@misterpjmPatrick

Grief educator with a dead mom I talk about grief & death & dying Runner | Sober | Lover | Boy Dad Click the link👇🏼 or email wethegrievers@gmail.com

card updated Nov 1, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 51 · 1,100,000 likes total

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Engagement15.1%above average

Account summary

@misterpjm has 46,600 followers and 325 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 153,661 views and 20,759 likes. Engagement to views is 15.1%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+2.75 pp). Posts roughly 0.7 times a week. An average clip reaches 330% of the follower count.

Followers

46.6K

+10.6K in period

Engagement

15.1%

+2.75 pp newer half

Average views

153.7K

median 17.5K

Likes per clip

20.8K

796 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.6K / 2K

1.32% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.7 / wk

reach 330% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Our dead people are closer than ever! It’s Halloween weekend, which me — @misterpjm

2.7K1:05Our dead people are closer than ever! It’s Halloween weekend, which means people are also celebrating: All Hallows Eve A366332826

When you least expect it, the grief comes on heavy. Every thought abou — @misterpjm

17.9K0:19When you least expect it, the grief comes on heavy. Every thought about them. What if? How??? Never again? Really? Surel2.6K234314210

My mom might be dead, but the foods she made me will live on forever. — @misterpjm

22.3K1:02My mom might be dead, but the foods she made me will live on forever. Such simple foods that were the staples of my chil3.6K513186170

When my mom died, it made me realize how not serious life needs to be. — @misterpjm

1.5K1:23When my mom died, it made me realize how not serious life needs to be. We do not get enough time on this earth to be as 191111519

When the grief feels the heaviest, it’s not uncommon to want to isolat — @misterpjm

1.2K1:11When the grief feels the heaviest, it’s not uncommon to want to isolate. To crumble into the ground by yourself and to f89828

The empty moments have never been more full. The quiet moments have ne — @misterpjm

13.2K1:34The empty moments have never been more full. The quiet moments have never been louder. My mom died and now she’s nowhere1.9K224147172

There’s so much I wish I had known when my mom died. The heaviness of — @misterpjm

10.4K1:22There’s so much I wish I had known when my mom died. The heaviness of the grief. How to give the grief the space it need1K8283161

I never ask “what *was* their name?” because they don’t have to be in — @misterpjm

17.5K1:19I never ask “what *was* their name?” because they don’t have to be in the past. Who *are* they? Not who *were* they? Jus2.2K134113198

After our people die, there’s something really special about hearing t — @misterpjm

26.9K0:14After our people die, there’s something really special about hearing their names said aloud. I never thought my mom’s na3K174201174

Grief surprises me every single day. Not only with how much I miss my — @misterpjm

2.6K1:37Grief surprises me every single day. Not only with how much I miss my mom, but mostly because of how much empathy and gr27917731

Every. Single. Day. I miss my mom so much. It’s been a year and a half — @misterpjm

1.2M0:18Every. Single. Day. I miss my mom so much. It’s been a year and a half since she died. The thoughts come and go all day 143.6K4K5.3K9.3K

The waves of grief ebb and flow. But the fact that my mom is dead, and — @misterpjm

173.6K1:36The waves of grief ebb and flow. But the fact that my mom is dead, and she will never be back here Earthside with us, wi28.5K1.5K3.6K3.8K

You are the priority. Take care of you. When my mom died, my brain cha — @misterpjm

507.8K1:01You are the priority. Take care of you. When my mom died, my brain changed. Entirely. Full system reboot. New me. New li82.5K3.4K11.5K12.2K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 19.3% ER

Jun 27Oct 25Oct 31

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 31, 2026	2,687	366	33	28	26	15.89%
Oct 30, 2026	17,900	2,642	234	314	210	17.82%
Oct 29, 2026	22,300	3,566	513	186	170	19.13%
Oct 28, 2026	1,485	191	11	15	19	14.61%
Oct 27, 2026	1,243	89	8	2	8	7.96%
Oct 26, 2026	13,200	1,883	224	147	172	17.08%
Oct 25, 2026	10,400	1,039	82	83	161	11.58%
Oct 24, 2026	17,500	2,195	134	113	198	13.95%
Oct 23, 2026	26,900	3,021	174	201	174	12.62%
Oct 22, 2026	2,576	279	17	7	31	11.76%
Jul 25, 2026	1,200,000	143,600	4,032	5,271	9,315	12.74%
Jul 23, 2026	173,600	28,500	1,475	3,563	3,775	19.32%
Jun 27, 2026	507,800	82,500	3,407	11,500	12,200	19.18%