@evolving.manBen Goresky

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card updated Oct 5, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 24 · 1,100,000 likes total

Engagement15.83%above average

Account summary

@evolving.man has 42,800 followers and 120 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 600,417 views and 85,614 likes. Engagement to views is 15.83%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−8.96 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 1403% of the follower count.

Followers

42.8K

+0 in period

Engagement

15.83%

−8.96 pp newer half

Average views

600.4K

median 2.8K

Likes per clip

85.6K

397 comments avg

Shares / saves

9K / 16.4K

2.72% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 1403% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

I can’t tell you how many conflicts I’ve had with romantic partners wh — @evolving.man

9730:33I can’t tell you how many conflicts I’ve had with romantic partners where I feel stuck; unable to guide us out of the st30265

The intentional bachelor party - focus on: 1. Celebrate the man while — @evolving.man

371.1K1:16The intentional bachelor party - focus on: 1. Celebrate the man while taking him on a manventure 2. show him that his br9.8K80317.5K1.3K

Men have baggage. Armour and masks we wear for protection. And behind — @evolving.man

3.4K0:54Men have baggage. Armour and masks we wear for protection. And behind the mask: Fears, shame, and thoughts we lock away 92132

It seems to be a law of nature that our deep relationships in adulthoo — @evolving.man

2.2K2:22It seems to be a law of nature that our deep relationships in adulthood are meant to trigger our deepest wounds. Our tas22043

I’m not defending @hubermanlab here. He can be accountable for himself — @evolving.man

5.7K1:29I’m not defending @hubermanlab here. He can be accountable for himself. I’m calling into question this phenomenon where 851556

In the 12 Step program, there is the program itself which is the liter — @evolving.man

1.2K0:39In the 12 Step program, there is the program itself which is the literature and then there’s the fellowship which is the3100

Using plant medicine like ayahuasca can unearth all of the unresolved — @evolving.man

8930:29Using plant medicine like ayahuasca can unearth all of the unresolved pain from your life… Because this can be extremely12013

A question many people have is: how can you take what you experience d — @evolving.man

8760:33A question many people have is: how can you take what you experience during a plant medicine ceremony into your life? Wo19002

As new parents it’s normal for the amount of intimacy and alone time t — @evolving.man

6170:47As new parents it’s normal for the amount of intimacy and alone time to shift as you put those energetic resources into 37003

There are four phases in a romantic relationship: The Honeymoon Phase, — @evolving.man

3.7M4:04There are four phases in a romantic relationship: The Honeymoon Phase, The Power Struggle, The Dead Zone or The Coping P453.3K2.2K67.6K96.5K

This tool, when practiced often and correctly, is a HUGE help for crea — @evolving.man

18K0:57This tool, when practiced often and correctly, is a HUGE help for creating productive dialogue in any relationship. The1.5K12198457

I am not a perfect partner. Sometimes I’m an ignorant jerk and other t — @evolving.man

3.1M1:00I am not a perfect partner. Sometimes I’m an ignorant jerk and other times I’m reactive, snappy, or avoidant. Some days,562.6K1.7K23.1K98.1K

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.9% ER

Sep 28Jan 29Aug 25

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Aug 25, 2025	973	30	2	6	5	3.91%
Jun 25, 2025	371,100	9,761	803	17,500	1,296	7.56%
Jun 24, 2025	3,448	9	2	13	2	0.70%
Feb 20, 2025	2,213	22	0	4	3	1.17%
Mar 27, 2024	5,724	85	15	5	6	1.83%
Jan 29, 2024	1,161	3	1	0	0	0.34%
Jan 26, 2024	893	12	0	1	3	1.46%
Jan 25, 2024	876	19	0	0	2	2.17%
Jan 23, 2024	617	37	0	0	3	6.00%
Dec 9, 2022	3,700,000	453,300	2,210	67,600	96,477	14.14%
Dec 7, 2022	18,000	1,496	12	198	457	9.48%
Sep 28, 2022	3,100,000	562,600	1,716	23,100	98,072	18.95%