@helenvilliersmaHelen Villiers MA

Behavioural Psychotherapist Emotional Abuse | ADHD | Autism Podcast ➡️ Am I The Problem? 🎧🎙️ Recovery Community ⬇️

card updated Sep 18, 2026 · 20 clips parsed · following 107 · 6,200,000 likes total

Engagement3.8%normal range

Account summary

@helenvilliersma has 316,700 followers and 2,200 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 9,752 views and 289 likes. Engagement to views is 3.8%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−2.75 pp). Posts roughly 2.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 3% of the follower count.

Followers

316.7K

history is still being collected

Engagement

3.8%

−2.75 pp newer half

Average views

9.8K

median 1.8K

Likes per clip

289

40 comments avg

Shares / saves

42 / 84

0.87% of viewers save

Posting rate

2.2 / wk

reach 3% of followers

Latest clips

20 collected

Grief for making the choice to protect yourself is valid. Even if soci — @helenvilliersma

1.3K2:45Grief for making the choice to protect yourself is valid. Even if society doesn’t agree. #fyp #family #toxic #psychology706512

I’m very interested to know! #fyp #family #parents #toxic #amitheprobl — @helenvilliersma

5K0:43I’m very interested to know! #fyp #family #parents #toxic #amitheproblem 18593314

Do you think her mother has the right to be in the delivery room over — @helenvilliersma

7161:15Do you think her mother has the right to be in the delivery room over the listener’s husband? #family #fyp #amitheproble29901

Chores are for learning. Running the house at nine is something else. — @helenvilliersma

2K2:53Chores are for learning. Running the house at nine is something else. What do you look back at now and think "I can't be978517

Scapegoats assemble! I’m doing a whole series on YT about the narcissi — @helenvilliersma

1.8K1:54Scapegoats assemble! I’m doing a whole series on YT about the narcissistic family roles. Today was scapegoats so have a 1288543

Do you recognise this? #psychology #toxic #relationships #fyp #narciss — @helenvilliersma

1.7K1:59Do you recognise this? #psychology #toxic #relationships #fyp #narcissist 823221

If the children’s health is really the problem, what’s he doing about — @helenvilliersma

8090:36If the children’s health is really the problem, what’s he doing about it? #toxic #psychology #relationships #narcissist 33201

Episode 3 of the new season of Am I The Problem is all about this, the — @helenvilliersma

2.7K2:08Episode 3 of the new season of Am I The Problem is all about this, the new season launches soon join my community free f12010833

Protect your Peace! #psychology #trauma #therapy #toxic #fyp — @helenvilliersma

1.4K1:48Protect your Peace! #psychology #trauma #therapy #toxic #fyp 1075614

I’m sorry if you relate #psychology #trauma #therapy — @helenvilliersma

148.4K2:59I’m sorry if you relate #psychology #trauma #therapy 3.6K2597311.3K

Toxic parents have a ripple effect on their children that reaches way — @helenvilliersma

2K2:01Toxic parents have a ripple effect on their children that reaches way into adulthood and it’s disgusting. #toxic #parent1117638

Anything I need to add? #healing #therapy #love #therapytok — @helenvilliersma

7892:33Anything I need to add? #healing #therapy #love #therapytok 59479

The first question from the new season of my podcast. Coming soon! Com — @helenvilliersma

1.5K1:30The first question from the new season of my podcast. Coming soon! Comment Q for a link to submit your question or just 671801

Thank you for this @StarTalk #grief #science #love #fyp #tenerife — @helenvilliersma

7781:17Thank you for this @StarTalk #grief #science #love #fyp #tenerife 51514

You had choice but you didn’t have a voice. #bekind #toxic #narcissist — @helenvilliersma

2.4K2:11You had choice but you didn’t have a voice. #bekind #toxic #narcissistic #relationships #fyp 19416354

Anyone else??!?! #narcissistic #parents #toxic — @helenvilliersma

1.3K2:01Anyone else??!?! #narcissistic #parents #toxic 10015412

Nobody escapes unscathed #narcissistic #parents #toxic #relationships — @helenvilliersma

7671:50Nobody escapes unscathed #narcissistic #parents #toxic #relationships51598

Sometimes it’s easier to feel for someone else what we feel for oursel — @helenvilliersma

5.1K1:59Sometimes it’s easier to feel for someone else what we feel for ourselves. #narcissist #parent #toxic #relationships #fy311511853

Toxic people with narcissistic traits will very often derail events th — @helenvilliersma

4K2:43Toxic people with narcissistic traits will very often derail events that aren’t about them. #narcissist #parent #toxic #239291735

10.6K1:33Red or Reed?! #fyp 143240114

Engagement per clip

20 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 9.3% ER

Aug 25Sep 18Oct 29

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 29, 2026	1,276	70	6	5	12	6.35%
Oct 23, 2026	4,990	185	93	3	14	5.63%
Oct 22, 2026	716	29	9	0	1	5.31%
Oct 19, 2026	2,005	97	8	5	17	5.49%
Oct 16, 2026	1,834	128	8	5	43	7.69%
Oct 14, 2026	1,728	82	3	2	21	5.03%
Oct 12, 2026	809	33	2	0	1	4.33%
Oct 9, 2026	2,694	120	10	8	33	5.12%
Sep 26, 2026	1,421	107	5	6	14	8.30%
Sep 18, 2026	148,400	3,601	259	731	1,316	3.09%
Sep 15, 2026	1,990	111	7	6	38	6.23%
Sep 15, 2026	789	59	4	7	9	8.87%
Sep 14, 2026	1,501	67	18	0	1	5.66%
Sep 13, 2026	778	51	5	1	4	7.33%
Sep 7, 2026	2,379	194	16	3	54	8.95%
Aug 28, 2026	1,275	100	15	4	12	9.33%
Aug 27, 2026	767	51	5	9	8	8.47%
Aug 26, 2026	5,074	311	51	18	53	7.49%
Aug 26, 2026	4,021	239	29	17	35	7.09%
Aug 25, 2026	10,600	143	240	11	4	3.72%