@duchessofdecorumPattie Ehsaei

Author: Never Date A Broke Dude📕 From $190K debt at 35 😭➝ debt free, investing & homeowner in 5 yrs✨ Teaching women to build wealth & take control💪🏼💸

card updated Oct 16, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 899 · 8,200,000 likes total

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Engagement21.51%above average

Account summary

@duchessofdecorum has 1,000,000 followers and 1,371 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 493,095 views and 93,750 likes. Engagement to views is 21.51%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−9.43 pp). An average clip reaches 49% of the follower count.

Followers

+0 in period

Engagement

21.51%

−9.43 pp newer half

Average views

493.1K

median 1.5K

Likes per clip

93.8K

1K comments avg

Shares / saves

11.3K / 14.6K

2.96% of viewers save

Posting rate

—

reach 49% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Know your rights, know what's yours, and know when it's time to walk a — @duchessofdecorum

1.4K2:07Know your rights, know what's yours, and know when it's time to walk away from that man! #GetYour50 #finance #femaleempo1385618

100k here I come! Much love to all the badass ladies (and smart men 😉) — @duchessofdecorum

9180:07100k here I come! Much love to all the badass ladies (and smart men 😉) who follow me and support my content. Much more t60201

Pay attention to what men protect. And notice when it isn't you. If he — @duchessofdecorum

1.1K2:05Pay attention to what men protect. And notice when it isn't you. If he won't put you on the deed, ask for a QTIP trust o1194340

It doesn't matter that the conversation feels awkward, or that it make — @duchessofdecorum

1.3K2:50It doesn't matter that the conversation feels awkward, or that it makes him uncomfortable. Your finances and your liveli1276527

My original point still stands. A man is not a financial plan! #marria — @duchessofdecorum

1.7K2:13My original point still stands. A man is not a financial plan! #marriage #tradwife #finance #financialindependence #GetY21314314

Everything seems perfect until you realize you have no retirement of y — @duchessofdecorum

3.1K2:21Everything seems perfect until you realize you have no retirement of your own, a 25-year career gap, and your entire wel409491035

Just because you say it was a good thing, doesn't mean it was. Only ta — @duchessofdecorum

1.5K1:50Just because you say it was a good thing, doesn't mean it was. Only taking a hard objective look at your finances can fi1051348

Repeat after me: INSPECT what you EXPECT. It's your financial life, to — @duchessofdecorum

1.3K1:31Repeat after me: INSPECT what you EXPECT. It's your financial life, too! Make sure you know every detail. #finance #fina972613

It's my mission to ensure no woman becomes trapped like my mother. If — @duchessofdecorum

1K4:05It's my mission to ensure no woman becomes trapped like my mother. If you're ready for REAL empowerment, comment "FREEDO135171614

True empowerment is hidden in the details of your financial life. Make — @duchessofdecorum

3.7K2:08True empowerment is hidden in the details of your financial life. Make sure you know exactly what you own, what you're e1619414

Thank you to everyone for your support for #NeverDateABrokeDude! Every — @duchessofdecorum

22.2K2:27Thank you to everyone for your support for #NeverDateABrokeDude! Every share, like, and comment means the world to me. I9812247697

Be honest, how many accounts do you have? #finances #imrichbitch #fina — @duchessofdecorum

5.4M2:02Be honest, how many accounts do you have? #finances #imrichbitch #financialtips #moneytok #moneytalks #moneymoneymoney1.1M8.5K133.3K181.8K

I👏🏼SAID👏🏼WHAT 👏🏼I👏🏼SAID👏🏼 #periodt! #noromancewithoutfinance #financia — @duchessofdecorum

970.8K2:07I👏🏼SAID👏🏼WHAT 👏🏼I👏🏼SAID👏🏼 #periodt! #noromancewithoutfinance #financialadvice #dating #relationships #callingallbarbz #H116.2K4.5K13.3K7.3K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 23.0% ER

May 30Aug 25Sep 2

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 2, 2026	1,435	138	5	6	18	10.38%
Sep 1, 2026	918	60	2	0	1	6.75%
Sep 1, 2026	1,133	119	4	3	40	11.12%
Aug 29, 2026	1,328	127	6	5	27	10.39%
Aug 28, 2026	1,742	213	14	3	14	13.20%
Aug 26, 2026	3,144	409	49	10	35	14.89%
Aug 25, 2026	1,471	105	13	4	8	8.29%
Aug 21, 2026	1,271	97	2	6	13	8.26%
Aug 19, 2026	1,047	135	17	16	14	16.05%
Aug 18, 2026	3,748	161	9	4	14	4.64%
May 6, 2025	22,200	981	224	76	97	5.77%
Oct 29, 2021	5,400,000	1,100,000	8,455	133,300	181,811	23.00%
May 30, 2021	970,800	116,200	4,454	13,300	7,339	13.80%