@leave_then_cleaveJon and Ashley Lefrandt

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card updated Oct 8, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 227 · 861,700 likes total

Engagement11.56%above average

Account summary

@leave_then_cleave has 37,500 followers and 962 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 164,589 views and 14,885 likes. Engagement to views is 11.56%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.11 pp). Posts roughly 0.6 times a week. An average clip reaches 439% of the follower count.

Followers

37.5K

+1.5K in period

Engagement

11.56%

−1.11 pp newer half

Average views

164.6K

median 3.3K

Likes per clip

14.9K

291 comments avg

Shares / saves

3.9K / 2.4K

1.46% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.6 / wk

reach 439% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Sometimes the biggest threat to an unhealthy family system isn’t the d — @leave_then_cleave

4282:56Sometimes the biggest threat to an unhealthy family system isn’t the dysfunction. It’s the person who finally says: “Wai473510

Want to know if someone is emotionally safe? Tell them they hurt you. — @leave_then_cleave

1.2K2:11Want to know if someone is emotionally safe? Tell them they hurt you. Not because a healthy person will respond perfectl14541128

1.5K2:26Good question 159202335

If you’re already anxious about the holidays with family or in-laws, d — @leave_then_cleave

3.3K2:23If you’re already anxious about the holidays with family or in-laws, don’t wait until you’re sitting in the driveway to 26085491

“We all think…” “Everybody agrees…” “No one understands why you’re doi — @leave_then_cleave

1.1K2:56“We all think…” “Everybody agrees…” “No one understands why you’re doing this…” My wife and I have a name for this: The 693414

1.3K3:19“We all think…” “Everybody agrees…” “No one understands why you’re doing this…” My wife and I call it the collective we.1086628

Have you ever set a boundary… and somehow YOU became the problem? That — @leave_then_cleave

6.5K3:40Have you ever set a boundary… and somehow YOU became the problem? That’s DARVO: Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offende6265693185

The hardest part about abuse isn’t condemning it when it’s on the news — @leave_then_cleave

31.3K5:46The hardest part about abuse isn’t condemning it when it’s on the news. It’s confronting it when the person accused is s3.2K210310419

Hi, my name’s Jon, and I’m a recovering people pleaser. One of the har — @leave_then_cleave

2.3K2:39Hi, my name’s Jon, and I’m a recovering people pleaser. One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn is this: People wil17261927

We didn’t cut off 40 people. We set one boundary with one person. What — @leave_then_cleave

145.8K2:25We didn’t cut off 40 people. We set one boundary with one person. What happened next taught us just how powerful an enme6.2K240291402

Sometimes the spouse everyone blames for “changing you” didn’t actuall — @leave_then_cleave

1.3M2:27Sometimes the spouse everyone blames for “changing you” didn’t actually change you. They just helped you see what you ha148.1K1.6K46.4K25.8K

We’ve been estranged from my wife’s family (of nearly 40 people) for 3 — @leave_then_cleave

635.2K4:26We’ve been estranged from my wife’s family (of nearly 40 people) for 3.5 years…. We’ve learned a few lessons over the ye34.2K1.6K2.9K4.1K

We wrote this book for the Christian who has wondered: Can I tell the — @leave_then_cleave

9.6KWe wrote this book for the Christian who has wondered: Can I tell the truth and still be loving? Can I say no and still159242250

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 15.1% ER

May 14Oct 5Oct 7

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 7, 2026	428	47	3	5	10	12.85%
Oct 7, 2026	1,250	145	4	11	28	12.80%
Oct 7, 2026	1,525	159	20	23	35	13.25%
Oct 7, 2026	3,297	260	8	54	91	9.77%
Oct 5, 2026	1,145	69	3	4	14	6.64%
Oct 5, 2026	1,298	108	6	6	28	9.24%
Oct 5, 2026	6,524	626	56	93	185	11.88%
Sep 30, 2026	31,300	3,242	210	310	419	12.02%
Sep 30, 2026	2,286	172	6	19	27	8.62%
Sep 29, 2026	145,800	6,222	240	291	402	4.63%
Sep 3, 2026	1,300,000	148,100	1,614	46,400	25,833	15.09%
Jun 16, 2026	635,200	34,200	1,589	2,870	4,052	6.09%
May 14, 2026	9,602	159	24	22	50	2.13%