@mary_saysmary says

RIE/Respectful Childcare Neurotypical centered ⬇️ RIE basics here ⬇️

card updated Sep 21, 2026 · 11 clips parsed · following 700 · 4,600,000 likes total

Engagement7.27%normal range

Account summary

@mary_says has 265,300 followers and 757 videos. Across the 11 parsed clips the average is 36,311 views and 2,446 likes. Engagement to views is 7.27%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.46 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 14% of the follower count.

Followers

265.3K

history is still being collected

Engagement

7.27%

+1.46 pp newer half

Average views

36.3K

median 7.5K

Likes per clip

2.4K

70 comments avg

Shares / saves

122 / 200

0.55% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 14% of followers

Latest clips

11 collected

For @tamzjade ❤️…and until then, hold his wrist/use the stroller/buy t — @mary_says

65.6K2:32For @tamzjade ❤️…and until then, hold his wrist/use the stroller/buy the harness for more dangerous areas. #gentleparent5.2K128480805

If I take away ice cream she learns: “When I do something wrong, I los — @mary_says

31.6K2:51If I take away ice cream she learns: “When I do something wrong, I lose something I love.” If I hold her hand, she learn3.6K100396410

7.5K1:50For @mak_and_momlife ❤️47228614

For @ihaveacoolhusband ❤️ Any paramedics watching: does a child-proof — @mary_says

198.2K2:56For @ihaveacoolhusband ❤️ Any paramedics watching: does a child-proof car seat buckle lock/guard impede you? Or do you t12.4K234139554

7.1K0:063084306

I want you to know how proud I am of you. How impressed I am that, in — @mary_says

3.6K0:19I want you to know how proud I am of you. How impressed I am that, in an incredibly difficult time to parent, you choose176754

Your collegues who benefitted from an in-person village when they rais — @mary_says

4K1:39Your collegues who benefitted from an in-person village when they raised children decades ago. @Ed #tiktokban 3643078

I’ve been experimenting with running plastic and silicone through the — @mary_says

28.5K2:11I’ve been experimenting with running plastic and silicone through the dishwasher with scent-free detergent and it’s goin1.6K49176207

Drawing vertically isn’t just developmentally appropriate. It’s develo — @mary_says

3.9K1:15Drawing vertically isn’t just developmentally appropriate. It’s developmentally important. React to this expected behavi2479613

Stay calm and tell them the truth. This is a cannon event. #gentlepare — @mary_says

5.1K1:57Stay calm and tell them the truth. This is a cannon event. #gentleparenting 317301436

Reply to @.baileynicole_ Welcome ❤️ #parenting #babies #toddlers #pres — @mary_says

44.3K0:55Reply to @.baileynicole_ Welcome ❤️ #parenting #babies #toddlers #preschool #kindergarten #daycare #nanny2.2K117109142

Engagement per clip

11 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.0% ER

Apr 24Jan 19Jun 4

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Jun 4, 2025	65,600	5,178	128	480	805	8.82%
Jun 3, 2025	31,600	3,625	100	396	410	13.04%
May 28, 2025	7,543	472	28	6	14	6.71%
Feb 11, 2025	198,200	12,400	234	139	554	6.44%
Jan 19, 2025	7,066	308	43	0	6	4.97%
Jan 19, 2025	3,646	176	7	5	4	5.16%
Jan 17, 2025	3,984	364	30	7	8	10.07%
Jan 6, 2025	28,500	1,621	49	176	207	6.48%
Jan 1, 2025	3,877	247	9	6	13	6.76%
Dec 22, 2024	5,110	317	30	14	36	7.06%
Apr 24, 2022	44,300	2,199	117	109	142	5.47%