@lifeofsjaylifeofsjay

Real Woman, Real Vibes, Real Stories. Instagram @lifeofsjay

card updated Oct 30, 2026 · 23 clips parsed · following 20 · 6,000,000 likes total

Engagement8.15%above average

Account summary

@lifeofsjay has 220,900 followers and 318 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 82,916 views and 6,425 likes. Engagement to views is 8.15%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+4.98 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 38% of the follower count.

Followers

220.9K

+11.1K in period

Engagement

8.15%

+4.98 pp newer half

Average views

82.9K

median 20.6K

Likes per clip

6.4K

160 comments avg

Shares / saves

170 / 318

0.38% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 38% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

People may use guilt or shame to make you feel like standing up for yo — @lifeofsjay

5K2:05People may use guilt or shame to make you feel like standing up for yourself is a character flaw. They can make you feel60725433

19.3K4:351.7K644376

When things that don’t make sense happen to us, we question God, we wo — @lifeofsjay

7.6K3:40When things that don’t make sense happen to us, we question God, we wonder why things are not going the way we planned, 955381230

In case there’s anyone like me out there, I want you to know that you — @lifeofsjay

4.7K2:08In case there’s anyone like me out there, I want you to know that you are not alone. #weightlossjouney #weightgain 467211412

12.6K1:221.5K424570

#relationship #men #fyp #foryou — @lifeofsjay

40.4K5:17#relationship #men #fyp #foryou 4.1K178258424

17.6K1:10God exists 2.2K403677

We’ve heard so many stories about bad husbands. Today, let’s celebrate — @lifeofsjay

27K2:04We’ve heard so many stories about bad husbands. Today, let’s celebrate the good ones! Ladies, share your stories about y3.5K11648145

I am scared for the next generation of women, but at the same time, I — @lifeofsjay

69.1K1:49I am scared for the next generation of women, but at the same time, I am glad that they are already making it clear that8.4K290253588

My thoughts on these fragrances after testing them for two days. Amoua — @lifeofsjay

13.4K3:47My thoughts on these fragrances after testing them for two days. Amouage Epic 56 Woman: I do not like this one. It’s no1.1K211350

133.8K2:4815.4K516736828

19.9K1:472.5K59856

8K2:10467292117

8.9K37715418

We are still shaming the victim who did not do anything wrong. — @lifeofsjay

85.7K2:22We are still shaming the victim who did not do anything wrong.15.2K221326397

165.5K0:3822K239114506

37.5K1:165.3K2132380

Isn’t life already hard enough? Imagine spending the rest of it with s — @lifeofsjay

29.5K2:25Isn’t life already hard enough? Imagine spending the rest of it with someone you have to constantly calculate against. S2.9K86124178

20.6K1:323.1K5733101

14.1K1:301.8K8023100

I turned 45, not 105. Relax. Being 45 does not mean I need saving. If — @lifeofsjay

438.8K1:20I turned 45, not 105. Relax. Being 45 does not mean I need saving. If you are not close to me, keep your suggestions in 28K1K4631.1K

The primary focus of this evening was the soulful music. The vining pl — @lifeofsjay

285.6K0:51The primary focus of this evening was the soulful music. The vining plants and intimate setup with pillows made the expe9.7K107288780

During my sojourn in Abuja, I believe I found the best restaurant. Fro — @lifeofsjay

442.4K0:28During my sojourn in Abuja, I believe I found the best restaurant. From the staff’s attire to the ambience , and from th16.3K2241K1.6K

Engagement per clip

23 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.4% ER

Sep 8Sep 22Nov 2

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Nov 2, 2026	4,953	607	25	4	33	12.84%
Nov 1, 2026	19,300	1,672	64	43	76	9.22%
Nov 1, 2026	7,608	955	38	12	30	13.21%
Oct 28, 2026	4,732	467	21	14	12	10.61%
Oct 26, 2026	12,600	1,517	42	45	70	12.73%
Oct 20, 2026	40,400	4,138	178	258	424	11.32%
Oct 20, 2026	17,600	2,203	40	36	77	12.95%
Oct 19, 2026	27,000	3,489	116	48	145	13.53%
Oct 18, 2026	69,100	8,387	290	253	588	12.92%
Oct 18, 2026	13,400	1,149	21	13	50	8.83%
Sep 23, 2026	133,800	15,400	516	736	828	12.45%
Sep 22, 2026	19,900	2,547	59	8	56	13.14%
Sep 22, 2026	8,025	467	29	21	17	6.44%
Sep 21, 2026	8,942	377	15	4	18	4.43%
Sep 20, 2026	85,700	15,200	221	326	397	18.37%
Sep 20, 2026	165,500	22,000	239	114	506	13.51%
Sep 20, 2026	37,500	5,310	213	23	80	14.79%
Sep 16, 2026	29,500	2,917	86	124	178	10.60%
Sep 15, 2026	20,600	3,109	57	33	101	15.53%
Sep 14, 2026	14,100	1,835	80	23	100	13.74%
Jul 9, 2025	438,800	28,000	1,003	463	1,127	6.72%
Oct 18, 2023	285,600	9,734	107	288	780	3.55%
Sep 8, 2023	442,400	16,300	224	1,020	1,615	3.97%