@lifeinfocuswithsuttidalifeinfocuswithsuttida

Clarity for your healing. Direction for your growth. I write the email you actually want to read. ↓

card updated Oct 6, 2026 · 22 clips parsed · following 23 · 1,500,000 likes total

Engagement12.06%above average

Account summary

@lifeinfocuswithsuttida has 81,500 followers and 567 videos. Across the 22 parsed clips the average is 91,334 views and 9,758 likes. Engagement to views is 12.06%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.6 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 112% of the follower count.

Followers

81.5K

+900 in period

Engagement

12.06%

−1.6 pp newer half

Average views

91.3K

median 2.6K

Likes per clip

9.8K

115 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.1K / 2.4K

2.62% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 112% of followers

Latest clips

22 collected

The depth of your love and the depth of your investment don’t always n — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

5.5K1:17The depth of your love and the depth of your investment don’t always need to match. #capacity #friendship #personalgrowt5681424211

When you were at a point where you were simply enduring and there is n — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

7.8K0:53When you were at a point where you were simply enduring and there is no progress or improvements within the connection i745764336

Make relational reciprocity the non negotiable. #relationships #friend — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

3.7K1:13Make relational reciprocity the non negotiable. #relationships #friends #personalgrowth #healingjourney #selfrespect 352724130

This is why healing is so hard bc you lose a lot of people you thought — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2.7K1:22This is why healing is so hard bc you lose a lot of people you thought would be there forever. #healingjourney #personal26731159

Retraining your nervous system is by far one of the most difficult par — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

1.3K0:54Retraining your nervous system is by far one of the most difficult parts of healing. #nervoussystemhealing #innerchildhe794314

All of your relationships, including the one that you have with yourse — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

1.3K0:57All of your relationships, including the one that you have with yourself, will always reveal where the wounded parts sti1281628

Ignoring your intuition and coming up with explanations for somebody’s — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2K1:22Ignoring your intuition and coming up with explanations for somebody’s poor behavior just to keep a connection alive is 24961459

Healthy relationships learn to navigate conflict with greater capacity — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

1.2K0:45Healthy relationships learn to navigate conflict with greater capacity and consideration rather than blame and shame. #h1260933

Believe the behavior. #healing #healingjourney #relationships #relatio — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2.3K1:00Believe the behavior. #healing #healingjourney #relationships #relationshipadvice #emotionalmaturity 1752565

Familiarity is safer than doing nothing what’s best for you. #innerchi — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2.2K1:18Familiarity is safer than doing nothing what’s best for you. #innerchildhealing #nervoussystemhealing #healing #healingj2299964

Latest emotionally inconvenient pod: nobody is coming to save you. Giv — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

1.4K1:04Latest emotionally inconvenient pod: nobody is coming to save you. Give it a listen. Full episode is in the link n bio. 1343531

Stop expecting to the point of your own detriment and disappointment. — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2.4K1:13Stop expecting to the point of your own detriment and disappointment. When someone shows you their capacity, believe it 29871478

Capacity becomes obvious when you finally stop grading people on who t — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

4751:34Capacity becomes obvious when you finally stop grading people on who they are during their best 20 minutes. #healingjour487415

Growth is realizing that understanding someone and adjusting your prox — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

10K0:55Growth is realizing that understanding someone and adjusting your proximity to them can exist in the same sentence. You 1K1991399

You can’t build a thriving relationship on feelings alone. #personalgr — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2K1:00You can’t build a thriving relationship on feelings alone. #personalgrowth #selfimprovement #healingjourney #relationshi1995950

Insight doesn’t always mean they’ll change their behavior to match. It — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

4.4K1:03Insight doesn’t always mean they’ll change their behavior to match. It takes a lot more than naming a pattern. #personal430131119

If the relational capacity isn’t there adjust accordingly on your end. — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

2K1:20If the relational capacity isn’t there adjust accordingly on your end. #personalgrowth #friends #healingjourney #selfres2094856

Healthy detachment is about your peace. Not to test them to show up th — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

68.8K1:13Healthy detachment is about your peace. Not to test them to show up the way they’ve promised or bet on their potential. 7.8K1126962.6K

You know it’s time to let when you continually sacrifice your peace. # — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

4.9K1:11You know it’s time to let when you continually sacrifice your peace. #relationships #personalgrowth #relationshiptips #h4861037171

You cannot build a thriving relationships on just feelings. There has — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

4.4K0:47You cannot build a thriving relationships on just feelings. There has to be capacity, accountability, responsibility, an5591731168

As you grow through your healing journey, you will also outgrow friend — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

778.6K1:25As you grow through your healing journey, you will also outgrow friendships… it’s painful but also a necessary. #friend71K1.5K11.7K13.5K

People who need the most love ask for it in the most unloveable ways a — @lifeinfocuswithsuttida

1.1M1:08People who need the most love ask for it in the most unloveable ways and it’s not them being evil, they’re unpracticed b129.6K81812.3K34.5K

Engagement per clip

22 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.8% ER

Aug 10Oct 5Oct 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 28, 2026	5,472	568	14	24	211	11.07%
Oct 27, 2026	7,822	745	7	64	336	10.43%
Oct 26, 2026	3,669	352	7	24	130	10.44%
Oct 25, 2026	2,689	267	3	11	59	10.45%
Oct 25, 2026	1,264	79	4	3	14	6.80%
Oct 25, 2026	1,338	128	1	6	28	10.09%
Oct 24, 2026	1,996	249	6	14	59	13.48%
Oct 23, 2026	1,242	126	0	9	33	10.87%
Oct 22, 2026	2,259	175	2	5	65	8.06%
Oct 21, 2026	2,185	229	9	9	64	11.30%
Oct 5, 2026	1,382	134	3	5	31	10.27%
Oct 5, 2026	2,426	298	7	14	78	13.15%
Oct 4, 2026	475	48	7	4	15	12.42%
Oct 3, 2026	9,988	1,033	19	91	399	11.44%
Oct 3, 2026	2,048	199	5	9	50	10.40%
Oct 1, 2026	4,435	430	1	31	119	10.42%
Sep 30, 2026	1,998	209	4	8	56	11.06%
Sep 27, 2026	68,800	7,766	112	696	2,584	12.46%
Sep 25, 2026	4,872	486	10	37	171	10.94%
Sep 24, 2026	4,392	559	17	31	168	13.82%
Oct 22, 2025	778,600	71,000	1,475	11,700	13,510	10.81%
Aug 10, 2025	1,100,000	129,600	818	12,300	34,540	12.97%