@empathic_wisdomNoelle El

Supporting others healing from narcissistic abuse. Feel free to make instant contact here in times of need!

card updated Sep 19, 2026 · 10 of 20 clips with full stats · following 1,222 · 1,400,000 likes total

Engagement8.96%above average

Account summary

@empathic_wisdom has 75,800 followers and 4,739 videos. Across the 20 parsed clips the average is 8,834 views and 1,097 likes. Engagement to views is 8.96%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−2.89 pp). Posts roughly 14.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 12% of the follower count.

Followers

75.8K

+1.5K in period

Engagement

8.96%

−2.89 pp newer half

Average views

8.8K

median 2.1K

Likes per clip

1.1K

268 comments avg

Shares / saves

69 / 226

1.41% of viewers save

Posting rate

14.4 / wk

reach 12% of followers

Latest clips

20 collected

The biggest mistake we make is continue to believe 'maybe this time, i — @empathic_wisdom

1K2:15The biggest mistake we make is continue to believe 'maybe this time, it will be different' when it comes to the narcissi46317

The narcissist gets off on seeing you cry in moments when you crying i — @empathic_wisdom

2.3K1:57The narcissist gets off on seeing you cry in moments when you crying isn't triggering their shame. So when they get you 103717

The hardest part when you are discarded by a narcissist isn't them che — @empathic_wisdom

3K2:10The hardest part when you are discarded by a narcissist isn't them cheating on you, its realising how much you gave some198241237

The narcissist will exhibit change for a bit of time when they come ba — @empathic_wisdom

3.1K2:47The narcissist will exhibit change for a bit of time when they come back but the issue is it is never permanent and by t192201027

The new supply is most likely already trauma bonded to the narcissist — @empathic_wisdom

3.3K2:36The new supply is most likely already trauma bonded to the narcissist the same way we were and when you are in an active15230627

The narcissist may not miss us as individuals but I can promise you th — @empathic_wisdom

4.3K1:55The narcissist may not miss us as individuals but I can promise you that if you were grade A supply, there will come a d260371423

No matter if none of it was real for the narcissist, it was real for u — @empathic_wisdom

2.1K1:45No matter if none of it was real for the narcissist, it was real for us and we are still mourning the loss of someone we16118619

The worst part about an empathy meeting a narcissist is that they chan — @empathic_wisdom

60K1:41The worst part about an empathy meeting a narcissist is that they change the way we view the world forever and how we lo4.8K6173771.1K

Any other narcissistic abuse survivors struggle with this emptiness or — @empathic_wisdom

74.7K1:56Any other narcissistic abuse survivors struggle with this emptiness or have struggled with it since being used and disca4.5K1.9K220871

The hardest phase when healing from narcissistic abuse is finding a wa — @empathic_wisdom

6.2K2:02The hardest phase when healing from narcissistic abuse is finding a way to overcome the guilt and shame we feel for know5396141140

The only thing I miss is who I used to be and how I used to love and I — @empathic_wisdom

2.6KThe only thing I miss is who I used to be and how I used to love and I am hoping one day I get that version of myself ba0000

Where have the days gone where men would approach women and women didn — @empathic_wisdom

1.7KWhere have the days gone where men would approach women and women didnt have to pursue men. There is nothing more attrac0000

The biggest lesson we learn as highly empathetic people is there are b — @empathic_wisdom

2.1KThe biggest lesson we learn as highly empathetic people is there are bad people in this world who may not be criminals b0000

When you get tempted to send those long paragraphs telling the person — @empathic_wisdom

2.1KWhen you get tempted to send those long paragraphs telling the person from the past that they hurt you, you need to remi0000

Staying in a toxic situation because you already invested so much in t — @empathic_wisdom

2.1KStaying in a toxic situation because you already invested so much in them is one of the most detrimental things you can 0000

One positive of experiencing a toxic relationship is that when you fin — @empathic_wisdom

1.5KOne positive of experiencing a toxic relationship is that when you finally leave, no one and nothing will ever hurt you 0000

A lot of the times we outgrow the people we are waiting purely just by — @empathic_wisdom

1.1KA lot of the times we outgrow the people we are waiting purely just by taking the time to heal and work on ourselves #em0000

Life isn't fair but whether we choose to allow that to keep us stuck i — @empathic_wisdom

745Life isn't fair but whether we choose to allow that to keep us stuck is completely upto us. #healingfromtrauma #empathso0000

We keep going back to the person that hurt us believing they will make — @empathic_wisdom

985We keep going back to the person that hurt us believing they will make us feel better about the things they made us feel0000

One of the biggest struggles an empath faces is healing their childhoo — @empathic_wisdom

1.7KOne of the biggest struggles an empath faces is healing their childhood wounds that caused them to become people pleaser0000

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 10.4% ER

Sep 14Sep 16Sep 19

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 19, 2026	1,016	46	3	1	7	4.92%
Sep 18, 2026	2,316	103	7	1	7	4.79%
Sep 17, 2026	3,016	198	24	12	37	7.76%
Sep 16, 2026	3,132	192	20	10	27	7.09%
Sep 16, 2026	3,303	152	30	6	27	5.69%
Sep 16, 2026	4,256	260	37	14	23	7.31%
Sep 15, 2026	2,133	161	18	6	19	8.67%
Sep 14, 2026	60,000	4,804	617	377	1,102	9.66%
Sep 14, 2026	74,700	4,519	1,862	220	871	8.84%
Sep 14, 2026	6,167	539	61	41	140	10.39%