen. She says sorry. You reach past her for a glass. She says sorry. She apologizes to a ch881179

Every birthday someone asks what you want, and you say "I don't need a — @officialkanecross

1.5K0:11Every birthday someone asks what you want, and you say "I don't need anything." Then the day comes, nobody plans a thing91252

He texts back within minutes. He shows up when he says he will. He has — @officialkanecross

1.3K0:10He texts back within minutes. He shows up when he says he will. He has never once made you guess where you stand. And so53114

You read it at 2pm. You knew exactly what you wanted to say. You even — @officialkanecross

1.5K0:10You read it at 2pm. You knew exactly what you wanted to say. You even worded it perfectly in your head on the drive home35113

You said you were getting in the shower at 8. At 8:40 you were still o — @officialkanecross

1.3K0:10You said you were getting in the shower at 8. At 8:40 you were still on the couch, fully meaning to get up. Then you fin81131

Every new show asks your brain to do work. New characters and new surp — @officialkanecross

1.2K0:10Every new show asks your brain to do work. New characters and new surprises to brace for. For a lot of neurodivergent wo924115

ADHD expert William Dodson calls it an interest-based nervous system. — @officialkanecross

6.2K0:10ADHD expert William Dodson calls it an interest-based nervous system. Importance alone does not start the engine. Intere33332730

Is she bratting, or is she telling you something? Once every pause and — @officialkanecross

2K0:28Is she bratting, or is she telling you something? Once every pause and every "why" gets filed under bratting, you stop r1393312

Send this to him. His fear of hurting you is the reason he's safe to f — @officialkanecross

2.1K0:42Send this to him. His fear of hurting you is the reason he's safe to follow. What he can't do is wait until he feels rea16122527

Aftercare is not hard people. It’s simple. — @officialkanecross

15.3K0:25Aftercare is not hard people. It’s simple.1.4K2559115

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 9.4% ER

Sep 26Oct 8Oct 10

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 10, 2026	2,140	101	2	10	9	5.28%
Oct 10, 2026	1,431	47	0	4	2	3.56%
Oct 9, 2026	844	51	2	2	3	6.52%
Oct 9, 2026	2,231	88	1	17	9	4.75%
Oct 9, 2026	1,544	91	2	5	2	6.35%
Oct 8, 2026	1,302	53	1	1	4	4.22%
Oct 8, 2026	1,493	35	1	1	3	2.48%
Oct 8, 2026	1,289	81	1	3	1	6.59%
Oct 8, 2026	1,173	92	4	11	5	9.12%
Oct 8, 2026	6,210	333	3	27	30	5.85%
Sep 29, 2026	1,992	139	3	3	12	7.28%
Sep 26, 2026	2,150	161	2	25	27	8.74%
Sep 26, 2026	15,300	1,354	25	59	115	9.40%