@healingwithemilygEmily | Abuse Education

Helping survivors heal from antagonism through psychoeducation and lived experience.

card updated Sep 29, 2026 · 12 of 20 clips with full stats · following 1,653 · 4,800,000 likes total

Engagement14.83%above average

Account summary

@healingwithemilyg has 51,900 followers and 373 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 56,783 views and 11,648 likes. Engagement to views is 14.83%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.33 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 109% of the follower count.

Followers

51.9K

+1.1K in period

Engagement

14.83%

−0.33 pp newer half

Average views

56.8K

median 17.5K

Likes per clip

11.6K

199 comments avg

Shares / saves

877 / 3.5K

4.13% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 109% of followers

Latest clips

20 collected

Replying to @hanijab567 Just woke up and had to reply to this comment — @healingwithemilyg

6.6K1:08Replying to @hanijab567 Just woke up and had to reply to this comment because I’ve gotten a few like this. The good thin7333318150

Something that really helped me was remembering that I missed the reli — @healingwithemilyg

22.9K1:33Something that really helped me was remembering that I missed the relief. I never missed them. #narcissisticrelationship2.9K88202665

Stuck in i35 traffic and thinking more about how abusive relationships — @healingwithemilyg

5.3K1:20Stuck in i35 traffic and thinking more about how abusive relationships are self sustaining. Sorry for the audio I’m conn6171617159

This is at the core of all abusive relationships. If they can convince — @healingwithemilyg

21.8K1:42This is at the core of all abusive relationships. If they can convince you that your perception is the problem, then you2.8K10694735

Narcissistic abuse is going to keep getting worse bc of this. Like way — @healingwithemilyg

14.1K1:20Narcissistic abuse is going to keep getting worse bc of this. Like way worse. It’s almost identical in methodology. #nar2.4K8198409

Replying to @harmreductionjunkie There are only so many ways for them — @healingwithemilyg

20K1:42Replying to @harmreductionjunkie There are only so many ways for them to preserve entitlement, ie to say “you aren’t all2.7K61125522

0:36 abusers feel like they have more rights than you 1:20 how do they — @healingwithemilyg

71.3K2:240:36 abusers feel like they have more rights than you 1:20 how do they turn my pain into an attack? Admitting they’ve 8.3K1924592.6K

Sorry for another car vid I’m on my way to Houston rn #narcissisticabu — @healingwithemilyg

6.4K0:47Sorry for another car vid I’m on my way to Houston rn #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelatio8561835273

0:20 if your parents were in an abusive relationship 0:35 why knowing — @healingwithemilyg

2.9K1:540:20 if your parents were in an abusive relationship 0:35 why knowing it’s bad doesn’t help you leave 0:50 leaving isn28891071

Edit: PT 2 IS UP! 0:42 They change what they believe about you to just — @healingwithemilyg

274.6K2:14Edit: PT 2 IS UP! 0:42 They change what they believe about you to justify their behavior 1:14 How your pain forces them 44K6753.5K15.1K

If you have cptsd, chances are your attachment system doesn’t know chi — @healingwithemilyg

222K1:35If you have cptsd, chances are your attachment system doesn’t know childhood is over and that’s why you keep repeating t40.6K4482.4K10.9K

The more often this is happening, the more confused you’ll be, the mor — @healingwithemilyg

361.8K1:59The more often this is happening, the more confused you’ll be, the more trauma bonded you’ll be, and the harder it will 33.5K6603.6K10.9K

2 years ago I didn’t think I’d live to see 25 because I was in the ear — @healingwithemilyg

1K2 years ago I didn’t think I’d live to see 25 because I was in the early stages of multi system organ failure. Now im bu0000

Posted a follow up! When you’re being devalued, it’s important to reme — @healingwithemilyg

31KPosted a follow up! When you’re being devalued, it’s important to remember that their behavior hasn’t changed because yo0000

Someone can devalue you and live double (and triple) lives while conti — @healingwithemilyg

10.8KSomeone can devalue you and live double (and triple) lives while continuing to benefit from the emotional regulation and0000

Replying to @Yaya This is a really important concept to understand whe — @healingwithemilyg

17.5KReplying to @Yaya This is a really important concept to understand when you’re experiencing narcissistic abuse. They res0000

STOP THE WEDDING!!! Gosh I love this trend. #narcissisticabuse #narcis — @healingwithemilyg

25.4KSTOP THE WEDDING!!! Gosh I love this trend. #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticabuserecovery #hea0000

Arguably the hardest video I’ve ever filmed but I think I’m ready to t — @healingwithemilyg

17.5KArguably the hardest video I’ve ever filmed but I think I’m ready to talk about this. There are so many studies on how D0000

You can give someone all the forgiveness in the world, and the only pe — @healingwithemilyg

1.6KYou can give someone all the forgiveness in the world, and the only person it will impact is you. You can give everythin0000

Living in a sick body and loving an abuser are not compatible. The str — @healingwithemilyg

1.2KLiving in a sick body and loving an abuser are not compatible. The stress of them together will kill you. Please seek an0000

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 19.6% ER

Oct 24Sep 13Sep 18

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 18, 2026	6,592	733	33	18	150	11.89%
Sep 17, 2026	22,900	2,900	88	202	665	13.93%
Sep 16, 2026	5,347	617	16	17	159	12.16%
Sep 15, 2026	21,800	2,822	106	94	735	13.86%
Sep 15, 2026	14,100	2,444	81	98	409	18.60%
Sep 13, 2026	20,000	2,731	61	125	522	14.59%
Sep 9, 2026	71,300	8,290	192	459	2,620	12.54%
Sep 8, 2026	6,388	856	18	35	273	14.23%
Sep 7, 2026	2,912	288	9	10	71	10.54%
Aug 10, 2026	274,600	44,000	675	3,454	15,114	17.53%
Jul 11, 2026	222,000	40,600	448	2,418	10,924	19.58%
Oct 24, 2025	361,800	33,500	660	3,597	10,861	10.44%