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@notyouraverageministerVincent A Casey Sr.

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card updated Sep 27, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 511 · 3,800,000 likes total

Engagement17.25%above average

Account summary

@notyouraverageminister has 181,200 followers and 520 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 310,709 views and 43,374 likes. Engagement to views is 17.25%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.29 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 171% of the follower count.

Followers
181.2K
history is still being collected
Engagement
17.25%
−1.29 pp newer half
Average views
310.7K
median 3.5K
Likes per clip
43.4K
871 comments avg
Shares / saves
9.3K / 11K
3.54% of viewers save
Posting rate
0.1 / wk
reach 171% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected
You know your triggers and why you shut down, get defensive, or say th — @notyouraverageminister3431:17You know your triggers and why you shut down, get defensive, or say things you regret. But you’re still having the same 35315She feels unheard. He feels like nothing he says matters. So she pushe — @notyouraverageminister1.1K1:28She feels unheard. He feels like nothing he says matters. So she pushes harder, he gets defensive, and they have the sam138132254Is she complaining, or does she miss you? Her delivery may not be perf — @notyouraverageminister12K2:57Is she complaining, or does she miss you? Her delivery may not be perfect, but don’t ignore the need behind her words. S1.6K78313472My wife checked me, and she was right. She told me I had been neglecti — @notyouraverageminister4.3K2:25My wife checked me, and she was right. She told me I had been neglecting her while giving other areas of my life the tim55634101193Your partner shouldn’t have to fight the person who hurt you before th — @notyouraverageminister8181:37Your partner shouldn’t have to fight the person who hurt you before they met you. When your filter is clogged with betra748628Your need may be valid. Your concern may be real. But how and when you — @notyouraverageminister564Your need may be valid. Your concern may be real. But how and when you communicate it can determine whether the conversa332211Sometimes she doesn’t want your emotional maturity, she wants your agr — @notyouraverageminister3.2K2:06Sometimes she doesn’t want your emotional maturity, she wants your agreement. A mature man should honor your feelings, b3103374122Everybody who triggers you isn’t toxic. And everybody who needs time t — @notyouraverageminister3.5K1:36Everybody who triggers you isn’t toxic. And everybody who needs time to grow isn’t disposable. Sometimes we call it “pro5276675167Becoming a safe space for my wife while she healed from trauma was hea — @notyouraverageminister2.2K2:48Becoming a safe space for my wife while she healed from trauma was heavy. Her wounds sometimes triggered mine, revealing252286762My marriage got better when my wife stopped expecting me to become the — @notyouraverageminister11K2:43My marriage got better when my wife stopped expecting me to become the man she had created in her mind and gave God room78438327298People are quick to say, “The person God has for you will be gentle, n — @notyouraverageminister1.6M2:39People are quick to say, “The person God has for you will be gentle, nice, healed, and willing to work on themselves.” W255.8K6.5K32.5K59KAs a man, you can’t truly have empathy and compassion for your woman’s — @notyouraverageminister1.3M2:47As a man, you can’t truly have empathy and compassion for your woman’s feelings until you understand your own. If you’re166.2K1.6K51.4K46.9KI thank God for engrafting in me to fight the good fight of faith beca — @notyouraverageminister1.1M6:25I thank God for engrafting in me to fight the good fight of faith because the blessings on the other side of the fight i137.5K3K36.5K35.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.8% ER
Aug 17Sep 17Sep 26

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