@howtoconvinceLawyer Vince

Teaching you exactly what to say. 🏋️ Join The Communication Gym Stop Watching. Start Practicing.👇

card updated Nov 13, 2026 · 20 clips parsed · following 4 · 3,700,000 likes total

Engagement12.82%above average

Account summary

@howtoconvince has 391,600 followers and 777 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 101,046 views and 11,494 likes. Engagement to views is 12.82%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−8.25 pp). Posts roughly 3.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 26% of the follower count.

Followers

391.6K

+6.7K in period

Engagement

12.82%

−8.25 pp newer half

Average views

101K

median 5.8K

Likes per clip

11.5K

349 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.1K / 3.1K

3.1% of viewers save

Posting rate

3.2 / wk

reach 26% of followers

Latest clips

20 collected

Stop apologizing for things that don't require an apology. The words y — @howtoconvince

7.1K0:38Stop apologizing for things that don't require an apology. The words you choose shape how people perceive you. Sometimes345125114

The harder you try to win an argument, the less influence you have. Re — @howtoconvince

2.4K1:06The harder you try to win an argument, the less influence you have. Real persuasion isn't about proving someone wrong. I1474540

Got the job offer? Don't say yes just yet. Before accepting, ask for t — @howtoconvince

125.6K0:40Got the job offer? Don't say yes just yet. Before accepting, ask for the full offer in writing. Review the salary, benef5K499552.5K

6K0:4436293193

Want deeper connections? Start asking better questions. The right ques — @howtoconvince

7.8K1:07Want deeper connections? Start asking better questions. The right question can open someone up, but real connection happ545651342

Stop explaining your boundaries to people who keep ignoring them. The — @howtoconvince

3.5K0:48Stop explaining your boundaries to people who keep ignoring them. The first time, communicate. The second time, pay atte28181460

The longer you wait to reach out, the harder it feels. You don't need — @howtoconvince

2.7K0:45The longer you wait to reach out, the harder it feels. You don't need a perfect explanation for why you've been silent. 1266242

Stop asking for a raise. Start asking what it takes to earn one. Get c — @howtoconvince

1.6K1:03Stop asking for a raise. Start asking what it takes to earn one. Get clear expectations, agree on a timeline, and make y1022422

Everyone makes mistakes. But someone who values your friendship will c — @howtoconvince

2.1K0:59Everyone makes mistakes. But someone who values your friendship will care when they hurt you, not make you regret speaki1606833

You can be the kindest person in the room and still feel completely al — @howtoconvince

2.3K1:08You can be the kindest person in the room and still feel completely alone. Being kind makes people like you. But being v14461028

Want people to take you more seriously? Stop rushing to fill every sil — @howtoconvince

3.9K1:11Want people to take you more seriously? Stop rushing to fill every silence. A well-timed pause gives your words more wei35531377

How To Have Better Small Talk #communicationtips — @howtoconvince

11.4K0:54How To Have Better Small Talk #communicationtips 1.1K1218272

One small question can make you sound more confident. Instead of askin — @howtoconvince

3.3K0:38One small question can make you sound more confident. Instead of asking “Does that make sense?” try “Any questions?” Giv1846734

Stop wasting your breath trying to prove someone wrong. Ask better que — @howtoconvince

1.7M0:48Stop wasting your breath trying to prove someone wrong. Ask better questions, make them explain their reasoning, and sto214.5K6.4K20.7K57.3K

Don’t let one specific issue turn into a debate about the entire relat — @howtoconvince

7.9K0:57Don’t let one specific issue turn into a debate about the entire relationship. You can acknowledge his feelings without 4931620122

You don’t have to answer the question someone is implying. Make them a — @howtoconvince

85.5K0:51You don’t have to answer the question someone is implying. Make them ask what they actually want to know, then decide if3.5K372143639

Needing space during conflict is okay. Avoiding the conversation forev — @howtoconvince

4.9K1:11Needing space during conflict is okay. Avoiding the conversation forever isn’t. Take the space, then come back and repai28771783

“I feel like you…” often sounds less like a feeling and more like an a — @howtoconvince

20.1K0:37“I feel like you…” often sounds less like a feeling and more like an accusation. Instead of telling someone what they’re1.1K751399

Emotionally immature people often try to move the conversation away fr — @howtoconvince

17.3K0:44Emotionally immature people often try to move the conversation away from the actual issue. Don’t follow them there. Stay8701142289

Criticism lands differently when people don’t feel like they have to d — @howtoconvince

5.6K1:02Criticism lands differently when people don’t feel like they have to defend themselves from it. Focus on what you notice266317104

Engagement per clip

20 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 14.2% ER

Sep 14Oct 19Oct 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 28, 2026	7,142	345	1	25	114	5.19%
Oct 27, 2026	2,353	147	4	5	40	6.63%
Oct 26, 2026	125,600	4,986	49	955	2,540	4.77%
Oct 25, 2026	5,956	362	9	31	93	6.75%
Oct 24, 2026	7,750	545	6	51	342	7.77%
Oct 23, 2026	3,471	281	8	14	60	8.73%
Oct 22, 2026	2,678	126	6	2	42	5.00%
Oct 21, 2026	1,553	102	2	4	22	6.95%
Oct 20, 2026	2,071	160	6	8	33	8.40%
Oct 19, 2026	2,340	144	6	10	28	6.84%
Sep 23, 2026	3,939	355	3	13	77	9.42%
Sep 22, 2026	11,400	1,095	12	18	272	9.87%
Sep 21, 2026	3,318	184	6	7	34	5.94%
Sep 20, 2026	1,700,000	214,500	6,445	20,700	57,303	14.21%
Sep 19, 2026	7,912	493	16	20	122	6.69%
Sep 18, 2026	85,500	3,507	372	143	639	4.70%
Sep 17, 2026	4,949	287	7	17	83	6.28%
Sep 16, 2026	20,100	1,122	7	51	399	5.87%
Sep 15, 2026	17,300	870	11	42	289	5.34%
Sep 14, 2026	5,585	266	3	17	104	5.12%