@notyouraverageministerVincent A Casey Sr.

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card updated Sep 27, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 511 · 3,800,000 likes total

Engagement17.25%above average

Account summary

@notyouraverageminister has 181,200 followers and 520 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 310,709 views and 43,374 likes. Engagement to views is 17.25%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.29 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 171% of the follower count.

Followers

181.2K

history is still being collected

Engagement

17.25%

−1.29 pp newer half

Average views

310.7K

median 3.5K

Likes per clip

43.4K

871 comments avg

Shares / saves

9.3K / 11K

3.54% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 171% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

You know your triggers and why you shut down, get defensive, or say th — @notyouraverageminister

3431:17You know your triggers and why you shut down, get defensive, or say things you regret. But you’re still having the same 35315

She feels unheard. He feels like nothing he says matters. So she pushe — @notyouraverageminister

1.1K1:28She feels unheard. He feels like nothing he says matters. So she pushes harder, he gets defensive, and they have the sam138132254

Is she complaining, or does she miss you? Her delivery may not be perf — @notyouraverageminister

12K2:57Is she complaining, or does she miss you? Her delivery may not be perfect, but don’t ignore the need behind her words. S1.6K78313472

My wife checked me, and she was right. She told me I had been neglecti — @notyouraverageminister

4.3K2:25My wife checked me, and she was right. She told me I had been neglecting her while giving other areas of my life the tim55634101193

Your partner shouldn’t have to fight the person who hurt you before th — @notyouraverageminister

8181:37Your partner shouldn’t have to fight the person who hurt you before they met you. When your filter is clogged with betra748628

Your need may be valid. Your concern may be real. But how and when you — @notyouraverageminister

564Your need may be valid. Your concern may be real. But how and when you communicate it can determine whether the conversa332211

Sometimes she doesn’t want your emotional maturity, she wants your agr — @notyouraverageminister

3.2K2:06Sometimes she doesn’t want your emotional maturity, she wants your agreement. A mature man should honor your feelings, b3103374122

Everybody who triggers you isn’t toxic. And everybody who needs time t — @notyouraverageminister

3.5K1:36Everybody who triggers you isn’t toxic. And everybody who needs time to grow isn’t disposable. Sometimes we call it “pro5276675167

Becoming a safe space for my wife while she healed from trauma was hea — @notyouraverageminister

2.2K2:48Becoming a safe space for my wife while she healed from trauma was heavy. Her wounds sometimes triggered mine, revealing252286762

My marriage got better when my wife stopped expecting me to become the — @notyouraverageminister

11K2:43My marriage got better when my wife stopped expecting me to become the man she had created in her mind and gave God room78438327298

People are quick to say, “The person God has for you will be gentle, n — @notyouraverageminister

1.6M2:39People are quick to say, “The person God has for you will be gentle, nice, healed, and willing to work on themselves.” W255.8K6.5K32.5K59K

As a man, you can’t truly have empathy and compassion for your woman’s — @notyouraverageminister

1.3M2:47As a man, you can’t truly have empathy and compassion for your woman’s feelings until you understand your own. If you’re166.2K1.6K51.4K46.9K

I thank God for engrafting in me to fight the good fight of faith beca — @notyouraverageminister

1.1M6:25I thank God for engrafting in me to fight the good fight of faith because the blessings on the other side of the fight i137.5K3K36.5K35.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.8% ER

Aug 17Sep 17Sep 26

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 26, 2026	343	35	3	1	5	11.37%
Sep 25, 2026	1,143	138	13	22	54	15.14%
Sep 24, 2026	12,000	1,649	78	313	472	17.00%
Sep 22, 2026	4,350	556	34	101	193	15.89%
Sep 21, 2026	818	74	8	6	28	10.76%
Sep 18, 2026	564	33	2	2	11	6.56%
Sep 17, 2026	3,224	310	33	74	122	12.93%
Sep 15, 2026	3,548	527	66	75	167	18.83%
Sep 13, 2026	2,233	252	28	67	62	15.54%
Sep 10, 2026	11,000	784	38	327	298	10.45%
Apr 7, 2026	1,600,000	255,800	6,454	32,500	58,978	18.42%
Oct 5, 2025	1,300,000	166,200	1,580	51,400	46,909	16.86%
Aug 17, 2024	1,100,000	137,500	2,990	36,500	35,675	16.09%