@oby__abbaObianuju Mbagwu

Relationship/Femininity Coach To book a session: 👇 📧 Obianujuabba@gmail.com

card updated Sep 30, 2026 · 23 clips parsed · following 54 · 483,000 likes total

Engagement8.08%above average

Account summary

@oby__abba has 101,100 followers and 301 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 66,946 views and 4,376 likes. Engagement to views is 8.08%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−5.1 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 66% of the follower count.

Followers

101.1K

history is still being collected

Engagement

8.08%

−5.1 pp newer half

Average views

66.9K

median 1.9K

Likes per clip

4.4K

97 comments avg

Shares / saves

934 / 590

0.88% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 66% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

A woman experiences this transformation when she learns to communicate — @oby__abba

1.2KA woman experiences this transformation when she learns to communicate with softness, confidence, emotional intelligence29004

6 Unusual Ways Your Life Changes When You Become a Soft Woman. Wait Ti — @oby__abba

8560:096 Unusual Ways Your Life Changes When You Become a Soft Woman. Wait Till You Hear No. 4! 1. You sleep more and better. W39213

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I'm Obianuju, a family life therapist, marriage counselor, and feminin — @oby__abba

1.6KI'm Obianuju, a family life therapist, marriage counselor, and femininity coach. After almost 5 years and 1,000+ women, 970724

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He's not pulling back because you're wrong. He's pulling back because — @oby__abba

489He's not pulling back because you're wrong. He's pulling back because of what he heard. You said, "You're doing it wrong18003

Habits I stole from soft women who are pursued by their husbands but s — @oby__abba

26.2K0:09Habits I stole from soft women who are pursued by their husbands but still never lose themselves. 1. They say what they 599825170

Hear this once and never unhear it. You don't have to prove you're wor — @oby__abba

3550:10Hear this once and never unhear it. You don't have to prove you're worthy of love by being useful. You are not loved for22100

Awareness is uncomfortable. Once you see the over-giving, the silent r — @oby__abba

262Awareness is uncomfortable. Once you see the over-giving, the silent resentment, the way you never ask for help, you can14001

Strong woman vs. soft woman. The strong woman hints and hopes he catch — @oby__abba

3.6KStrong woman vs. soft woman. The strong woman hints and hopes he catches the drift. The soft woman asks. The strong woma1026641

How has marriage favored you? Please write it in the comment section. — @oby__abba

1.2K2:58How has marriage favored you? Please write it in the comment section. #relationshipcoach #relationshipcounselor 95807

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If you want to begin your feminine journey, send me a DM saying saying — @oby__abba

49.7K1:26If you want to begin your feminine journey, send me a DM saying saying "FEMININE" To grab this course. (Comes with a 1 h2.3K73431562

Work on your insecurities so that they can loose their power over you. — @oby__abba

3.6K1:34Work on your insecurities so that they can loose their power over you. #femininityteacher #FemininityReset 410111952

The problems on the surface are not the real problems, they are just t — @oby__abba

4.5K2:11The problems on the surface are not the real problems, they are just the effects or the symptoms of the infestation. Sit47761344

Creativity is the secret to always getting a YES. Qatch till the end. — @oby__abba

3.3K2:23Creativity is the secret to always getting a YES. Qatch till the end. Like, comment, repost. See you on my next one. #fe34952864

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10.5K2:591.1K30134260

THINGS YOU DO YOU THINK IS FEMININE BUT IS NOT. Watch till the end. Yo — @oby__abba

1.9K2:02THINGS YOU DO YOU THINK IS FEMININE BUT IS NOT. Watch till the end. You want to start your femininity journey but you do1866226

2.7K2:2832015920

Day 3- 10 Hard Truths I had to Learn to be a More Feminine Wife. As a — @oby__abba

628.6K1:19Day 3- 10 Hard Truths I had to Learn to be a More Feminine Wife. As a wife, if you want to create an emotionally safe en34.9K9458.4K5.4K

Day 1- 10 Hard Truths I had to Learn to be a More Feminine Wife. God h — @oby__abba

431.1K1:28Day 1- 10 Hard Truths I had to Learn to be a More Feminine Wife. God has not called you to change your husband, God has 37K82711.8K4.5K

364K1:21Femininity Challenge Day 122.3K2776252.4K

Engagement per clip

23 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 12.9% ER

Apr 19Sep 24Oct 31

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 31, 2026	1,168	29	0	0	4	2.48%
Oct 30, 2026	856	39	2	1	3	4.91%
Oct 30, 2026	594	24	2	0	3	4.38%
Oct 30, 2026	1,619	97	0	7	24	6.42%
Oct 29, 2026	612	40	0	0	0	6.54%
Oct 29, 2026	489	18	0	0	3	3.68%
Oct 28, 2026	26,200	599	8	25	170	2.41%
Oct 28, 2026	355	22	1	0	0	6.48%
Oct 28, 2026	262	14	0	0	1	5.34%
Oct 28, 2026	3,633	102	6	6	41	3.14%
Sep 28, 2026	1,199	95	8	0	7	8.59%
Sep 24, 2026	1,077	127	4	1	7	12.26%
Sep 23, 2026	49,700	2,257	73	431	562	5.56%
Sep 20, 2026	3,583	410	11	19	52	12.28%
Sep 18, 2026	4,535	477	6	13	44	10.94%
Sep 16, 2026	3,332	349	5	28	64	11.46%
Sep 15, 2026	1,776	160	4	11	24	9.85%
Sep 9, 2026	10,500	1,081	30	134	260	11.86%
Sep 7, 2026	1,887	186	6	2	26	10.28%
Sep 7, 2026	2,674	320	15	9	20	12.86%
Jun 22, 2025	628,600	34,900	945	8,374	5,395	7.03%
Jun 20, 2025	431,100	37,000	827	11,800	4,494	11.51%
Apr 19, 2025	364,000	22,300	277	625	2,357	6.37%