@matt.tolbertMatt Tolbert | Dad of Two

NYC Dad to two boys under one. Sharing the real life of a 2-dad family. matt.tolbert@undercurrent.net

card updated Oct 22, 2026 · 23 clips parsed · following 394 · 7,000,000 likes total

Engagement10.12%above average

Account summary

@matt.tolbert has 163,600 followers and 348 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 496,009 views and 46,522 likes. Engagement to views is 10.12%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.91 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 303% of the follower count.

Followers

163.6K

+500 in period

Engagement

10.12%

+1.91 pp newer half

Average views

496K

median 42.2K

Likes per clip

46.5K

633 comments avg

Shares / saves

3K / 2.2K

0.45% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 303% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

Papa makeover! Getting my 36-year-old husband a hair transplant in NYC — @matt.tolbert

8942:15Papa makeover! Getting my 36-year-old husband a hair transplant in NYC! @Dr. Wolfeld #hairtransplant #hairtok #twodads #105234

Everyone keeps asking how we keep the romance alive with two babies un — @matt.tolbert

9.3K0:47Everyone keeps asking how we keep the romance alive with two babies under one. Our nights out are now nights in. 🔥 @Gove74112413

Replying to @jlo.xoxoxo Why “just move somewhere cheaper” isn’t that s — @matt.tolbert

42.2K1:02Replying to @jlo.xoxoxo Why “just move somewhere cheaper” isn’t that simple for a family like ours. #twodads #2under2 #s4.3K381190

Out of office until the holidays 🎄 Here’s how we made the math work. # — @matt.tolbert

45.7K1:08Out of office until the holidays 🎄 Here’s how we made the math work. #paidfamilyleave #parentalleave #twodads #2under2 #3.9K27363

Replying to @Aileen Happy first birthday to our little critic 🍂 #first — @matt.tolbert

21.8K1:00Replying to @Aileen Happy first birthday to our little critic 🍂 #firstbirthday #babyskit #twodads #comedyskit #dadlife 3.1K46947

And just like that, it’s been a year since Joshua and I became parents — @matt.tolbert

22.4KAnd just like that, it’s been a year since Joshua and I became parents. We celebrated with friends and family this weeke2.7K58523

Replying to @aoife.m_2011 My greatest joy of this chapter will be crea — @matt.tolbert

19.5K0:11Replying to @aoife.m_2011 My greatest joy of this chapter will be creating a magical and memorable childhood for our kid1.8K41315

4 reasons we’re raising our boys in a one-bedroom in NYC instead of a — @matt.tolbert

220.4K1:004 reasons we’re raising our boys in a one-bedroom in NYC instead of a big house anywhere else. #nyc #twodads #2under2 #n30.3K412151415

How we’re handling the bottle-to-sippy-cup switch when his little brot — @matt.tolbert

42.5K2:11How we’re handling the bottle-to-sippy-cup switch when his little brother still gets bottles. #momsoncall #bottleweaning4.1K13039207

We listen. We don't judge. We do keep score. 🔴 @freestyle.world #Frees — @matt.tolbert

12.5K1:22We listen. We don't judge. We do keep score. 🔴 @freestyle.world #FreestylePartner #FreestyleDiapers #OutParentedWithFree500646

Replying to @Mariah Both babies got fevers on the same night. We divid — @matt.tolbert

13.4K2:54Replying to @Mariah Both babies got fevers on the same night. We divided and conquered. #sickbaby #twodads #2under2 #new1.2K31528

First time taking one of our babies to the hospital 😱 #pediatricer #tw — @matt.tolbert

39.5K2:56First time taking one of our babies to the hospital 😱 #pediatricer #twodads #2under2 #newparents #msrachel 4K61598

Replying to @foxdj777 WE GOT THEIR MEXICAN PASSPORTS & BOTH LOST IT! 🥹 — @matt.tolbert

55.7K2:06Replying to @foxdj777 WE GOT THEIR MEXICAN PASSPORTS & BOTH LOST IT! 🥹❤️ Also Dario has learned that peekaboo is a power7.1K8614141

Replying to @lisamarie1914 We have been asked if they’re twins approxi — @matt.tolbert

46K2:30Replying to @lisamarie1914 We have been asked if they’re twins approximately 100 times in 24 hours. The cruise is going 4.2K953681

Replying to @fishnchristy We gave the babies the bedroom. We took the — @matt.tolbert

59.7K1:50Replying to @fishnchristy We gave the babies the bedroom. We took the living room. And now BredaBeds is changing everyth5.6K6635104

We finally got a Murphy bed! It’s from BredaBeds 😍 — @matt.tolbert

26.2K0:51We finally got a Murphy bed! It’s from BredaBeds 😍2.6K712558

Replying to @belle9901 People keep asking if we can pass our NYC affor — @matt.tolbert

21.8K2:14Replying to @belle9901 People keep asking if we can pass our NYC affordable housing apartment to our kids. Based on my r1.7K22424

We’ve cruised plenty of times. Never with babies. Here’s what’s differ — @matt.tolbert

33K2:08We’ve cruised plenty of times. Never with babies. Here’s what’s different. #cruise #cruisewithbaby #twodads #2under2 #ba3.2K1301592

Replying to @Mom 🩷 Our household income in 2015 was $58,000. Our surro — @matt.tolbert

119.1K2:02Replying to @Mom 🩷 Our household income in 2015 was $58,000. Our surrogacy journeys cost $255,000. Here’s what happened 9.7K258199341

Replying to @Robin Mauer We applied to roughly 50 buildings a year bef — @matt.tolbert

456.6K2:39Replying to @Robin Mauer We applied to roughly 50 buildings a year before we won the NYC housing lottery. Here’s what th47.4K3522K8.4K

Replying to @shadibabynyc PGT TESTING RESULTS! 🙌 #surrogacy #ivf #futu — @matt.tolbert

1.1M1:29Replying to @shadibabynyc PGT TESTING RESULTS! 🙌 #surrogacy #ivf #futuredad #fyp #twodads 74.1K8499331.7K

Replying to @hinatu6666 we have to be getting closer to finding names — @matt.tolbert

4.2M1:07Replying to @hinatu6666 we have to be getting closer to finding names 😅 #babynames #boynames #futuredad #fyp 295.7K3.7K47.8K12.8K

Replying to @ley_.hi this is my olympic sport #babynames #girlnames #d — @matt.tolbert

4.8M1:08Replying to @ley_.hi this is my olympic sport #babynames #girlnames #dadtobe #fyp 561.9K8.1K18.3K26.9K

Engagement per clip

23 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.6% ER

Aug 3Sep 19Oct 30

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 30, 2026	894	105	2	3	4	12.30%
Oct 29, 2026	9,322	741	12	4	13	8.12%
Oct 25, 2026	42,200	4,292	38	11	90	10.29%
Oct 23, 2026	45,700	3,909	27	3	63	8.62%
Oct 22, 2026	21,800	3,118	46	9	47	14.56%
Oct 21, 2026	22,400	2,689	58	5	23	12.29%
Oct 17, 2026	19,500	1,846	41	3	15	9.69%
Oct 16, 2026	220,400	30,300	412	151	415	14.00%
Oct 10, 2026	42,500	4,111	130	39	207	10.07%
Oct 6, 2026	12,500	500	6	4	6	4.08%
Sep 21, 2026	13,400	1,213	31	5	28	9.32%
Sep 19, 2026	39,500	3,995	61	5	98	10.28%
Sep 8, 2026	55,700	7,135	86	14	141	12.99%
Sep 5, 2026	46,000	4,226	95	36	81	9.47%
Sep 2, 2026	59,700	5,628	66	35	104	9.60%
Sep 2, 2026	26,200	2,601	71	25	58	10.29%
Aug 26, 2026	21,800	1,692	22	4	24	7.88%
Aug 19, 2026	33,000	3,153	130	15	92	9.99%
Aug 16, 2026	119,100	9,660	258	199	341	8.49%
Aug 16, 2026	456,600	47,400	352	2,001	8,397	10.90%
Oct 28, 2024	1,100,000	74,100	849	933	1,722	6.90%
Oct 5, 2024	4,200,000	295,700	3,703	47,800	12,816	8.27%
Aug 3, 2024	4,800,000	561,900	8,060	18,300	26,893	12.26%