@drthomaswhitfieldDr. Thomas Whitfield

NYC - psychologist turning taboo into truth—direct, human, and evidence-based.

card updated Sep 30, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 24 · 87,700 likes total

Engagement8.42%above average

Account summary

@drthomaswhitfield has 11,000 followers and 240 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 24,355 views and 1,826 likes. Engagement to views is 8.42%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.88 pp). Posts roughly 0.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 221% of the follower count.

Followers

11K

+500 in period

Engagement

8.42%

−0.88 pp newer half

Average views

24.4K

median 1.6K

Likes per clip

1.8K

58 comments avg

Shares / saves

168 / 195

0.8% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.3 / wk

reach 221% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

Chaka says polyamory is the human hair wig of relationships. I don't a — @drthomaswhitfield

9262:05Chaka says polyamory is the human hair wig of relationships. I don't agree. I let her have it anyway. Substack. Free. ht79624

Gay men aren't cheating at the rates the stereotype says. A lot of wha — @drthomaswhitfield

2.4K1:44Gay men aren't cheating at the rates the stereotype says. A lot of what gets counted was part of the agreement. What bre1511117

Stop trying to get comfortable with vulnerability. Make a list of what — @drthomaswhitfield

8532:38Stop trying to get comfortable with vulnerability. Make a list of what you want to say out loud, rank it 0 to 10, and st63228

Every October, same sentence in session. "I'm just not a winter person — @drthomaswhitfield

442Every October, same sentence in session. "I'm just not a winter person." Sometimes that's true. Sometimes it's thirteen 13002

I get seasonal depression and I can already feel it coming. Lightbox o — @drthomaswhitfield

1.3K2:16I get seasonal depression and I can already feel it coming. Lightbox on the desk, strict routine, and I start it before 131509

Half of single adults aren't even looking to date. The pool is thinner — @drthomaswhitfield

1.8K2:18Half of single adults aren't even looking to date. The pool is thinner than the apps make it look. Resignation and accep1164311

You can be happily single and still want a partner. Wanting is practic — @drthomaswhitfield

1.8K2:08You can be happily single and still want a partner. Wanting is practical, yearning is a preoccupation. Ask what you'd be1475526

Having a kink and being detached look identical from the outside. The — @drthomaswhitfield

2K2:53Having a kink and being detached look identical from the outside. The tell isn't during. It's the next morning. Substack11513918

Every fall the same thing shows up in session, and people keep calling — @drthomaswhitfield

1.1K1:53Every fall the same thing shows up in session, and people keep calling it laziness. About 5% of American adults have sea981019

If you have to contort to fit in somewhere, that's not your community. — @drthomaswhitfield

1.4K1:16If you have to contort to fit in somewhere, that's not your community. But there is room for you in this one. Most peopl1061507

"You deserve someone who can give you the same love" is not a complime — @drthomaswhitfield

227.7K4:16"You deserve someone who can give you the same love" is not a compliment. It's the polite version of "I feel overwhelmed13K4403941.8K

Welcome to my therapy wrapped 2025. #TherapyWrapped #TherapyHumor #Men — @drthomaswhitfield

50.6K1:33Welcome to my therapy wrapped 2025. #TherapyWrapped #TherapyHumor #MentalHealthComedy #TherapistLife #2025Wrapped7.9K1881.6K399

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 19.1% ER

Dec 30Sep 24Sep 29

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 29, 2026	926	79	6	2	4	9.40%
Sep 28, 2026	2,385	151	11	1	7	6.83%
Sep 27, 2026	853	63	2	2	8	7.85%
Sep 26, 2026	442	13	0	0	2	2.94%
Sep 25, 2026	1,345	131	5	0	9	10.11%
Sep 24, 2026	1,834	116	4	3	11	6.71%
Sep 23, 2026	1,759	147	5	5	26	8.93%
Sep 22, 2026	2,007	115	13	9	18	6.83%
Sep 21, 2026	1,053	98	1	0	19	9.40%
Sep 20, 2026	1,353	106	15	0	7	8.94%
May 24, 2026	227,700	13,000	440	394	1,828	6.08%
Dec 30, 2025	50,600	7,891	188	1,602	399	19.13%