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card updated Sep 15, 2026 · 22 clips parsed · following 89 · 1,900,000 likes total

Engagement14.57%above average

Account summary

@expressyourselfblackman has 107,900 followers and 1,128 videos. Across the 22 parsed clips the average is 139,056 views and 17,117 likes. Engagement to views is 14.57%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−6.6 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 129% of the follower count.

Followers

107.9K

+0 in period

Engagement

14.57%

−6.6 pp newer half

Average views

139.1K

median 4.6K

Likes per clip

17.1K

163 comments avg

Shares / saves

3K / 3.4K

2.43% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 129% of followers

Latest clips

22 collected

One thing that can make dating easier is having a life you genuinely e — @expressyourselfblackman

7.4K1:30One thing that can make dating easier is having a life you genuinely enjoy outside of relationships. Know the restaurant647874174

CONTEXT: Mo and I were talking about dating and she mentioned she migh — @expressyourselfblackman

3.1K1:31CONTEXT: Mo and I were talking about dating and she mentioned she might be open to dating other demographics. This is a 1011111

If you want a big wedding, have your big wedding! I’m not saying NOT t — @expressyourselfblackman

38.7K1:34If you want a big wedding, have your big wedding! I’m not saying NOT to spend money on your wedding experience. I’m just3.7K1341.1K575

Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing beautiful Black families on social m — @expressyourselfblackman

4K1:33Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing beautiful Black families on social media, but that airport experience really changed t2010921

A lot of men dealing with depression can still go to work, hit the gym — @expressyourselfblackman

4.4K1:24A lot of men dealing with depression can still go to work, hit the gym, show up for their family, talk to their friends,22101736

Getting older can make you look at your life differently. You start th — @expressyourselfblackman

5.8K1:00Getting older can make you look at your life differently. You start thinking about the goals you thought you’d have reac29841259

“If you have a lot of things on your mind, how many of those thoughts — @expressyourselfblackman

4611:31“If you have a lot of things on your mind, how many of those thoughts are yours?” — @CitoBlanko 👀30059

You can’t spend all your energy trying to make everything happen and e — @expressyourselfblackman

3.2K0:50You can’t spend all your energy trying to make everything happen and expect to have something left when it really matter1391118

If you have a Black woman who GENUINELY loves you and wants to see you — @expressyourselfblackman

4.8K1:35If you have a Black woman who GENUINELY loves you and wants to see you GROW, you WON. Share this with YOUR Black woman o28552225

I wanted to take some time to address this directly because a clip fro — @expressyourselfblackman

16.1K2:12I wanted to take some time to address this directly because a clip from a podcast episode we recorded 3 years ago is rec2501267563

Strong friendships don't happen by accident, they're built with intent — @expressyourselfblackman

5.2K0:59Strong friendships don't happen by accident, they're built with intention. Make time for your brothers too. Go out for 988312

The fear of being called "gay" for loving your brothers has kept too m — @expressyourselfblackman

4.9K1:17The fear of being called "gay" for loving your brothers has kept too many Black male friendships from becoming what they141449

Black man, don't build your identity around your achievements. Build i — @expressyourselfblackman

1.6K0:59Black man, don't build your identity around your achievements. Build it around who God created you to be. The moment you56105

Some men cope by working more. They stay busy. They chase the next goa — @expressyourselfblackman

2.7K1:29Some men cope by working more. They stay busy. They chase the next goal. They fill every hour of the day with productivi13221920

There’s a narrative about Black fathers that ignores what they’re actu — @expressyourselfblackman

1.8K1:16There’s a narrative about Black fathers that ignores what they’re actually doing every day. In reality, many Black men a61179

Divorce can shake your sense of identity, your confidence, and the way — @expressyourselfblackman

1.9K1:23Divorce can shake your sense of identity, your confidence, and the way you see your future. In moments like this, isolat1144819

In XYBM 157, we sit down with @basheawilliams, a Licensed Clinical Soc — @expressyourselfblackman

2K1:43In XYBM 157, we sit down with @basheawilliams, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Bashea breaks down what he sees most i43128

Black man, learn your attachment style. Learning my attachment style a — @expressyourselfblackman

3.5K2:59Black man, learn your attachment style. Learning my attachment style and doing the work to navigate to an earned secure 770420

A lot of men aren’t struggling because they don’t have feelings. They’ — @expressyourselfblackman

18K1:02A lot of men aren’t struggling because they don’t have feelings. They’re struggling because they don’t feel safe express1.3K10160370

Am I wrong for responding like this? 🤣 Let me know in the comments 👀 A — @expressyourselfblackman

873.6K1:00Am I wrong for responding like this? 🤣 Let me know in the comments 👀 Also, if you’re looking for a therapist we ar125.7K64625.5K17.5K

In XYBM 82, I talk with NéAndré Broussard who is the founder and CEO o — @expressyourselfblackman

1.1M1:04In XYBM 82, I talk with NéAndré Broussard who is the founder and CEO of Black Menswear. We talk about him losing his gra106.4K1.3K18.8K16.9K

We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to heal father wounds on Sat, Ju — @expressyourselfblackman

955.9K1:29We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to heal father wounds on Sat, June 17 at 6 PM EST / 3 PM PST. All webinar att136.5K1.4K19.6K38.4K

Engagement per clip

22 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 17.4% ER

Jun 17Aug 7Oct 31

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 31, 2026	7,358	647	8	74	174	9.91%
Oct 26, 2026	3,099	101	1	1	11	3.32%
Oct 24, 2026	38,700	3,727	134	1,109	575	12.84%
Oct 19, 2026	4,008	201	0	9	21	5.24%
Oct 14, 2026	4,363	221	0	17	36	5.45%
Oct 12, 2026	5,750	298	4	12	59	5.46%
Oct 9, 2026	461	30	0	5	9	7.59%
Oct 5, 2026	3,218	139	1	1	18	4.38%
Oct 3, 2026	4,845	285	5	22	25	6.44%
Aug 11, 2026	16,100	250	126	75	63	2.80%
Aug 7, 2026	5,233	98	8	3	12	2.08%
Aug 5, 2026	4,947	141	4	4	9	3.01%
Jul 20, 2026	1,648	56	1	0	5	3.46%
Jun 22, 2026	2,692	132	2	19	20	5.68%
Jun 10, 2026	1,802	61	1	7	9	3.83%
Jun 3, 2026	1,941	114	4	8	19	6.49%
May 29, 2026	2,042	43	1	2	8	2.25%
May 23, 2026	3,520	77	0	4	20	2.30%
May 21, 2026	18,000	1,349	10	160	370	8.44%
Sep 13, 2023	873,600	125,700	646	25,500	17,456	17.38%
Jul 11, 2023	1,100,000	106,400	1,265	18,800	16,915	11.50%
Jun 17, 2023	955,900	136,500	1,375	19,600	38,353	16.47%