@drvanessalapointeDr. V

Speaker, author, parenting educator and a mom to two growing boys. ❤️

card updated Oct 28, 2026 · 10 of 14 clips with full stats · following 29 · 1,600,000 likes total

Engagement2.98%below typical

Account summary

@drvanessalapointe has 158,300 followers and 451 videos. Across the 14 parsed clips the average is 4,864 views and 133 likes. Engagement to views is 2.98%, which is below typical for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.38 pp). Posts roughly 1.9 times a week. An average clip reaches 3% of the follower count.

Followers

158.3K

−200 in period

Engagement

2.98%

−0.38 pp newer half

Average views

4.9K

median 4.8K

Likes per clip

133

2 comments avg

Shares / saves

12 / 27

0.54% of viewers save

Posting rate

1.9 / wk

reach 3% of followers

Latest clips

14 collected

Watch this if you roll your eyes when you hear "gentle parenting" 🙄 — @drvanessalapointe

5.7K0:40Watch this if you roll your eyes when you hear "gentle parenting" 🙄1143619

We often get lost in strategies and quick fixes when it comes to how t — @drvanessalapointe

4.6K1:06We often get lost in strategies and quick fixes when it comes to how to parent our children, but in reality you don't ne1681923

I'm here to remind you that you can stop looking to parenting books, p — @drvanessalapointe

5.6K1:08I'm here to remind you that you can stop looking to parenting books, podcasts and people like myself to provide you with1382923

Kids communicate through behaviour. Pay attention to what's going on u — @drvanessalapointe

4.8K1:25Kids communicate through behaviour. Pay attention to what's going on underneath the surface for your little ones.13331736

We parent as we were parented. With that awareness, we have the abilit — @drvanessalapointe

4.1K0:33We parent as we were parented. With that awareness, we have the ability to do things differently for our own children. 💗832113

Parenting is a long game. Avoid the quick wins that come at a cost 💗 — @drvanessalapointe

5.3K2:29Parenting is a long game. Avoid the quick wins that come at a cost 💗20132737

For any parent struggling out there, this clip is for you. You've got — @drvanessalapointe

5K0:45For any parent struggling out there, this clip is for you. You've got this, even if it doesn't feel like it. 💗11601126

Yes, step in and be firm... and be kind at the same time 💗 — @drvanessalapointe

5.6K2:58Yes, step in and be firm... and be kind at the same time 💗11531439

Our children can help reveal what's going on underneath the surface fo — @drvanessalapointe

4.3K1:27Our children can help reveal what's going on underneath the surface for our inner child. 💗1121822

Connection is the most important thing for our children. Remember, alw — @drvanessalapointe

4.5K2:05Connection is the most important thing for our children. Remember, always come back to connection - not separation.15152030

We want our children to express their emotions. While it may make us ( — @drvanessalapointe

3.8KWe want our children to express their emotions. While it may make us (or others around us) uncomfortable, know that it w0000

We're doing ourselves and our children a disservice by referring to th — @drvanessalapointe

4.1KWe're doing ourselves and our children a disservice by referring to their actions as "misbehaviour" or "bad behaviour". 0000

When the world feels like chaos and uncertainty for our kids... We sho — @drvanessalapointe

4.9KWhen the world feels like chaos and uncertainty for our kids... We show up as the big person with the answer.0000

Love and connection wins in the long run 💗 — @drvanessalapointe

5.9KLove and connection wins in the long run 💗0000

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 4.3% ER

Aug 1Aug 21Sep 6

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 6, 2026	5,668	114	3	6	19	2.17%
Sep 2, 2026	4,583	168	1	9	23	3.88%
Aug 29, 2026	5,552	138	2	9	23	2.68%
Aug 25, 2026	4,752	133	3	17	36	3.22%
Aug 21, 2026	4,112	83	2	1	13	2.09%
Aug 17, 2026	5,318	201	3	27	37	4.34%
Aug 13, 2026	5,030	116	0	11	26	2.52%
Aug 9, 2026	5,589	115	3	14	39	2.36%
Aug 5, 2026	4,337	112	1	8	22	2.79%
Aug 1, 2026	4,534	151	5	20	30	3.88%