@healingwithcharlieHealing with Charlie

Helping you detach without losing yourself ❤️‍🩹 No Contact • Attachment • Avoidant Insight 🎯 Get Your 1-1 Clarity Call⤵️

card updated Sep 13, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 202 · 3,400,000 likes total

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Engagement6.16%normal range

Account summary

@healingwithcharlie has 134,400 followers and 370 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 447,159 views and 24,778 likes. Engagement to views is 6.16%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−3.62 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 333% of the follower count.

Followers

134.4K

+0 in period

Engagement

6.16%

−3.62 pp newer half

Average views

447.2K

median 20.3K

Likes per clip

24.8K

337 comments avg

Shares / saves

2.4K / 9K

2.0% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 333% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

They block for distance, unblock for reassurance Avoidance often isn’t — @healingwithcharlie

31.4KThey block for distance, unblock for reassurance Avoidance often isn’t clarity, it’s internal conflict #avoidant #avoida360515166

Replying to @Sara 🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩❤️ sometimes they feel the breakup if the rebo — @healingwithcharlie

20.3K3:23Replying to @Sara 🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩❤️ sometimes they feel the breakup if the rebound is chaotic. Rebounds don’t always last, but th4571214173

Becoming secure doesn’t happen overnight or by feeling less It happens — @healingwithcharlie

16KBecoming secure doesn’t happen overnight or by feeling less It happens because you make small adjustments mentally and p567112268

They don’t move on fast, they move away from discomfort. Rebounds give — @healingwithcharlie

25.1K2:10They don’t move on fast, they move away from discomfort. Rebounds give avoidants a quick hit of connection without the w9172327348

You were never too much. You were just trying to pour into someone who — @healingwithcharlie

1.5KYou were never too much. You were just trying to pour into someone who didn’t have the capacity to hold you. #anxiousatt480214

Avoidants aren’t broken, they’re patterned. Patterns can change with a — @healingwithcharlie

2.7K1:07Avoidants aren’t broken, they’re patterned. Patterns can change with awareness, emotional safety, and consistent inner w641123

Fearful avoidant healing isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about — @healingwithcharlie

18.4KFearful avoidant healing isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about feeling safe enough to be who you already are. It’822449632

They don’t leave because you weren’t enough… They leave because it’s e — @healingwithcharlie

3.3K1:29They don’t leave because you weren’t enough… They leave because it’s emotional self-protection #avoidant #avoidantattac461734

Fearful avoidants don’t shut down because they don’t care, they shut d — @healingwithcharlie

7.4KFearful avoidants don’t shut down because they don’t care, they shut down because they do care but don’t feel safe holdi185113152

Suggesting friendship is not just politeness, it’s their way of stayin — @healingwithcharlie

24.3K1:51Suggesting friendship is not just politeness, it’s their way of staying close without emotional vulnerability In some ca7521844345

4 signs an avoidant cares about you #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle — @healingwithcharlie

1.1M3:004 signs an avoidant cares about you #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #fe74.3K1.5K3.5K21.6K

10 signs of avoidant attachment - Part 2 (explained) #avoidant #avoida — @healingwithcharlie

262.7K4:5410 signs of avoidant attachment - Part 2 (explained) #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #avoidantat21.8K4454.3K10.2K

10 signs of avoidant attachment style pt. 1 (explained) #avoidant #avo — @healingwithcharlie

4.3M6:0410 signs of avoidant attachment style pt. 1 (explained) #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #avoida221.8K2.4K23.7K82.4K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 10.1% ER

Jun 10Apr 16Apr 28

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Apr 28, 2026	31,400	360	5	15	166	1.21%
Apr 22, 2026	20,300	457	12	14	173	2.38%
Apr 22, 2026	16,000	567	1	12	268	3.62%
Apr 21, 2026	25,100	917	23	27	348	3.85%
Apr 21, 2026	1,509	48	0	2	14	3.31%
Apr 17, 2026	2,674	64	1	1	23	2.47%
Apr 16, 2026	18,400	822	4	49	632	4.76%
Apr 15, 2026	3,295	46	1	7	34	1.64%
Mar 17, 2026	7,384	185	1	13	152	2.70%
Mar 16, 2026	24,300	752	18	44	345	3.35%
Jun 12, 2023	1,100,000	74,300	1,477	3,473	21,596	7.20%
Jun 11, 2023	262,700	21,800	445	4,261	10,235	10.09%
Jun 10, 2023	4,300,000	221,800	2,399	23,700	82,371	5.77%