@jola.jovaniJola Jovani

M.Sc. in Psychology Break behavioural patterns and give your relationship a chance to flourish 🦋 jola@jointrealitymedia.com

card updated Oct 24, 2026 · 10 clips parsed · following 561 · 5,700,000 likes total

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Engagement12.97%above average

Account summary

@jola.jovani has 186,500 followers and 414 videos. Across the 10 parsed clips the average is 68,871 views and 7,210 likes. Engagement to views is 12.97%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+5.58 pp). Posts roughly 11.6 times a week. An average clip reaches 37% of the follower count.

Followers

186.5K

history is still being collected

Engagement

12.97%

+5.58 pp newer half

Average views

68.9K

median 5.5K

Likes per clip

7.2K

74 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.6K / 1.8K

2.59% of viewers save

Posting rate

11.6 / wk

reach 37% of followers

Latest clips

10 collected

you should be treating the things that are important to your partner a — @jola.jovani

2.6K0:23you should be treating the things that are important to your partner as if they are just as important to you if you plan13651449

you don’t need to agree with someone to be able to empathize with thei — @jola.jovani

25.7K0:20you don’t need to agree with someone to be able to empathize with their experience. Sometimes something feels particular2K56407723

if things are left unresolved they continue to fester and turn into re — @jola.jovani

5.8K0:17if things are left unresolved they continue to fester and turn into resentment. Resentment is hard to come back from in 439495161

The Ownership Habit helps you take accountability over yourself and yo — @jola.jovani

446.4K0:21The Ownership Habit helps you take accountability over yourself and your domain. It’s not just about agreeing to somethi50.1K29612.9K12.8K

The Invisible Load Audit was made with this exact issue in mind. Lovin — @jola.jovani

173.9K0:17The Invisible Load Audit was made with this exact issue in mind. Loving on your partner should feel special to them and 17.2K3552.7K3.5K

doing the work is hard! Most people will immediately attack their part — @jola.jovani

5.2K0:26doing the work is hard! Most people will immediately attack their partner for not meeting some expectation they had set 305554118

2.9K10301141

even if you didn’t mean to disappointment someone this is why acknowle — @jola.jovani

18.5K0:20even if you didn’t mean to disappointment someone this is why acknowledgement first goes such a long way. It helps make 1.5K13296436

When you become over invested in “fixing things” you make it about you — @jola.jovani

5.2K0:17When you become over invested in “fixing things” you make it about you and the discomfort the situation brings you. If y23822447

studies on self compassion show that people who are kinder to themselv — @jola.jovani

2.5K0:30studies on self compassion show that people who are kinder to themselves tend to cope much better with hardship and perf10201720

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.2% ER

Oct 17Oct 20Oct 24

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 24, 2026	2,583	136	5	14	49	6.00%
Oct 23, 2026	25,700	2,012	56	407	723	9.63%
Oct 23, 2026	5,805	439	4	95	161	9.27%
Oct 21, 2026	446,400	50,100	296	12,900	12,753	14.18%
Oct 20, 2026	173,900	17,200	355	2,679	3,515	11.64%
Oct 19, 2026	5,246	305	5	54	118	6.94%
Oct 18, 2026	2,925	103	0	11	41	3.90%
Oct 18, 2026	18,500	1,463	13	296	436	9.58%
Oct 17, 2026	5,161	238	2	24	47	5.12%
Oct 17, 2026	2,491	102	0	17	20	4.78%