@her_mind_speaksJen

inner work + reflection | not a therapist, take what lands, leave what doesn’t🤍🙏

card updated Oct 5, 2026 · 17 clips parsed · following 845 · 1,600,000 likes total

Engagement10.16%above average

Account summary

@her_mind_speaks has 67,900 followers and 1,035 videos. Across the 17 parsed clips the average is 81,850 views and 7,536 likes. Engagement to views is 10.16%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.12 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 121% of the follower count.

Followers

67.9K

+1.2K in period

Engagement

10.16%

−1.12 pp newer half

Average views

81.8K

median 4.6K

Likes per clip

7.5K

170 comments avg

Shares / saves

611 / 3.7K

4.56% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 121% of followers

Latest clips

17 collected

There is a dark side that happens when the wound of wanting to be chos — @her_mind_speaks

248.4K9:56There is a dark side that happens when the wound of wanting to be chosen sets on fire….and it will keep you glued to peo21.3K4681.4K9.3K

I think things have just gone insane at this point 🫣🫣🫣😌 #anxiousattach — @her_mind_speaks

3.4K6:32I think things have just gone insane at this point 🫣🫣🫣😌 #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment 21032666

Healing isn’t learning to tolerate the same pain. It’s becoming the ad — @her_mind_speaks

2.3K7:23Healing isn’t learning to tolerate the same pain. It’s becoming the adult who finally protects you from it….#anxiousatta1856469

Intermittent reinforcement has to have somewhere to land, consistent r — @her_mind_speaks

4.6K8:54Intermittent reinforcement has to have somewhere to land, consistent regulation + parts work makes you way less vulnerab3554415170

Trauma bonds can happen in anxious avoidant dynamics…. #anxiousattachm — @her_mind_speaks

4.4K7:53Trauma bonds can happen in anxious avoidant dynamics…. #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #traumabond3163221165

Protective parts and the trauma feedback loop…and how to get out of re — @her_mind_speaks

2.7K7:27Protective parts and the trauma feedback loop…and how to get out of repeating the same patterns…#anxiousattachment #avoi1895982

I know there are circumstances where we don’t have much choice, and I’ — @her_mind_speaks

2.5K7:41I know there are circumstances where we don’t have much choice, and I’m not talking about those. But I do think a lot o15430349

You will meet the same people, the same patterns but how are you respo — @her_mind_speaks

2.5K8:24You will meet the same people, the same patterns but how are you responding? That’s how you know you’re healing…#creator248152484

Replying to @Top 10 I hope this helps - sometimes you have to know abo — @her_mind_speaks

7.3K9:25Replying to @Top 10 I hope this helps - sometimes you have to know about the schedule and dopamine to be able to get you4012923207

If you don’t allow people to experience the consequences of their beha — @her_mind_speaks

8.8K7:11If you don’t allow people to experience the consequences of their behaviour, you’ll always be a safe space for their wor9154570281

Sometimes focusing on their healing is how we avoid our own. 🙏🙏#anxiou — @her_mind_speaks

2.1K9:25Sometimes focusing on their healing is how we avoid our own. 🙏🙏#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment 11116447

Reparenting Part 14 - Because sometimes you’re not just attached to th — @her_mind_speaks

4.6K9:54Reparenting Part 14 - Because sometimes you’re not just attached to the person. Your wound has attached them to somethin2722418143

When you have unresolved pain attached to a painful current situation — @her_mind_speaks

6.2K10:00When you have unresolved pain attached to a painful current situation this is the reason it feels so intense and overwhe4752919253

Replying to @Su’don Michelle if you are struggling from a rejection pl — @her_mind_speaks

107.6K7:20Replying to @Su’don Michelle if you are struggling from a rejection please listen to this… #fyp #anxiousattachment #avoi8.9K1845285.9K

When you try to understand those who don’t fully choose you instead of — @her_mind_speaks

570.6K10:00When you try to understand those who don’t fully choose you instead of feeling the pain #fyp #avoidantattachment #anxio51.5K8373.9K28.6K

The “not chosen” wound doesn’t go away with time it lives in your body — @her_mind_speaks

165K9:58The “not chosen” wound doesn’t go away with time it lives in your body until you finally sit with it. Healing means feel12.8K2957327.3K

Are you keeping yourself in emotional coldness?? #fyp ###healingjourne — @her_mind_speaks

248.6K8:19Are you keeping yourself in emotional coldness?? #fyp ###healingjourney #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #emotiona29.8K7963.6K10.8K

Engagement per clip

17 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.7% ER

Jun 26Sep 25Oct 10

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 10, 2026	248,400	21,300	468	1,397	9,269	9.33%
Oct 9, 2026	3,409	210	32	6	66	7.27%
Oct 8, 2026	2,333	185	6	4	69	8.36%
Oct 7, 2026	4,560	355	44	15	170	9.08%
Oct 5, 2026	4,408	316	32	21	165	8.37%
Oct 1, 2026	2,701	189	5	9	82	7.52%
Sep 29, 2026	2,466	154	30	3	49	7.58%
Sep 28, 2026	2,467	248	15	24	84	11.63%
Sep 25, 2026	7,293	401	29	23	207	6.21%
Sep 24, 2026	8,755	915	45	70	281	11.76%
Sep 18, 2026	2,090	111	16	4	47	6.27%
Sep 17, 2026	4,602	272	24	18	143	6.82%
Sep 9, 2026	6,171	475	29	19	253	8.48%
Jun 26, 2026	107,600	8,886	184	528	5,933	8.92%
Jun 12, 2026	570,600	51,500	837	3,932	28,568	9.86%
Oct 31, 2025	165,000	12,800	295	732	7,282	8.38%
Jun 26, 2024	248,600	29,800	796	3,574	10,847	13.74%