@healingbythenumbers_Dr. Ruth | That Was Abuse

PhD + abuse survivor

card updated Nov 6, 2026 · 11 clips parsed · following 21 · 7,800,000 likes total

Engagement9.65%above average

Account summary

@healingbythenumbers_ has 148,000 followers and 413 videos. Across the 11 parsed clips the average is 147,879 views and 14,127 likes. Engagement to views is 9.65%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+6.66 pp). Posts roughly 0.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 100% of the follower count.

Followers

148K

history is still being collected

Engagement

9.65%

+6.66 pp newer half

Average views

147.9K

median 22.4K

Likes per clip

14.1K

74 comments avg

Shares / saves

73 / 485

0.33% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.4 / wk

reach 100% of followers

Latest clips

11 collected

Becky’s mom helped me give myself permission to get the dress he never — @healingbythenumbers_

40.3K1:28Becky’s mom helped me give myself permission to get the dress he never would have allowed. She passed away this morning9.3K19926173

Okay so I know Halloween is over but I couldn’t resist sharing one las — @healingbythenumbers_

98.9K0:14Okay so I know Halloween is over but I couldn’t resist sharing one last costume round of Abuse vs Aaron 🫶 @SafePartnerAa8.9K2231379

This round of Abuse vs Aaron: @SafePartnerAaron takes on control, put- — @healingbythenumbers_

312.8K0:26This round of Abuse vs Aaron: @SafePartnerAaron takes on control, put-downs, and dismissal, knocking out every attempt t31.2K47751.1K

He pushed me, then caught me, then told everyone I’d missed the step. — @healingbythenumbers_

490.9K1:23He pushed me, then caught me, then told everyone I’d missed the step. Classic. Follow for more That Was Abuse. #ThatWasA67.1K3222452.7K

Grateful to still be here helping other survivors. ❤️ Use the link in — @healingbythenumbers_

22.4K1:12Grateful to still be here helping other survivors. ❤️ Use the link in my bio to double your donation before our match en1.9K6434

42% of the way to our goal. One more day of the campaign. Check the li — @healingbythenumbers_

14.5K0:5442% of the way to our goal. One more day of the campaign. Check the link in my bio to join in ❤️ #HealingByTheNumbers #B1.2K6842

Escape by the numbers: The moment we knew we needed to leave… didn’t e — @healingbythenumbers_

12.9K1:04Escape by the numbers: The moment we knew we needed to leave… didn’t exist (and that’s still valid!) Follow along as we 1.2K9534

Check the link in my bio to help survivors access resources to plan th — @healingbythenumbers_

12.5K1:16Check the link in my bio to help survivors access resources to plan their escape. All donations are matched dollar for 1.5K121940

12.9K0:46Check the link in my bio to help survivors access resources to plan their escape. All donations are matched dollar for 1.3K141745

This is what it’s about!! Two powerful, incredible women turning their — @healingbythenumbers_

7.2K1:25This is what it’s about!! Two powerful, incredible women turning their experiences with abuse into support for other sur7758715

Check the link in my bio to donate or apply 🫶 #mutualaid #financialabu — @healingbythenumbers_

601.4K1:16Check the link in my bio to donate or apply 🫶 #mutualaid #financialabuse #survivorsupport #healingfromabuse #communityca31.1K164364801

Engagement per clip

11 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 23.5% ER

Apr 14Oct 29Nov 3

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Nov 3, 2026	40,300	9,256	199	26	173	23.53%
Nov 1, 2026	98,900	8,901	22	31	379	9.05%
Oct 31, 2026	312,800	31,200	47	75	1,089	10.01%
Oct 30, 2026	490,900	67,100	322	245	2,680	13.78%
Oct 30, 2026	22,400	1,880	6	4	34	8.44%
Oct 29, 2026	14,500	1,239	6	8	42	8.64%
Oct 29, 2026	12,900	1,153	9	5	34	9.05%
Oct 28, 2026	12,500	1,529	12	19	40	12.48%
Oct 28, 2026	12,900	1,260	14	17	45	10.01%
Oct 27, 2026	7,170	775	8	7	15	11.02%
Apr 14, 2026	601,400	31,100	164	364	801	5.26%